YOU NEED IT as much as YOU WANT IT!!!!

YOU NEED IT as much as YOU WANT IT!!!!

FINDING YOUR PASSION

How to go about finding your passion, your meaning, your calling, your reason FOR BEING HERE, your niche, your purpose, your vocation, your element, your career in life??

We are all here for a reason. It is rooted deep down inside each of us. On some level, we already know what it is! Yes, You Do Know What THIS Is!!!

What is the difference here? (Think twice before you answer!)

•                I need you because I love you! (YES)
•                I love you because I need you! (NO)

The following 6 Human Needs definitely deserve your attention. Check these out!

Six human needs:

1.      Certainty/Comfort.

 We all want comfort. And much of this comfort comes from certainty. Of course there is no absolute certainty, but we want certainty the car will start, the water will flow from the tap when we turn it on and the currency we use will hold its value.

2.     Variety. 

At the same time we want certainty, we also crave variety. Paradoxically, there needs to be enough uncertainty to provide spice and adventure in our lives.

3.     Significance.

 Deep down, we all want to be important. We want our life to have meaning and significance. No one wants to think his or her life didn’t matter.

4.     Connection/Love.

 Love is what it’s all about. We want to feel part of a community. We want to be cared for and cared about.

These first four needs are needs of the personality. The last two are spiritual needs.

5.      Growth. 

There could be some people who say they don’t want to grow, but they are more likely fearful of doing so—or perhaps not doing so. To become better, to improve our skills, to stretch and excel may be more evident in some than others, but it’s there.

6.     Contribution.

 The desire to contribute something of value—to help others, to make the world a better place than we found it, is in all of us.     

We should look at people as if they had a sign written on their forehead that reads: ‘Make Me Feel Important!’.

People want to feel needed, wanted, important, appreciated, interesting, worthwhile.

All is all, at the end of day, we are here to serve others. To learn about loving and about giving and about sharing.  

o   Have you been playing your part?

o   Are you being honest with yourself?

o   Have you been taking steps to finding it?

o   What is your path to happiness?

o   Have you found yours?

Please, share, share & share even more J

Thank you!!