Everyone is fighting the same battle as you!!!

Everyone is fighting the same battle as you!!!

The statement above pretty much summarizes the article I am going to write about. It also pretty much says it all in one sentence about the struggle we are all going through, we are all fighting, we are all in a battle with, what that life thing is all about. How come that we can compare ourselves to others, knowing we have it all put together, or not put together for that matter, how come that we may say that we all know what the others have been going, doing, saying, thinking and no one could possibly understand the situation we are finding ourselves in, at all?

We all want to be loved.

We all want to be and to feel needed.

We all crave for an attention.

We all starve for an appreciation.

We all need an understanding.

We all need to feel understood.

We all desired to be held, hugged, and kissed.

We all need each other.

We all need each other’s help.

We all need to be heard.

We all need to be listened to.

We all need to have someone to laugh with.

We all want to be close to someone, intimately.

We all need someone to smile at.

We need someone to be close to.

• Take a responsibility for your own life.
• Take a responsibility for your own actions.
• Take a responsibility for your own words.

A few nice words can help a person a lot more than you think!

What story have you been telling yourself? What inner voice of yours have you been listening to, have you been paying attention to? What sort of voice has been influencing you? What kind of voice has been leading your life? What type of voice has been in charge of you, of your life, and interacting with your personality? Have the words you have been talking to and listening yourself back been mostly positive OR negative ones? Is that helping you or rather slowing you down? Is that pushing you forward or rather dragging you down, pulling you backwards? Have you been judging others or yourself recently? Every single one of us is trying our very best to succeed, to be successful, to be in a loving relationship, to have a dream job, passionate and creative friends, loving family, a beautiful house, healthy and happy and smart children. All of us want that, and more. We are doing and working with the resources that are at hand for us at the time we are handling them for that particular situation. The consequences there are our own responsibilities to deal with.

Oh, and, by the way, have you been keeping a Gratitude Journal?  A notepad where you can write down and reflect on your thoughts that have happened and occurred during your day? Have you noted your 5 things in a day that you are grateful and thankful for? What are they? Would you be able to recall at least 5 situations where you felt the universe has your back, this is all a friendly place that works for you, and not against you?

What you see in others, the same lies within you also, be it a positive trait or a negative one.

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