NON-DEMANDING INTENSE FRIENDSHIP

NON-DEMANDING INTENSE FRIENDSHIP

(Best Wishes for 2013 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) J

§  Do you just not love the idea of it? Or is it an idea OR a fact??

§  Do you think is this kind of relationship possible at all?

§  After all, you have not had one like this before? Or have you?

§  Does that mean more than ‘just’ a friendship?

§  What does ‘non-demanding’ stand for?

§  What does ‘intense’ stand for?

Experience is the teacher!

Give a man a fish and you will feed him for a day.

Teach a man to fish and you will feed him for a lifetime.

The deepest satisfactions in life are found in relationships. And there is nothing more powerful for building positive relationships than a power of love.

At the end of the journey the most satisfied people in the world are people who gave their lives away to help others.

The only ones among you who will be truly happy are those who have solved and found how to serve.

You are here to enrich the world and you impoverished yourself if you forget the errand.

Friendship, love, relationships, mating, encounters, divine connections, soul/mates, courtships, family, social gatherings are here for us to serve us. They teach us lessons. Especially the people, the individuals who push our ‘hot buttons’ are our greatest teachers who teach us that we have not yet matured in that particular characteristic trait. We are supposed to be here for each other. It is not good for a person to be alone! Our soul mates keep coming back and coming back and showing up into our lives – those are the most loving messages that we receive. Special people in our lives who we do not agree with are here for a reason. If a couple, a man and a woman, agrees on everything, they never argue with each other, they never listen to each other, they never exchange opinions and views with one another, when they never express their own very individuality and nature, that means that in that case – one person is not needed in the relationship. They may not be living in their very own souls or are not suited enough for each other to blossom into their very best experience in this world and in their very own purpose/reason in this lifetime.

To me, non-demanding intense friendship represents this very knowledge I was describing above. It is based in a spiritual nature, relationship that was made to blossom, a relationship that was meant to happen, a relationship that was meant to come, a relationship that was meant to come to be. The persons involved in that kind of relationship serve at their very best and are the greatest teachers for and with one another and at the same time, their very natures are in the best possible position to serve and to be served!!

It is a beautiful relationship, a bond, everything flows as a way of being, there are no demands, no rules, nor restrictions, no jealousy, no egos, no feelings of being unloved, not respected, no hatred, not heard or listened to, both souls are being fully fed and satisfied.

There is a full involvement on both sides, understanding and a habit of being understood, a responsibility, a trust, it is guided by effective values, an acceptance as the way it is, caring, maintaining, nurtured, it has its meaning and contribution, giving time to express their fulfilment, their full brilliance, childlike, humoured, mutual benefit, tender, desire, abundance, accepting, synergistic, happy, creative, proactive, secure, energetic, passionate in a childish way, enjoyment and learning / teaching that comes out of this sort of relationship is the truly and fully experienced, deeply settled human state. It is satisfying for each other and all needs are being met.  

Those are the rules of this game.

§  What are your take on points today?

§  Are you being in a non-demanding intense relationship / friendship?

§  Are you being a non-demanding intense friend to someone?

§  Who is that someone to you, if there is anyone?

§  How do you know that you live up to this kind of relationship?

§  How do you know your friend lives up to this kind of relationship?

§  How would you know when and if you both are relating in the non-demanding intense way?

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