SHAME

SHAME

Vulnerability

Males vs Females

Women in our today’s society must (!) be perceived as ‘perfect’ in every way.

Men in our today’s society must not (!) be perceived as ‘weak’ in any way.

Where does this going to lead/take us?

Attitude makes all the difference.

There is a difference between Vulnerability and Shame.

vulnerability  

Web definitions the state of being vulnerable or exposed; "his vulnerability to litigation"; "his exposure to ridicule".

shame

Noun A painful feeling of humiliation or distress caused by the consciousness of wrong or foolish behaviour.

Verb (of a person, action, or situation) Make (someone) feel ashamed: "I shamed him into giving some away".

Vulnerability

Ø Vulnerability is not a weakness. It is human to be and to feel vulnerable.  

Ø It is showing our true face to others and not be ashamed of who we are, what we feel.

Ø There can be no vulnerability without the risk.

Ø You show your vulnerability through relationships, and those feelings are your soft spot.

Ø It is revealing us in our nakedness, our misery, our nothingness, our mortality, our mutability.

Ø The vulnerability is the greatest strength a person can have.

Ø It shows you are strong enough to care.

Ø To grow up is to accept vulnerability.

Ø To be alive is to be vulnerable.

Shame

ü How can one blush for what one adores?

ü Nature soaks every evil with either fear or shame.

ü Once we realize that imperfect understanding is the human condition there is no shame in being wrong, only in failing to correct our mistakes.

ü The only shame is to have none.

ü Hard work without talent is a shame, but talent without hard work is a tragedy.

ü Honour and shame from no condition rise. Act well your part: there all the honour lies.

ü What makes the pain we feel from shame and jealousy so cutting is that vanity can give us no assistance in bearing them.

ü Being ignorant is not so much a shame, as being unwilling to learn.

ü Whatever if begun in anger ends in shame.

There is no need to be and feel ashamed of anything. Feel free to be vulnerable.

Just Get On With It……

Please, take a moment and think of today’s very significant topic.

What are your take away points on this subject?

Any advice you would provide?

Any lessons gained?

Any experiences of your own?

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Much appreciated!! J