It took a physical distance between them to bring them closer together emotionally.

It took a physical distance between them to bring them closer together emotionally.

We all need someone to lean on.

We all need someone to count on.

We all need someone to reach out to.

We all need someone to touch on.

We all need someone to talk to.

We all need someone to speak with.

We all need someone to chat to.

We all need someone to hold on to.

We all need someone to help out with.

We all need someone to provide a help to.

We all need someone to sleep with.

We all need someone to give a kiss to.

We all need someone to snuggle up with.

We all need someone to give a hug to.

We all need someone to  cuddle with.

We all need someone to spoon with.

We all need someone to help us carry on.

We all need someone' s shoulder to cry on.

How far would you have to go in order to realize the fact of needing someone?

How far would that have to go and reach you in order for it to reach your home?

How many ego trip(s) would it take for you in order to ask, to reach out, to get a feedback back from someone, to find an eternal happiness?

How would you feel knowing that someone dear and close to you is unreachable?

How and when do you know that it is worth fighting for and when and how do you know it would be better off left alone and let go?

Would the fact of losing someone do it for you?

Would you require an emotional break from each other in order to change the situation for yourself?

Would you require a physical distance from each other in order to change the situation for yourself?

Would you require a personal space from each other in order to change the situaion for yourself?

Would you require a professional help/advice from a specialist in order to change the situation for yourself?

What would do it for you?

Who would do it for you?

Sometimes, from time to time, we need some personal space, we need more time.

We are not islands, we need each other, we need one another.

What kind of/sort of person are you?

In order for yourself to feel love, to feel being loved, to feel being in love, would you require to be touched, stroked, cared of, told to, being given gifts/presents to, being taken away on romantic trips, or all of the above combined?

Can you be appreciative of what has been given to you already?

Can you be grateful for what has been given to you already?

How low do you need to go?

How high do you need to go?

The funny thing about people is that they sometimes realize what they should realize in the first place, quite later on, quite late, in their life.

What to do to prevent this from happening again?

What ways can you use to help yourself out to get back in touch, to get back in contact with people?

What would make you decide?

What decisions would you need to make?

What sort of people would you try to contact?

Where would you go to think, to unwind, to chill, to relax, to listen, to hear for, to pay attention to, to watch out for, etc.?

How many seconds would it take for you to realize to value, to appreciate, to be grateful for, to cherish, to be satisfied with, to be happy with the fact of having someone in your very own life?

How many minutes would it take for you to realize to value, to appreciate, to be grateful for, to cherish, to be satisfied with, to be happy with the fact of having someone in your very own life?

How many days would it take for you to realize to value, to appreciate, to be grateful for, to cherish, to be satisfied with, to be happy with the fact of having someone in your very own life?

How many hours weeks would it take for you to realize to value, to appreciate, to be grateful for, to cherish, to be satisfied with, to be happy with the fact of having someone in your very own life?

How many months would it take for you to realize to value, to appreciate, to be grateful for, to cherish, to be satisfied with, to be happy with the fact of having someone in your very own life?

How many years would it take for you to realize to value, to appreciate, to be grateful for, to cherish, to be satisfied with, to be happy with the fact of having someone in your very own life?

What steps would you take in order to come back to the centre again?

What words would you use in order to pursue the person of your heart of your actions, of your feelings?

What action steps would you take in order to swept the other person off their feet?

What gifts would you give to the person of your choice in order to let them know about you and your feelings toward them?

What ‚invisible‘ gifts would you give to the person of your choice in order to let them know about you and your feelings toward them?

What touches would you give and use to the person of your choice in order to let them know about you and your feelings toward them?

Is there such a thing as a long term distance love? Could this work? If so, what are the main reasons? Have you had any experiences with that sort of relationship?

Would you recommend it? Would you suggest it? Would you prevent it from ever happening? Would you appreciate it? Would you approve of it? Would you strongly discourage people of ever falling into it?

It has been over a year of my humble contribution to the wild wide world!! J

Yours truly

:-)

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Lucie’s 365(6) wisdom treats/pearls/bites/tidbits!! :-) (PART Seven)

Lucie’s 365(6) wisdom treats/pearls/bites/tidbits!! :-) (PART Seven)

11/5/2013: Use Instant KARMA daily!! (-:

12/5/2013: SHINE + SHINE + SHINE !!!

13/5/2013: Set High Standards for U-self

14/5/2013: Cherish/Respect your Health

15/5/2013: Do a good DEED every day!!

16/5/2013: Find out what ticks others!!

17/5/2013: 1 small idea can turn it around

18/5/2013: OPK = Other Ppl's Knowledge

19/5/2013: OPE = Other Ppl's Energy

20/5/2013: OPM = Other Ppl's Money

21/5/2013: OPS = Other Ppl's Successes

22/5/2013: OPF = Other Ppl's Failures

23/5/2013: OPI = Other Ppl's Ideas

24/5/2013: OPC = Other Ppl's Contacts

25/5/2013: Make Others Feel Important!

