RELY ON YOURSELF

RELY ON YOURSELF

How many real, and I mean REAL, friends do we have over the course of our life??

Are ‘THEY’ easy to find?

Who are your friends?

Are you lucky enough to have any?

Who do you count amongst your friends?

Our personality is being shaped by the 5 closest people who we surround ourselves with on a daily basis. Our income reflects that as well. Run the test for yourself, if you will. J

No one will ever care about ourselves as much as we (should!) care about ourselves. That may sound harsh but it is the knowledge that has been passed on from generation to generation. And it is a fact. And it is actually good thing to know and act accordingly for that matter. We should be our greatest teachers and learners/students. We are the captains of our ships. We know the best way with which to stir it, what is best for us, how we feel, what makes us happy!

Who are the very ones you could call on or fall back on in the middle of the night if need be?

Who are the ones you could count on?

Where are the ones you could account for?

Do they, and most importantly, do YOU have their numbers saved in your cell??

Have you been letting them know and telling them how much and what they mean to you?

Life is short. Make it a worthwhile. There is no urge about that. People come and go and some of them stay. Look and search for those who are here with you for a longer haul.

However, having said that, there is no reason to depend on them for your own happiness. No one can possibly make you happy. This is no one’s job but yours! This is your responsibility!

You have got to rely on yourself, own your circumstances and lead your own life like a king and a leader!  

I am not against friends, family, etc. etc.. I am all for that and more! All I am saying it that at the end of the day, the one and only person who will be looking in the very eye in the mirror is no one else but…

YOU!!!

Make sure that the reflection back (the one that the mirror gives you back!) is of the authentic one, spontaneous, if possible and a happy one J   Satisfied with the result – with the product – with the person that is YOU!!

There has never been, is not and never will be the same, exact person just like YOU!!

You Are Unique. Just like a snowflake. Just like a fingerprint. Just like yourself! ;-)

You have unique traits and abilities, dreams and wishes that you have come here to fulfil!

No one can walk this journey for you. You hold the compass in your hand and the map in the other!! Of course, it is wise and recommended to ask for a help, an advice and guidance.

There are going to be times when you are going to feel lonely. Cherish those moments. Treat them as times to learn about yourself. In actuality, you are never alone. There is always someone with you 24/7/365(6) and that person is, yes, you have guessed: it is YOU again! J The one with whom you ever spend the most time!

Rely on only and just yourself!

Rely on anyone but yourself!

What are YOUR insights, opinions, views, experiences, personal learning, circumstances, thoughts, findings, feedbacks on today’s subject??

And Good Luck on your journey of discovering yourself……………. A journey that is always under construction!