On becoming Your Very Own COACH

On becoming Your Very Own COACH

Hey, look up(!), we are NOT ants somewhere down there walking on the ground!

Funny how sometime people have an interesting way of walking: looking down onto the ground (I am just wondering: what is there that amazing to take a look at? I mean I get it. I really do!)

We are our best (or worst!) teachers to ourselves!

Are you helping yourself or are you against yourself?

Have you been your best friend or your worst, greatest enemy?

What would you do if you knew what to do? Make sense, right? :~)

Even though it may seem at times as if we do not know what to do, what to say and to whom, where to go, which route to take, what to decide, what to leave it, what to make out of it, when to keep quiet, when to stand up for ourselves, if and when to do something for others, etc. etc....

How do you go about solving it?

You have dreams and ambitions in your life that you want to achieve and go for. And still it may seem ‘impossible’ to pursue them. How come??

How about stepping into someone else’s shoes for a change? How does that sound to you?

What do I mean by that?

Imagine you have a friend who is having some difficulties with his/her life at the moment. What would you advice her/him? What would you suggest? What would you recommend? What steps would you take her/him through? What decisions would you make her/him to make? What advice would you provide? What would you be most helpful to her/him with? Would you take her/him somewhere? Perhaps to meet someone, to see someone, to talk to someone, to watch someone, to listen/hear someone talk and speak? Would you be a companion, a friend who comes along OR would you leave it up to him/her?

Those are all options definitely worth considering, going through and weighting if they could work and be put to use! No time to be wasted, no minutes to spare! Hurry up!

So now here is the fun part! J Could you be THAT BEST FRIEND/COACH TO YOURSELF???

Well, of course, you could!!

Well, then go do it!

I may hear you say: Easily said than done!

I get that point!

But IT REALLY IS THAT EASY!!

Unless...

… you choose otherwise!

If you think it is easy to do it = it is going to ‘feel’ easy to do it!

In the opposite case...

If you think it is not easy to do it = it is going to ‘feel’ like pain! Yes, I said it – like PAIN!

Or something like that! More or less anyway!

How would you handle the situation? How would you cope with the ‘problem’?

What solution would you come up with? How would you resolve it all to achieve the best possible outcome? What help would you offer? What advice would you give and provide your best friend with?

Would you take her/his hand, hold it and show him/her the right way to go? Show him/her and lead him/her to choose the right path?

OKay.

Now do it to and for YOURSELF!!!

J Best of Luck

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