26/5/2013: It takes all of us to build it !!

27/5/2013: Values are meant to be costly

28/5/2013: Results r the name of a game

29/5/2013: Progress is a gr8 encourager!

30/5/2013: Faith in ftr = power in prsnt

31/5/2013: Ambition:Discipl. eager desire

1/6/2013: Measrble prgrss in a reasnble T

2/6/2013: Study the Fundamentals!!!! :-)

3/6/2013: We'll find what we search for!!

4/6/2013: Think WINTER all SUMMER !

5/6/2013: Think SUMMER all WINTER !

6/6/2013: Be humorous but not foolly! :-)

7/6/2013: Think About Great Questions!!

8/6/2013: Fasting. Fasting. Fasting. (-:

9/6/2013: DO small things in a great way

10/6/2013: All souls are in fact perfect!!

Mental VACATION!!!

We all need one.

We all experience the agony of not having one.

We all experience the pain of having none of that.

Have a Mental vacation without the thoughts of working.

Have a Mental vacation without the need of using the computer.

Have a Mental vacation without the need of stressing over anything.

Have a Mental vacation without the need of waking up on time every morning.

Can we do that?

Can we experience that?

Can we enjoy it from time to time if we really wanted it?

How to go about having one when you needed it most?

How to go about delaying all the stresses out of your life for the time being?

How to go about admitting yourself and perhaps others that we do really need one?

Have you had a mental holiday in your life?

Have you ever had a mental holiday in your life?

Are you having a mental holiday in your life right now?

Are you going to have a mental holiday in your life soon?

Would you like to go on a mental holiday in your life someday pretty soon?

What would mean for you to go on such a holiday? Would you bring something along with you? Would you bring someone along with you if you wanted to?

What would you be hoping to achieve on such holiday?

Would you be hoping to accomplish something on such holiday?

Would you be working on your hobbies?

Would you be concentrating on something, if anything at all?

Would you be working on something, if anything at all?

Would you be thinking of something, if anything at all?

Would you be considering something, if anything at all?

Would you be managing something, if anything at all?

Would you be doing something, if anything at all?

How important do you think is it to take a mental vacation from time to time?

How significant do you think is it to take a mental vacation from time to time?

How valuable do you think is it to take a mental vacation from time to time?

How beneficial do you think is it to take a mental vacation from time to time?

How progressing do you think is it to take a mental vacation from time to time?

How managing do you think is it to take a mental vacation from time to time?

How leading do you think is it to take a mental vacation from time to time?

How showing do you think is it to take a mental vacation from time to time?

How proving do you think is it to take a mental vacation from time to time?

Are you able to give this to yourself?

Are you able to provide this to and for yourself?

Can you afford to provide this very special opportunity to and for yourself?

What are you going to do there when already on it?

Are you going to enjoy every special moments there when already on it?

Are you going to relax there when already on it?

Are you going to chill there when already on it?

Are you going to de-stress there when already on it?

Are you going to unwind there when already on it?

Are you going to exercise there when already on it?

Are you going to catch up on your sleep there when already on it?

Are you going to eat healthily there when already on it?

Are you going to share your time there when already on it?

Are you going to go after your hobbies there when already on it?

Are you going to go swimming there when already on it?

Are you going to go bowling there when already on it?

Are you going to go hiking there when already on it?

Are you going to go walking there when already on it?

Are you going to go jogging there when already on it?

Are you going to go running there when already on it?

Are you going to go abroad there when already on it?

Are you going to go hunting there when already on it?

Are you going to the library there when already on it?

Are you going to visit the cinema there when already on it?

Are you going to visit the theatre there when already on it?

Are you going to do some grilling there when already on it?

Are you going to do some volunteering there when already on it?

Are you going to do some baking there when already on it?

Are you going to go picking fruits there when already on it?

Are you going to visit friends there when already on it?

Are you going to visit your relatives there when already on it?

Are you going to visit your neighbours there when already on it?

Are you going to do some writing there when already on it?

Are you going to post some postcards there when already on it?

Are you going to do some talking there when already on it?

Are you going to do some chatting there when already on it?

Are you going to do some listening there when already on it?

Are you going to listen to some music there when already on it?

Are you going to do some cleaning there when already on it?

Are you going to do some playing there when already on it?

Are you going to play tennis there when already on it?

Are you going to play squash there when already on it?

Are you going to go skiing there when already on it?

Are you going to do some hugging there when already on it?

Are you going to do some kissing there when already on it?

Are you going to do some puzzle there when already on it?

Are you going to build some sand castles there when already on it?

WHATEVER YOU DO ON YOUR MENTAL VACATION OF YOUR LIFE – DO AND ENJOY IMMENSELY!!!

