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Monday 26 August 2013

Words vs Actions


Words vs Actions







A word. Words. A sentence. Sentences. Lyrics. An expression. Expressions.

Action. Actions. Taking an action. Taking a step. Act upon something.

The shortest answer is doing.

There was a difference between what you said and what you did.

Show me, don’t tell me.

Do not wish it was easier, wish you were better!

Characterize people by their actions, and you will never be fooled by their words!

Our actions are who we are; our words are who we hope to be.

We have too many high sounding words, and too few actions that correspond with them.

Words may lie, but actions will always tell the truth.

You can say sorry a million times, say I love you as much as you want, say whatever you want, whenever you want. But if you are not going to prove that the things you say are true, then don’t say anything at all because if you cannot show it, your words don’t mean a thing.

Sometimes the words can hurt more than the physical pain.


What words have you spoken recently?

What actions have you taken recently?

Have you been diligent with your words?

Have you been diligent with your actions?

Are you the sort of person who speaks at every single opportunity yet with not real actions to back it up with?

Have you done today something for someone who will never be able to repay it to you?

I myself have been willingly keen on keeping my words. Not to promise anything that I feel I was not ready or able to fulfil yet. Being proactive rather than reactive is the name of the game here. And yes, of course, I have been still making mistakes along the way and learning from them simultaneously. And I have still so much to learn, so much to do, so much to finish, so much to go.

What sort of people have you been keeping in touch?

What sort of people have you been relating to?

What sort of people have you been staying in contact?

What sort of people have you contacted recently?

What sort of people have you been with on the same wavelength?

What sort of people have you been connecting with most recently?

What sort of people have you been feeling like at home with?

What sort of people have you been there for them at any time, at any moments, in any place whatsoever?

What sort of people have they been there for you at any time, at any moments, in any place whatsoever?

What sort of people have you been enjoying their company most, the most recently?

What sort of people have you been most clicking with for the most of the time?

What sort of people have you been forming the master mind with the most, for the most of the time?

What sort of people have you been a mutual mind with the most, for the most of the time?

What role do they play in your life and what role have you been playing in their lives?


Now, we all realize that we cannot build the castles on empty words only. There needs to be a willing hand, a pot and clay, some ideas thrown in, a lot of patience, plenty of time, an effort to be put in, love, hope, believe, faith and much, much more!

Who does mean well with you?

Have you been sick and tired of people around you telling you things and sweet nothings and you so know in your heart of hearts that they words mean close to nothing?

Who can you possibly trust the most? Is it your family? Is it your friends? Is it your co-workers? Is it your best friend? Is it your teacher? Is it your mate? Is it your wife? Is it your husband? Is it your spouse? Is it your neighbour? Is it your child? Is it your parent/parents? Is it your sister? Is it your brother? Is it your cousin? Is it your nephew? Is it your soul mate? Is it your kindred spirit?

Feeling of safety and security is so important, it is so vital, especially in this world.

People feel insecure, lonely and alone. And no, it is not an easy task to find a person you can totally and absolutely trust and feel like you can share with this person your inner most dreams, ambitions, aspirations, worries, troubles, challenges, good days and bad days, etc.

How would you recognize in your opinion a person worth fighting for?

Do they have a sing on their forehead telling you so?

How would you describe a responsible and trustworthy person?

Who would you invite in your close circle and you would you rather prefer leave out?

Who do you need? Who do you not need?

Who needs you??

Whose actions speak louder than their words?

Have you yourself been the best of all examples to others and those around you?

Have you lost it once or twice on the occasions?

What did you do right afterwards when you realize you had made a mistake, you had said something that should be left alone by itself? Did you go and apologize? Or did you say nothing at all and took the action in order to prove to the very person what they mean to you and what sort of person you are?

Have you given an advice to somebody on such a topic?

No matter what we do, no matter what we say, the right people will recognize the like - minded folks. They will still keep on looking until they bump into them.

Can you prove yourself by actions rather than by plain words on their own?

From your very own perspective, what ignites in you if you hear somebody talk about a certain topic?

From your very own perspective, what ignites in you if you see somebody do something about a certain challenge?


There’s a crack, a crack in everything, that’s how the light gets in ~ Leonard Cohen.



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2 comments:

  1. actions do speak louder than words. Sometimes though no matter how hard you try to be active you come up against a wall of words.

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