Being Positive => Forgiveness => HAPPINESS & PEACE

 Being Positive => Forgiveness => HAPPINESS & PEACE

Secret formula to happiness

As you think, so shall you be!!

I become what I think about all day long.

There is one important fact to realize when it comes to the F-word, that is: FORGIVENESS.

And that is that Forgiveness is a Gift that you give Yourself, not the other way round – not the gift that you would give to the other person.

There is no need to approach the person you are going to forgive. You can even do it in silence, just whispering to yourself, you can also write a Love Letter to this person and address it (that you do not have to show or/and post it onto this person) and then burn it which this simple act tells you that you have forgiven and you finally become free. If you are still holding grudges towards someone else for doing something to you that you found dishonest,  it means that you are like a prisoner in your very own head and you lost the key to the door of that prison. 

However, you are at the same time a keeper of that very prison that holds the key, a keeper who holds the answer, with which you can unlock everything you have ever wanted, wished for and desired for! Please, be aware and understand if you are still upset, feel angry with someone, that someone has a power over you for as long as you choose to stay a prisoner of your very mind. 

You need to realize that no one can make you inferior without your consent!!

Why would you not choose to become a captain of your ship rather than a keeper of your prison who lost the key?!?

I also really like the whole concept of Forgiveness as it comes back to a full circle, if you will. Once you forgive, you are free, you become content, you feel more clear, you become liberated, you are more happy about yourself and proud of who you are, you have a sense of clarity, you feel powerful, your emotions surface = happy = positive = you think more clearly and purposefully, which affects your actions which then affects your decisions and that has an effect on your destiny or your destination!!

Remember: Life is a Journey, not a destination. It is a process that unfolds in front of us as we go through all the obstacles that stand in our ways.

It is a sign of maturity. What do you choose?

Sow a thought -> reap an action

Sow an action -> reap a habit

Sow a habit -> reap a character

Sow a character -> reap a destiny

WHAT IS YOUR DESTINY GOING TO TURN UP TO BE??

Go on, go ahead and forgive. And also forgive yourself!

J