From the BREAK-DOWN to a BREAK-THROUGH !!

From the BREAK-DOWN to a BREAK-THROUGH !!

What is the Break-down?

What is the Break-through?

Have you ever reached the point of a break-down?

Have you ever reached the point of a break-through?

What did your break-down consist of?

What did your break-through consist of?

In our lives we encounter many challenges, we go through many obstacles, we solve numerous numbers of problems, and we go through many examinations.

In every single one of them, that we solve or that we do not even solve, there is lesson to be learned. In case of not solving it, there is still a lesson that teaches us an important knowledge about the particular challenge, obstacle, problem, examination.

What is behind every single break-down that we encounter?

What is behind every single break-through that we encounter?

What was your most painful break-down that you have gone through?

What was your most eye-opening break-through that you have gone through?

With every single break-down there lies a break-through.

Our task is to recognize it, to appreciate it, to embrace it, to learn from it and to learn about it, to learn about ourselves in the process, to acknowledge it, to enlarge ourselves as human beings, to value it, to be grateful for it happening and showing up in our life.

Are we willing and open enough to look for a solution?

Are we willing and open enough to look for a resolution?

Are we willing and open enough to search for an answer?

Are we willing and open enough to go after the knowledge?

The major break-downs can happen to anybody.

The major break-downs can happen at any time of the year.

The major break-downs are here for us to learn from.

The major break-throughs can happen to anybody.

The major break-throughs can happen at any time of the year.

The major break-throughs are here for us to appreciate and to be grateful for.

Have you seen the light at the end of the tunnel yet?

Has it been shining for you?

What was your greatest, biggest, deepest, strongest, boldest break-down?

What was your greatest, biggest, deepest, strongest, boldest break-through?

What examples can we use in order to understanding the valuable learning going on when a break-down turns into a break-through?

What if (hypothetically speaking) you were left by your husband, by your wife, by your spouse, by your lover, by your girlfriend, by your boyfriend, by your best friend?

Is there a lesson to be learnt here?

Could you, perhaps, be more loving?

Could you, perhaps, be more giving?

Could you, perhaps, be more caring?

Could you, perhaps, be more appreciating?

Could you, perhaps, be more grateful?

Could you, perhaps, be more there for them?

Could you, perhaps, listen more?

Could you, perhaps, speak less?

Could you, perhaps, be more of yourself for them?

Could you, perhaps, be more forgiving?

Could you, perhaps, be more present?

Could you, perhaps, be more playful?

Could you, perhaps, be more of a shining example?

Could you, perhaps, be more positive?

Could you, perhaps, be happier?

Could you, perhaps, smiling?

Could you, perhaps, laugh more and laugh often?

Could you, perhaps, be more spontaneous?

Could you, perhaps, be more passionate?

Could you, perhaps, be more fun?

Could you, perhaps, be more of an engaging company?

Could you, perhaps, relax more?

Could you, perhaps, exercise more?

Could you, perhaps, sleep more or perhaps sleep less?

What would be the break-through out of this occurrence, out of this experience, out of this example, out of this instance, out of this happening?

Could you learn from all the mistakes that you have made so far?

You are becoming a better person.

You are becoming more loving person.

You are becoming more forgiving person.

You are becoming more relaxed.

You are becoming more fun.

You are becoming more engaging company.

You are becoming more spontaneous.

You are becoming more passionate.

You are becoming more smiling person.

You are becoming more laughing person.

You are becoming happier.

You are becoming a shining example.

You are becoming more positive.

You are becoming present.

You are becoming more giving.

You are becoming more caring.

You are becoming more appreciative.

You are becoming more grateful.

You are becoming more there for them.

You are becoming more playful.

You are becoming more of a listener for them.

You are becoming less of a talker for them.

You are becoming more of yourself for them.

The break-downs in our life have been happening, are happening and are going to happen to us in the future.

The attitude we hold toward any single break-down that happens to us would mean and represent to us the break-through that is going to come out of this.

Nothing in the entire world happens to us without a lesson to be learnt, without a reason to be acknowledged, to be appreciated, to be embraced.

We may not see the light at the end of the tunnel, we may crawl under the bed, we may stop eating at all, we may stop drinking, we may stop exercising, we may stop taking care of ourselves, we may argue with the people we love and adore and cherish and hold dear the most, we may stop working, we may stop being happy and satisfied, we may show the symptoms of depression, we may show the symptoms of frustration, we may show the symptoms of unfulfilled person, we may stop writing, we may stop smiling, we may stop doing all the things that we so much love doing all day every day, we may stop being giving, we may stop being forgiving, we may stop being loving, we may stop caring, we may stop being more playful, we may stop being more of ourselves, we may start talking negative, we may begin to show the signs of disbelieve.

Whatever that is, whatever happens to us, whatever we may stop doing, whatever we begin doing, whatever lesson is needed to be acknowledged, whatever hurt is being experienced….

There is a break-down that always turns into a break-through.

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