To have a history with somebody...

To have a history with somebody...

How long does it really take to truly know someone for real? How long would be enough for you to say someone your very yes? Would you say that with some people only a short time will do, and then, with others, even a longer time may not suffice? How long does it take for you to say 'I love you' to one and only? Is there a special button this person has to push in order to make sure they really are the best party for you? When you have a history with somebody that is something you two can share together, nobody can ever take this away from you both! There are moments that only you two know about and you both can work with and work on! You can experience just so much, or just so little. You learn about everything and about anything about this person, you learn what they like and what they do not like, how they feel and how they experience any feelings and emotions. You learn about them how they cope with faults, and setbacks in life. You learn about what they like to eat and what they like to drink! You also learn what they do when they are sad, what music they love listening to! How can you fit all of this in a let us say 2 week period with somebody? Or maybe you think you could? How could you with over 5000+ chat conversations in this very period? Could you still discover some secrets about each other? Would you like to share this? Would you be able to accept this person for who he or she is and try not to change him or her? Would you be willing to help this person out no matter what? Are you able to be a great listener? Are you able to give a piece of your advice? Are you able to be totally open and open up to someone you trust and care about and be happy for the other to do the same? Relationships are not easy, yes, they require time, energy, patience. Yet, many seem to be struggling in this area. They may feel as if there was a problem and the only way is the way out at the first minute! Are this really a good example? What are the relationships here for then? Are we supposed to be learning lessons, to be able to forgive, to be able to love other person and to be able to learn to love ourselves? Are the problems and challenges in any relationship here to help us out? Would running away from them teach us something valuable that we would be willing to share and talk about with our children? I believe we can learn so much just by being in a relationship, to open up to someone, to trust another human being with all of our being, to be able to cry in front of the other person, to be able to share things that may not be nice to hear or talk about! Can you give up yourself to somebody who you can completely and totally trust, to make love with this person, to see all of our scars, to see all of your emotions when you are sad, or happy, or excited, or frightened! To touch this person and to let be touched in a most beautiful and a sensuous way! To let be kissed anywhere and all over your body! To share the things that you consider as secrets. When setbacks in life turned you into a different type of a person, when you are burnt out. When you touched the rock bottom and the way you lifted yourself up when all was over. This and that, all and everything and more. Yes, thank you. And thank you!