The Indian Talking Stick
The Talking Stick
is based on Native American Tradition
The Talking Stick was a method used by native
Americans, to let everyone speak their mind during a council meeting, a type of
tribal meeting. According to the indigenous American's tradition, the stick was
imbued with spiritual qualities, that called up the spirit of their ancestors
to guide them in making good decisions. The stick ensured that all members, who
wished to speak, had their ideas heard. All members of the circle were valued
equally.
The talking stick has been used for
centuries by many Indian tribes as a means of just and impartial hearing. The
talking stick was commonly used in council circles to decide who had the right
to speak. When matters of great concern would come before the council, the
leading elder would hold the talking stick, and begin the discussion. When he
would finish what he had to say, he would hold out the talking stick, and
whoever would speak after him would take it. In this manner, the stick would be
passed from one individual to another until all who wanted to speak had done
so. The stick was then passed back to the elder for safe keeping.
Talking Stick Rules
Whoever holds the talking stick has
within his hands the power of words. Only he can speak while he holds the
stick, and the other council members must remain silent. The eagle feather tied
to the stick gives him the courage and wisdom to speak truthfully and wisely.
The rabbit fur on the end of the stick, reminds him that his words must come
from his heart.
We all know that speaking the truth is
powerful. The history of AA (Alcoholic Anonymous) and other step programs and
the practice of psychotherapy are all based on this awareness: that speaking
the truth is healing. But it is healing for the group as a whole because as
each individual listens, in silence and reverence, a whole world of
understanding opens up.
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