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Friday, 19 May 2017

Spending time w/ people vs alone.

Spending time w/ people vs alone.


We have all been there and done that: the time spent totally alone and then the time spent in a company of other people.
Sometimes, we have just enough time to spend with others, in order to realize how much time we actually need for ourselves, to spend and to be alone.
After some time, we can have a great time, we can talk about many things, we can even share things with others, and then, come back to our place, to ourselves, regain back the energy and then go out there again, and all over again.
Even a day spent by not talking at all. This silence. Just with ourselves. Just with the thoughts. Just with the emotions. Just with the feelings.

How much is that really important?
How much is that really significant?
How much is that really needed?
How much is that really wanted?
How much that can actually give us back in return?
How much can you actually gain by this and what, exactly?

What kind of a person are you?
Would you rather prefer being on your own or with the company of others?
Would you rather be in the centre of the room and chatting around, endlessly?
Or would you rather prefer staying in, at home, reading, or writing, or meditating, or exercising, or doing anything that soothes your soul in the best way?
How much time do you actually need between the period spent with others and then the company of your own?

How would you know?

How do you feel after a period of being in the crowd, full of people?
And how do you feel after a day on your own?
What would be the drawbacks and what would be the advantages?
Would you describe yourself as an introverted kind of a person?
Or would you describe yourself as an extroverted type of a person?
What gives you your energy and what drains an energy out of you?
Try it for yourself. Try both way for yourself. And then see. And then decide.


Thank you for reading and your time!!!

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