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Saturday, 28 May 2016

FIGHT - FLIGHT - FREEZE mode.

FIGHT - FLIGHT - FREEZE mode.










To deal with life. To deal with stress. To deal with people. To deal with things. To deal with anything, at all! What sort of person are you? When you deal with people you care, what would you do? When you deal with people you work with, what would you do? Are you the fighter? Would you freeze? Would you fly? Would you get angry? Would you stop and think over the situation you are facing? Can you manage your moods, your temptations, your emotions, your feelings, all your questions? People can react to you or to the situation, or they can stay still. Before they say a word, they can think over what they mean to say? Is it hurtful, can this harm anybody? Are they just talking because their needs are not met, they feel lonely and sad, because they do not know what else to say and what else to do! I would say each one of us has experience either of them, in one way or the other, at same stage in our life. Do you fight with the person you care about because you feel they have hurt you in some way? Would you be willing to look at the situation with the brand new eyes? Would you be willing to consider that this person in question is genuine and means well? That all that has been said and that all that has been done was well meant in the mind of this person, for the best of the best feelings and reasons for you? Yes, because life is not just black or white. It has many colours and we should see them with the sunglasses that we use.. just white, blue, yellow, red, and anything that you can see! When will you open up to this person, mentally, with all the feelings and emotions that you hold inside of you? Anyone should have a chance, anyone should be heard for what he or she has to say, has to give, has to speak about. When you can put all of your feelings on paper in the face of poetry, or lyrics for the song you are working for! How many times we have fought with and against each other. How many times we were submitting to each other because we wanted to, over and over again! When the distance is not the problem, when we can talk to each other no matter what about anything, in no particular order! When your heart still beats to hard that you just have to listen to it, why you have moments of being frozen and staying like this for while and then you go out there and fight one more time again and again, or when you feel as if flying, flying high up there and far away! No one is an island, you cannot make things on your own. Why this fight? Why being so hard on me? What is happening in your world? To busy? Too busy with work? Who is bored at this time and age? Busy with music, me busy with lyrics. When the minds are connected on the higher level. I cannot help but wonder what else is there? How long? How many days are left? How many drinks are there to be left to drank? What are the lessons that will come our way? We are students and this is not going to change as long as we are on the playing field, still lot to learn, still lot to teach to the little ones. Just a close line there is to be happy again. I can feel it and I do know this! Think twice before you say something to someone who really cares about you. This person may be the one. How many more will come, who may know? Who knows? Even the distance can bring two people together emotionally, that is for sure! On Saturday evening, and then any other day right after that! When you want a company who understands you really, truly and deeply! Please, may you feel it, too!!!!





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