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Saturday 22 July 2017

changing one's personality.

changing one's personality.


Changing one's personality over the course of one's own life.
How much that can actually change?
And for what reasons is that, actually?

Looking back at, when we were 15.
Then, in our 20's, 30's, etc.
I am wondering, what are we going to be like in our 40's, 50's and more?

Is that even possible that a person can change?
Can our feelings and opinions change, as well?
Can we hold different views, too?
Can we also say and to completely different things from what we did in the previous years of our life?

How come and why is that that sometime couples come work things out? They can come together, over and over, again and again. Still learning something new about each other with every lesson that comes in their way.
They are more mature, now, you may say, or I may hear you think or say.
They can find a way to talk to each other on more sensible and sensitive way. They can really, really start listening to one another! I mean, a real listening.
They can appreciate each other more!
They can tolerate one another more!
They can respect each other more!
Because they really want to make things work out, for them.

How many times over the lifetime do you get to hear someone is truly and really interested in you? With real and open genuine feelings? How much gut does that actually take for one person to admit to something like this and to say that out loud to the person of their choice??
If you are lucky, once is enough, already. And good for you. Then, just then, things are going to get going, to really get moving and to really have some sense, for you and for and in your life!!
Might be uncanny, yet, that is all served on a platter for you. For your taking and first and second helping!

And I really want that, from the bottom of my heart!!


Thank you a lot for your time and reading this post!!!!!

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