First this, above all else.

First this, above all else.

Becoming friends first, and the lovers will follow nicely later on.

To open up to somebody first mentally, and then physically.

To trust them and to be trusted back in return.

To become slowly vulnerable in the most beautiful way.

To feel the touch and to be touched and to touch the other loving being.

Although, some may disagree. And I totally agree with that, and fully understand. Some may jump into bed first and develop a very strong bond and a relationship that lasts a lifetime.

Tolerance, respected and understanding. First friends, then lovers.

First health, above all else.

First confidence, then going after all you have desired, above all else.

First connection, then openness, above all else.

First whatever comes to your mind and feels just about right, above all else.

And I could go on.

First sweet kisses with someone who really knows you well and vice versa, above all else.

First a few gentle hugs and laughs with the one who you know real very well, above all else.

First learning about each other and appreciating the differences and more, above all else.

First sharing and caring and loving and being there and present for the one, above all else.

Making children, or making music, or making art, or making poetry of some, above all else.

Thank you for reading and your time!!!