BOUNDARIES

BOUNDARIES

You capture my mind & you can have my body.

You capture my soul & you can have me forever.

What are your boundaries?

Who pushes your boundaries?

How far they can go?

How far would you let them go?

How far did you set your boundaries for?

Who can reach them?

Who is unable to reach them?

How further they can push, push and push some more?

In life, it is necessary and very important and significant if and when we set the boundaries. Not only for the people around us but also for ourselves, too!

Life is about balance.

ü Balance between high and low moments in your very own life.

ü Balance between cold and hot drinks in your very own life.

ü Balance between black and white colours in your very own life.

ü Balance between happiness and sadness in your very own life.

ü Balance between laugh and cry in your very own life.

ü Balance between friends and enemies in your very own life.

ü Balance between eating vegetables and fruits in your very own life.

ü Balance between sleeping and resting and working and exercising in your very own life.

ü Balance between tall people and short people in your very own life.

ü Balance between work and play and play and work in your very own life.

Balance between sweet things and sour things in your very own life.

ü Balance between joy moments and upset moments in your very own life.

ü Balance between children and adults in your very own life.

ü Balance between fire and water in your very own life.

ü Balance between pessimist people and optimist people in your very own life.

ü Balance between big things and small things in your very own life.

ü Balance between up moments and down moments in your very own life.

ü Balance between right turns and left turns in your very own life.

ü Balance between open discussions and closed discussions in your very own life.

ü Balance between front doors and back doors in your very own life.

ü Balance between empty glasses and full glasses in your very own life.

ü Balance between heavy weight objects and light weight objects on your very own life.

ü Balance between fast drivers and slow drivers in your very own life.

ü Balance between hard boiled eggs and soft boiled eggs in your very own life.

ü Balance between dirty laundry and clean laundry in your very own life.

ü Balance between fat slices of toast/ham/meat and thin slices of toast/ham/meat in your very own life.

ü Balance between wet clothes and dry clothes in your very own life.

ü Balance between loud parties and quiet parties in your very own life.

Where do you draw the line? What would be ‘too much’ for your guts to take in and what would you be willing to allow?

Would you say that setting boundaries is very important?

Why so if you think so?

Why not so if you think so?

Have you been maintaining balance in your very own life?

At what cost is that being maintained?

Has it been working for you?

Has it been not working for you?

Setting boundaries with the people around us and also with ourselves play a huge role in our lives and in those that we touch, either directly or indirectly. The influence and the effect it leaves on ourselves and on the people in our lives is massive, significant, profound, huge, great, magnificent and important.

What are you going to do in order to make this happen?

What do you need to do in order to make this coming?

What should you do in order to make this a reality?

What are you ought to do in order to make this real?

What shall you do in order to make it work?

What will you do in order to make it go?

What do you need to apply in order to make it go to work?

How further along the way would you be willing to allow your son to push your hot buttons and your boundaries?

How further along the way would you be willing to allow your daughter to push your hot buttons and your boundaries?

How further along the way would you be willing to allow your wife to push your hot buttons and your boundaries?

How further along the way would you be willing to allow your husband to push your hot buttons and your boundaries?

How further along the way would you be willing to allow your spouse to push your hot buttons and your boundaries?

How further along the way would you be willing to allow your neighbour to push your hot buttons and your boundaries?

How further along the way would you be willing to allow your teacher to push your hot buttons and your boundaries?

How further along the way would you be willing to allow your student to push your hot buttons and your boundaries?

How further along the way would you be willing to allow your clerk to push your hot buttons and your boundaries?

How further along the way would you be willing to allow your shop assistant to push your hot buttons and your boundaries?

How further along the way would you be willing to allow your boss to push your hot buttons and your boundaries?

How further along the way would you be willing to allow your co-worker to push your hot buttons and your boundaries?

How further along the way would you be willing to allow your friend to push your hot buttons and your boundaries?

How further along the way would you be willing to allow your landlord to push your hot buttons and your boundaries?

How further along the way would you be willing to allow your landlady to push your hot buttons and your boundaries?

How further along the way would you be willing to allow your housemate to push your hot buttons and your boundaries?

Go now and set your boundaries for the sake of everyone involved!

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