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Take absolutely NOTHING for Granted!!!!

Take absolutely NOTHING for Granted!!!!

Everyone can experience feelings of frustration, feelings of disappointment, feelings of sadness, feelings of loneliness, feelings of overwhelm, feelings of stress, etc. etc.

What do you do in those moments?

How do you cope on?

How do you deal with it?

How are you getting along with the realities of life?

How are you solving your challenges thrown in your way on your path?

Take what you have with where you are with the resources available to you and do your very best with the mix of it all!

Never ever give up!!

As you think so you create!

How about is it in the area of your relationships?

·        Is everything working there as you would like it to do?

·        How can you improve on this one?

·         Are you taking the people close to you, near to you, sweet to you, dear to you, your very loved one, for granted?

·        Do they know about how you feel about them?

·        Have you told them recently?

·        Have you showed them?

·        Have you given them what they need and want and crave for and are hungry for?

·        Do you feel they are going to be there for you again tomorrow? Think again!

·        Have you touched them recently? Have you kissed them, have you hugged them, have you embrace them, have you pat them, have you soothe them, have you rock them, have you really listened to them, have you stroked them?

How about is it in the area of your health?

·        What chance is there you are going to be here again tomorrow?

·        Have you been exercising regularly and properly and daily?

·        Have you been practising yoga?

·        Have you been doing breathing exercises?

·        Have you been enjoying a great health?

How about is it in the area of your happiness?

·        Are you happy?

·        What are your thoughts you hold on a daily basis telling you about yourself?

·        How is your mind – body connection?

·        Are you feeling satisfied?

·        Are you smiling daily?

·        Are you laughing daily?

·        Are you in love with yourself?

·        Are you enjoying your very own company?

How about is it in the area of your family?

·        Have you been in touch with your family?

·        Have you been in contact with your family?

·        How is your relationship with your mother?

·        How is your relationship with your father?

·        How is your relationship with your siblings?

·        Are they your main priority in life?

·        Do they know about how you feel about them?

How about is it in the area of your friends?

·        How many friends do you have in your life?

·        How many real and true friends do you have in your life who you can count on?

·        How you keep in contact with them?

·        Do you meet regularly?

·        Do you share ideas, joys and sorrow of life?

·        Do you have your own master - mind group that you attend to on a regular basis? Who do they consist of?

·        How are you all getting on?

·        What are your common goals?

·        What are your common hobbies?

·        Where do you feel you are different from them, if in any way?

How about is it in the area of your fitness?

·        How is your fitness level?

·        Have you seen a doctor recently, if needed?

·        Have you been eating healthily?

·        Have you been looking after your body appropriately?

·        Have you been interested in health in general?

·        Have you been studying and learning and reading books about health and all health related issues?

How about is it in the area of your personal development?

·        Have you been on a personal journey yourself? How is that working for you?

·        How long have you been learning about yourself?

·        Have you been attending to seminars?

·        Have you been reading personal development books a lot?

·        Have you been listening to tapes and audios a lot?

·        Have you been watching education videos a lot?

·        Have you been meeting like – minded, interesting, fun, goal oriented people?

·        Have you been listening to people?

·        Have you been talking to people?

·        Have you been surround yourself by the people who inspire you, motivate you, love you, admire you, see you as success, people who care for and about you?

·        Is there a thing or two you can appreciate more and improve on?

How about is it in the area of your work related issues?

·        Are you doing what you love?

·        Are you enjoying a job you are currently in?

·        Are you your own boss?

·        Do you have colleges you get on well with?

·        How are you working hours?

·        How do you feel on Mondays?

·        How do you feel at the end of the weekend?

·        What thought are running through your mind, through your head every single morning before and right after awakening?

·        Any chances you could make for yourself in this very important area?

How about is it in the area of your personal inner peace?

·        Are you at peace with yourself?

·        Do you practice meditation?

·        Do you attend any groups?

·        Are you a member of anything?

·        Have you been volunteering your time and resources?

·        Have you been giving away of yourself as well as receiving?

·        Have you been contributing regularly?

·        What is your greater purpose, what is your greater reason, what is your greater goal, what is your greater passion, what is your greater belief?

·        Can there be anything added by you in this area?

Things, people, places, the circumstances we so take lightly and for granted may not be here tomorrow. Think twice before considering them, before thinking of and about them, before appreciating them, before speaking about and with them, giving them gifts and receiving gifts from them as well.

Appreciating small and little things, acknowledging people and persons who could have never been able to repay you, being grateful for your health, for all your relationships, for your position, for the house you live in, for the surroundings around you, for the neighbourhood, for the food, for the meals and drinks, for the church you attend to, for all the groups you are involved in, etc. etc. is the mastery of your life, as said and written in my humble opinion.

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