Imperfection is a new HOT
(Part 2)
The
differences between us are also the ones that have been bringing us back over
and over again together!
Nothing ever
has to be perfect in my eyes!!
Wabi Sabi
Love celebrates and embraces all the imperfection in its very own pure and
perfect deep way!
You get what you need, not what you want.
The universe will never give you anything you can’t handle.
There is so much love within every single one of
us, it’s difficult to grasp. So much love. Love is always here. It can never be
lost.
Allow yourself to be vulnerable. Risk getting your
heart broken. It’s worth it.
The earth is part of us, as much as we are a part
of it. Caring for nature means caring for ourselves.
Move past your fears. They are here for you to learn. Let
go, and only love remains.
Is there a
way how we can celebrate our imperfections?
What is the
very imperfect thing about you that you can begin to love and to embrace and to
enjoy and to adore and to cherish and to be grateful for and to be appreciative
of and to have a celebration for?
What is it
that makes you unique?
For many
years now, people have been trying to go and strive to be perfect in every way
possible and even impossible and imaginable.
They may
have worried about not being pretty enough, not being beautiful enough, not
being smart enough, not being tall enough, not being successful enough, not
being interesting enough, not being handsome enough, not being intelligent
enough, not being clever enough, not being creative enough, not being
imaginable enough, not being fast enough, not being smiling enough, not being
funny enough, not being giving enough, not being generous enough, not being
thoughtful enough, not being something enough, etc.
When can we
realize that all that we have been given was given to us for a reason and a
purpose?
When can we
finally enjoy and love and celebrate our very imperfection and be happy for all
that we have been given?
We all have
past.
We all have
issues to deal with.
We all have
bags to carry with us along on our journey.
Just imagine,
hypothetically speaking, to be living without the need of any approval, without
the need to be liked, without the necessity to be loved and adored and
cherished, without the need to belong to any group we do not need to be a
member of.
Just imagine,
hypothetically speaking, to be finally an ultimately satisfied with who we are,
with what we have got, with where we are standing right now at this very
crucial point in our life, to be happy what we have been handed over.
What is
there that you may not be happy with?
Could it be
your nose?
Could it be
your colour of your eyes?
Could it be
your very thin lips?
Are those
your tights?
Anything else
come to mind?
Can you
possibly find a thing or two in that very particular thing that you could enjoy
looking at?
There is a
very true statement that goes something like this: if we are confused, if we
feel confusion about something, that only means that we are just about to learn
something new. We are just about to be embarking on a different path.
Learning to
enjoy our very own company.
Do we have
to match every picture in order to be and to feel perfect?
Can you look
yourself in the eye, face to face in the mirror and smile at and laugh at all
of your imperfections?
How long do
we have to struggle and fight the battle with and the war against ourselves?
What are we
going to ask ourselves at the end of our life?
These are the 3 fundamentals question
we are going to ask ourselves at the end of our journey:
1. Did I love?
2. Did I live?
3. Did I matter?
As you can
see and learn there is no question whatsoever about our looks, about our
qualifications, about all of our degrees, about our positions, about our bank
statements, about our bank accounts, about our investments, about our house,
about our possessions, about our cars, about our garden, about our shopping,
about our smartphones, about our laptops, about our computers, about our toys,
etc.
What does
really play the main priority in your life?
Is that your
family?
Is that your
health?
Is that the
fact that you are doing something that you totally enjoy and love doing?
Is it the
fact that you are giving, generous, kind, thoughtful, smart, always ready to
help?
Is it the
fact that you are enjoying and living every single and each day of your life?
Where do you
feel most at home?
Where exactly
is that?
With whom is
the feeling surrounded around?
Is there
somebody you can relate to?
Who is your
idol?
Who is your
mentor?
Who is your
role model?
How about
you being you again? What about being the best possible version of yourself? How
about achieving and striving for more tomorrow than you have achieved today so
far?
It is so
incredibly important to love our very own solitude. In that moment, we have
been given a chance and an opportunity to really learn about ourselves, who we
are, what we like, what we dislike, what we are here to do, what we are
passionate about, what it is that feels right to us and the opposite.
How many
days can you spend on your own without the need to give a call to somebody?
How long can
you remain silent without missing someone?
How far can
you get with your connections?
How deep can
you go with your one and only connection?
Know that
all you have now is perfect. You are exactly where you are supposed to be.
The place,
the people around you, the position you hold, the food you eat, the music you
listen to, the books you read are here for a reason. The purpose to make more
of you, to help you, to raise you, the make you a more accomplished, more
wholesome person!
ENJOY!! J
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