Celebrate. A BIG TIME!! :-)

Celebrate. A BIG TIME!! J

Ø Are you looking for a reason to celebrate?

Ø Do you need one in order to celebrate, a big time?

Ø How would your celebration time look like?

Ø Who would you invite in?

Ø Who would help you to arrange everything, anything?

Ø How long would it last for?

Ø What accessories would you need?

Ø What chances would you take?

Are people getting you, really, at all?

Are people following you?

Do people understand you?

Do people know what you mean?

Do you feel ‘different’ from others?

Have you been following the crowd?

Are you the leader?

Are you the follower?

Do you feel as if you are an outsider?

Do you ‘fit in’, at all?

Are you ‘suited’ for this society, for this community?

Do you stand out of the crowd?

Do you ‘sense’ as if you somewhat do not ‘belong’ here?

Do you ‘feel’ as if you somehow are not ‘made’ for this century?

Do you ‘feel’ as if you somehow are not ‘made’ for this time?

Do you ‘feel’ as if you somehow are not ‘made’ for this place?

Do you ‘feel’ as if you somehow are not ‘made’ for this location?

Do you ‘feel’ as if you somehow are not ‘made’ for this country?

Do you ‘feel’ as if you somehow are not ‘made’ for this continent?

What makes you think like that?

Who makes you think this way?

Have you ever had those feelings of familiarity with era that had happened ages ago?

Do you associate yourself with movies, films, books, people and personalities, cars, clothes/clothing, accessories, vintage style, food, drinks, poems, poetry, a way of thinking, speaking, writing, making and creating music, a music in general, all genres, teaching, making things and enjoying them, having a banter with your mates, with your fellows, with your friends, capturing moments, cherishing those moments, siblings love and siblings rivalry, telling stories by the fire, family moments and laughs and smiles and cries and agonies and worries, etc. etc from sometime ago, from somewhere else?

How do you differentiate and distinguish between someone who is ‘there’ with you, who seems and actually IS on the ‘same wavelength’ as you, someone who really ‘gets’ you, someone who ‘listens’ when you speak, someone who practices a true listening ‘with’ you, someone who is authentic in himself/herself, someone who is true to himself/herself/others/you, someone who is comfortable with himself/herself, someone who is comfortable in his/her own skin, someone who is comfortable around others and you, someone who does not know a pretence, someone who does not pretend to be someone who he/she is not, someone who is not a ‘fake’!

How do you know this person?

How do you know about this person?

How do you know about finding this person?

Where do you look for this person?

How do you know about yourself?

How do you go about finding yourself?

How do you go about creating yourself?

What do you actually do when you feel the way you feel??

Do you subscribe to any group of that sort?

Do you subscribe to anything at all?

How do you react when you feel somehow isolated from the outside world and living your own and separate world of your own?

Is there such a world?

Are you the private owner of this unique place?

Are you the private owner of this unique world you call your own?

Do you go there often?

Is this your hiding place?

Is this your sacred place?

Is this your place of escape?

Is this your place of refuge?

Is this your secret place?

Is this your secret garden?

Is this your home for thoughts?

Is this your home away from home?

Is this your ‘everything’?

Would you rather follow the crowd?

Would you prefer being as the others?

Would you rather be the second best?

Would you prefer not to have your very own voice?

Would you rather not to sing your very own song?

Would you prefer not to be counted in, anywhere, at all?

Would you rather remain silent?

Would you prefer not to be included, anywhere, at all?

Would you rather be your own boss?

Would you prefer to be bossed around?

Would you rather speak up your own mind?

Would you prefer to be listening to others’ orders and instructions?

Would you rather be playing solo?

Would you prefer be playing together with others?

Would you rather show other how to create, how to make, how to do things?

Would you prefer to be showed by others how to create, how to make, how to do things?

Would you rather be told what to do, at all?

Would you prefer tell others what needs to be done?

Admit to yourself: Yes, I am different and it feels absolutely FANTASTIC to me!!

I do not compare myself to anyone but to my yesterday’s version of myself!

I owe it to myself first so that I could give more away of myself in service to others.

I would always celebrate all of my variability, all of my differentiations, all of my quirkiness, all of that that does not fit, and does not suit to the society I am currently living in.

I would celebrate all of my craziness and boldness and strength and brevity, and curiosity and courageous, and vitality and stamina, and smarts and beauty and loveliest attitude and my unique character traits, my independence, my sense of humour and sense of creativity and a never give up approach to life and to everything. My passion about the people and the compassion I have toward them!

You can do the same. The invitation is awaiting your response…. J

“Is it so bad, then, to be misunderstood? Pythagoras was misunderstood, and Socrates, and Jesus, and Luther, and Copernicus, and Galileo, and Newton, and every pure and wise spirit that ever took flesh. To be great is to be misunderstood.” ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

If you don’t fit in, then you are probably doing the right thing!!

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