HIGH MAINTENANCE PERSON (Wanna meet up?!)

HIGH MAINTENANCE PERSON

(Wanna meet up?!)

How difficult can it really get to find a person to stay with for the rest of your life?

How difficult can it really get to find a passion of yours that you will enjoy rising up to each and every single Monday morning?

How long can it possibly take?

How many days or weeks or months or years or even decades can it possibly take?

Have you found both of these, and even more?

Things that may seem to look easy to gain may turn out to be the very opposite of what we have thought previously in the first place.

What does high maintenance person require?

Does high maintenance person represent a positive figure to you?

Or does high maintenance person represent a negative figure to you?

Do you know a high maintenance person?

What characteristic traits would you grant a high maintenance person?

Depending on your answers, would you be interested in and up to meeting up with such a person?

What would, perhaps, the topic of your conversation be?

Would you choose a specific place to go to?

The answers we receive depend on the questions we're willing to ask. It's all a matter of discovering the particular questions that will help you to access more resourceful states. For example, if learning and progress are important to you, then a question such as "How can I use this situation to do even better in the future?" will be most effective in breaking a negative emotional pattern.

What would you think a high maintenance person requires to his/her happiness?

What do you require?

What would make you ultimately happy and satisfied and fulfilled?

Do some people have wild and crazy dreams and some are just able to dream without the need or the steps needed in enquiring and fulfilling your dreams?

To me, personally, it is a very good thing to possess and have the ability to show the world your true face, your true colours. If they like them, that is good. And if they do not like these, that is good, too. It is of course nothing personal and no offence taken.

Every one of us has an ideal picture in his or her mind of how the world our him or her should look like, like the people should behave, what the people should say or not to say for that matter, how they should dress up, how they should eat and what they should eat, how they should treat their children and spouses, how they should cook and prepare their food, how they should or should not drive their cars, what kind of transport they should use, what kind of flowers should be growing in their beautiful and lovely gardens, what time they should walk their dogs at, or if at all, how they should do their exercises, what sort of exercises they should do, how they should treat their servants if they have any and if they should have any servants for that matter in the first place also, how they should read their books and what sort of literature they should indulge in, what type of music should or should not be listening, what kind of groups they should belong to if any and what sort of groups they should avoid, what neighbourhood they should live in and when they should put their rubbish out, what sort of thoughts they should be having on a daily basis, what type of words they should use, what sort of friends they should go out with and what type of friends they should never call onto, what shops they should go to and what groceries they should bring home with them, what schools they children should attend to and when and how to organize their children’s play dates, who they should date and who they should not date under any circumstance, how long they should be dating for, what sort of gifts they should be receiving and what type of gifts they should be giving away, what colours they should be their favourite, where they should go on their honeymoons, who they should marry to, how many children they should have if any or if they should remain single for life, what parties and conferences they should attend to, what seminars they should go to and with whom, what countries they should visit and what else they should or should not be bringing along with them, what kind of visitors they should be having over, what kind of wine they should be drinking if any for that matter, what their relationships should look like and feel like, what they should be writing about in their journals if anything at all for that matter, where they should go on their field trips, what currency they should or should not be paying, what water they should or should not be drinking, what their chats and phone calls and messages and talks and speeches should be all about, with whom they should have a meaningful and stimulation conversation, what they should be putting in their statuses, etc.

This list could be very, very long if not unlimited. The more people there are, the more challenging it can obviously get! And we human beings have that special need to complicate things and make it bigger and huge and more massive that it is really looking like in a real world.

What do we do this to ourselves and to those around us and to the world in general?

This must be a paradox. Paradox about us and learning the lessons and teaching this to others if needed and if necessary!

Do we judge people?!

Every person we meet is our mirror in one way or the other. What do you like in particular about this person? What do you not like in particular about his very person? 

Have you learnt to embrace and love and appreciate the very same things about yourself?

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