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Saturday 26 March 2016

How to go at one's own pace

How to go at one's own pace








There have never been quite the two just the same people. There have never been quite the two same people who feel the same, who have experienced just the same. And there will probably never be! The journey of all of us is different on every level. The emotions, the lessons, the paths and all that fill our days make us who we are and not all of us are on the same level. Some of us can deal and handle 20 tasks a day, let's say, and the person next to us can ''only'' deal with 10. Do you know such a person? Which group would you think you belong to? Perhaps, in the past time, when we were younger we could feel that we can handle everything, we can fight all the people and we can fight the world! We were not afraid of anything at all, maybe we did not even realize what was in a stake, what was in a game. And what about now? We have so many things on our mind that there is just not a place for anything, at all! Some people can deal with this world we are currently living in, some people can handle the pressure of a daily job, some people can go out every day till 4am, and some people just need a little bit of more sleep. Some people can handle the show business, the pressure or a press, of people asking any types of questions, and some people are more introverted than extroverted. This is just the way it is, this is how our world is spinning around. And, of course, some people are more outgoing and the others are more sensitive. Some people may need more time than others, some people may need more space than others and some need more of this or more of that than others. Who and what do you prefer? Who do you think are you in your very own words? I really do hope we are all understanding the importance of this. Not to judge anybody, not to put anyone in the same box, not to compare a person to person. As long as we do this, a lot of the things we wish to be avoided, are actually going to be avoided. People are not going to suffer any psychological dilemma, related to the above subject. How do we know it the people can be tolerant enough to each other? How do we know if the people can respect each other? How can we more help each other? To be more open to each other and honest? Even the 2 totally opposite people can tolerate each other if they are really willing to do so and know the reasons are big enough for this! I have learnt this on my own with my own mistakes and faults. I even thought I could make everything on my own, without anybody helping me, and yes, I had made a huge, an enourmous mistake about this, being a lonely camper. Now days, I feel and I know and I understand the importance of being able to open up to somebody we trust. If you are truly lucky enough to have such a person close to you, I argue you to never let him or her go. It is a true gift that should never ever be taken for granted! Appreciate the person for who and what he or she is. Not to try to change her or him for the sake of yourself, yet always be ready to be there for them, to help them, to be willing to make them better for the sake of everyone involved. Thank you and thank you for reading. I shall be back again here soon!

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