Promises...

Promises...

I have always been wondering...

When we get married, how far can our promises go?

When we trust someone, do they deserve our trust?

When we promised someone who we got married to, that we would stay with them for as long as they live, and then, we find somebody else.

How much weight does our promise have?

Would we ignore the person and would we put ourselves first? Our needs? Our wants? Our desires?

What would the promises be there for, then? If not for keeping them? For keeping our word?

Where it the line that draws what is acceptable and what is not acceptable?

Where is the boundary? And who states them?

Have your trust been ever betrayed? By a friend? By someone you love and adore? What did you do? What would you do, now?

Would you think of a situation differently if that happened to you? If that happened to someone you love? If that happened to your friend? If that happened to some stranger you do not know at all?

Does it depend on each situation? If both parties are involeved? If both parties feel the very same? What if the children are involved? Would you put them first? Or would you look after your very own needs and wants and desires first and foremost?

Does an unconditional love really exist?

Does an unconditional friendship really exist?

If so, we should always be there for the other, we should not cheat on our loved ones, we should put them first, we should stay there with them, no matter what, if sick or happy or ill or successful, or stressed or lonely or just simply alone – feeling alone, and make them feel the other way, around!!

That is why and what our promises are here for.... in my opinion!!

Thank you for reading and your time, as always!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!