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Tuesday, 9 July 2013

The rules are meant to be broken… or not?!?

The rules are meant to be broken… or not?!?












What rules do you live by?

What rules do you apply to your everyday living?

What rules would you rather prefer not to follow, if any at all?


Rules are here for a reason.

That reason being to help us, to support us, to guide us, to empower us, to make us stronger, to shows us who we are, to teach us, to learn from, to educate us.

Are there special rules that apply to everyone, to anyone?

What are they?

What rules do you use in order to lead and have a successful life?

What do you obey?

Who do you obey?

Who does obey you?

What rules cannot you imagine your life without?

What rules must be included in your life every time, at any given time?


We as human beings must have rules in our life in order to lead and life a successful, fulfilled and harmonious life.

We need order.

We need to organize.

We need rules.


The routine that we go through day in and day out is there for a reason. We brush our teeth daily, we wash our face daily, we eat daily, we hopefully exercise daily, we drink water daily, we go to work daily, we soothe our children, we tuck our children into their beds, we speak to our children, we talk to our friends, we chat with our parents on the phone, we go shopping, we go swimming, we go running, we go jogging, we go and visit our relatives, we water our plants and our trees and our flowers, we feed our children daily, we encourage our friends, our colleges at work, our housemates and flatmates, our co-workers, our bosses, our room-mates, our class mates, our neighbours, we love and adore our wives, and our husbands, and our lovers, and our spouses, and our girlfriends, and our boyfriends.

We do all those things automatically.

The habits are here also for us to be done by us on a daily basis.


The rule is the rule is the rule


What if someone has told you something you would not certainly agree with in a millions years? Would you tell the person? Would you apply your rule?

What are your rules?

Would you ever consider telling the lie?

Would you ever consider stealing something from the shop?

Would you ever consider shop-lifting, anywhere at all?

Would you ever consider switching off your phone after certain hours at night?

Would you ever go on a date with a smoker?

Would you ever go on a date with someone taking drugs?

Would you ever consider drinking alcohol, even though you are a sober for a long time now?

Would you ever consider forgiving someone for hurting you, for making you wrong?

Would you ever consider asking somebody for a help?

Would you ever consider driving a car even though you have had a few drinks in you?

Would you ever consider smoking a cigarette even though you have never done this before?

Would you ever consider going through adoption process for your own sake?

Would you ever consider living with your children?

Would you ever consider living with your parents?

Would you ever consider helping a nasty neighbour?

Would you ever consider visiting your relatives who you have not talked in a very long time?

Would you ever consider splashing out all off your money out of the window?

Would you ever consider taking a drug yourself?

Would you ever consider taking a risk?

Would you ever consider going for a riskier investment?

Would you ever consider jumping out of the plane?

Would you ever consider bungee jumping?

Would you ever consider eating unhealthy?

Would you ever consider not shaving your face?

Would you ever consider not making your bed every single each morning?

Would you ever consider not shaving your legs in case you are a woman?

Would you ever consider not responding to a text message?

Would you ever consider not responding to a call?

Would you ever consider not responding to your emails?

Would you ever consider not responding to a home bell?

Would you ever consider leaving a place for a pregnant woman?

Would you ever consider sharing anything with the people around you?



Or would you be open - minded in those instances?



The many people there are, the many rules need be applied, need to be put to work!


People differ in many ways, in a way of thinking, in a way of talking, in a way of speaking, in a way considering things, in a way of dealing with issues, in a way of dealing with challenges, in a way of dealing with problems, in a way of relating to one another, in a way of writing, in a way of expressing themselves to others, in a way of advising each other, in a way of embracing people around them, in a way of cherishing their loved ones, their close ones, their dear ones, anything that you can possibly think about!!

Would you have a list or rules in your mind that you will strongly and strictly stick by and by no means always stand by?

What are those rules? Do you wish the rest of us will rule our lives by your rules also?

Would you be willing to go a step further and write those rules down?

Do you think this may help?

Would you recommend this to anyone, too?

What would you suggest to others?

I am really hoping all those rules that you so willingly live by have been working out for you very well indeed!

If they do, perfect!

If they do not, you know what to do! Look and search for those that work, that will make your life easier, that will make your life happier, that will make your life more satisfied, that will make your life more enjoyable, that will make your heart sing, that will make the people around you smiling and grinning from ear to ear!!! J


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