There Is No Prince Charming….

There Is No Prince Charming….

I have come to a realization (I assume this would be a good way to start a sentence) and a conclusion that there simply is NOT a Prince Charming of our wildest dreams for us out there waiting!

So we may as well enjoy the journey, savour the moment, go with the flow, be grateful for the process happening...

Well, unless, the one you are having at the moment, is in your very eyes your very own Prince Charming. Then and only then, in that case, YES,

THIS IS A PRINCE CHARMING…..

…. of YOURS, that is!!!

Are you single?

Are you in a relationship?

Are you married?

Are you divorced?

Are you separated?

Are you widowed?

Are you in an open relationship?

Have you been dating?

What does your Mate from Heaven sound and look like?

What does your Mate from Hell sound and look like?

The thing I am trying to point out here is that our minds have been bombarded by pictures of the ‘perfect’ man and the ’perfect’ woman at every corner imaginable.

However what we do have to realize it that no one is perfect. And that is a perfection in itself. Our imperfections are our perfections. We have flaws and that is the way it is supposed to be, that is the way it should and shall be.

The very things that we loved and adored at the begging of the relationship are going to slowly but surely wear off, eventually. Learning to enjoy them, to love them, to embrace them, to cherish them exactly for what they are is a true meaning of loving and respect.

Search for an ideal partner that ‘fits’ you bill. Someone who works alongside you, who loves you and wants you and needs you and respects you and cherishes you and adores you and stands behind you and is there for you for better and worse.

Someone who apologizes and worries about you, who helps you and asks about you and your day. Someone who truly and really wants to spend the time with you, someone who takes you out, who smiles with you and laughs at your jokes, who intrigues you in a cranky way, someone who makes you belly laugh out loud!

Someone who takes criticism deliberately and constructively, someone who is interesting, creative and passionate about what he has been up to in the world!

Someone who actually ‘shows’ you what his love means for you.

Someone who has interests of his own, who is comfortable in his own skin, is healthy, someone who believes in you, someone who you can trust in and who you feel being comfortable around.

Someone who is caring, loving, kind. Someone who is not ego-driven, someone who is generous, giving and compassionate. Someone who shares similar values to yours and has goals planned to strife for.

Trust your heart.

Trust your instinct.

Trust your intuition.

Trust your gut feeling.

So…. What are you after right now??? J

Good Luck!!!