You must love the other person in such a way that the other person feels free!!

You must love the other person in such a way that the other person feels free!!

Have you ever been in love? Really in love?

How did it feel?

Who was the other person?

Are you still in love?

Would you like to experience it again and again and over and over?

Would you like to be there again? And to be in love with the same person?

Have you been longing for someone?

Did it work out well?

Has it been working out well for you?

Could you improve on certain things in certain areas?

Finding the right person you can trust, you can love, you can adore, you can admire, you can cherish, you can tell anything at any time, you can open up to is a journey.

Yes, for some folks this journey may be easier than for others but pretty much the same story goes for majority of people.

How do you feel next to this person?

How do you behave toward this person?

How do you behave toward each other?

How do you both interact with each other?

How do you both talk to each other?

How do you both speak with each other?

How do you both negotiate with each other?

How do you both argue for that matter with one another?

How do you both react to one another?

How do you exchange ideas with each other?

How do you both lead a debate?

Have you found this special someone?

How have you been going about treating this person?

How has this person been going around treating you?

Is your relationship more or less of give and take, of giving and receiving?

Have you been willingly and diligently doing your part?

Have you experienced jealousy?

Are you a jealous person?

Is your partner a jealous person?

What sort of love is firing up between you both?

Love is universal. It is our need to love and to be loved in return. Love is a choice. We need it for our growth, we need it for our development, we need it for our evolution, we need it to maintain a happy attitude, happiness in general, a happy smile, a healthy body and mind and spirit and heart.

I have already written previously, earlier, about the types of love that exist within a society we have been currently living in.

Are you being grateful for having this special person in your very own life?

Are you being appreciative for having this special person in your very own life?

Are you feeling a deep gratitude for having this special person in your very own life?

Are you feeling blessed for having this special person in your very own life?

Do you love this very special person in your very own life unconditionally and without any questioning?

What would you be willing to do for this very special person in your very own life?

What would you be willing to say for this very special person in your very own life?

What would you be willing to sacrifice for this very special person in your very own life?

What would you be willing to give for this very special person in your very own life?

Have you ever felt as if you were just about to lose someone?

How did it feel to you?

What was happening?

What was occurring?

What was the reason?

What was the purpose?

What was the meaning behind it all?

Whose fault was it? If at all?

There are many ways how we should go about attempting to show our love and appreciation and adoration and admiration and gratitude to our loved and dear and close ones.

What works for you or for others does not necessarily mean that is going to work for the rest as well.

Some of us may prefer one of the following or the combination of them all in some instances!

1.     Words of affirmation

2.     Acts of service

3.     A random gift

4.     You crave ‘us’ time

5.     You want to get physical

What would best work for you in your humble opinion?

What would best work for your partner in your humble opinion?

In order to make sure that the relationship works we need to work on it.

It is a delicate state between 2 people. State of loving, of kindness, of appreciation, of tenderness, of trust, of speaking up, of opening up, of sharing, of giving, of receiving, of relating to one another, of multiplying joy and happiness, of smiling and laughing together, of having fun, of enjoying each other’s company, of having children, of caring after children, of educating children, of caring after one another, of learning together, of teaching children, of building home together as a family, of building a house, of building sand castles together, of cooking and baking together, of telling jokes to one another, of cleaning and tidying together, of eating and drinking together, of dining, of having friends over, of starting over if necessary.

Having this very special person in your life is a gift and not to be taken for granted by any chance.

Is your partner feeling a joy when around you?

Is your partner experiencing a deep love when around you?

Is your partner experiencing a deep appreciation when around you?

Is your partner experiencing a deep gratitude when around you?

Is your partner experiencing a sense of freedom when around you, with or without you?

Are you feeling and experiencing the similar emotions to your partner’s?

Have you been both happy in your relationship?

Could something, anything, been improved?

What could you include in your repertoire in your relationship?

What could your partner include in his/her repertoire in your relationship?

In what ways could you both experience more fun?

What alternations could be made to make it feel as a new with each and every passing day?

How could you both work together on this one?

Are you going to have a spirited debate this evening with your loved one? J

Love and even more love to you all!!!!!

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