How
to go at one's own pace
There
have never been quite the two just the same people. There have never
been quite the two same people who feel the same, who have
experienced just the same. And there will probably never be! The
journey of all of us is different on every level. The emotions, the
lessons, the paths and all that fill our days make us who we are and
not all of us are on the same level. Some of us can deal and handle
20 tasks a day, let's say, and the person next to us can ''only''
deal with 10. Do you know such a person? Which group would you think
you belong to? Perhaps, in the past time, when we were younger we
could feel that we can handle everything, we can fight all the people
and we can fight the world! We were not afraid of anything at all,
maybe we did not even realize what was in a stake, what was in a
game. And what about now? We have so many things on our mind that
there is just not a place for anything, at all! Some people can deal
with this world we are currently living in, some people can handle
the pressure of a daily job, some people can go out every day till
4am, and some people just need a little bit of more sleep. Some
people can handle the show business, the pressure or a press, of
people asking any types of questions, and some people are more
introverted than extroverted. This is just the way it is, this is how
our world is spinning around. And, of course, some people are more
outgoing and the others are more sensitive. Some people may need more
time than others, some people may need more space than others and
some need more of this or more of that than others. Who and what do
you prefer? Who do you think are you in your very own words? I really
do hope we are all understanding the importance of this. Not to judge
anybody, not to put anyone in the same box, not to compare a person
to person. As long as we do this, a lot of the things we wish to be
avoided, are actually going to be avoided. People are not going to
suffer any psychological dilemma, related to the above subject. How
do we know it the people can be tolerant enough to each other? How do
we know if the people can respect each other? How can we more help
each other? To be more open to each other and honest? Even the 2
totally opposite people can tolerate each other if they are really
willing to do so and know the reasons are big enough for this! I have
learnt this on my own with my own mistakes and faults. I even thought
I could make everything on my own, without anybody helping me, and
yes, I had made a huge, an enourmous mistake about this, being a
lonely camper. Now days, I feel and I know and I understand the
importance of being able to open up to somebody we trust. If you are
truly lucky enough to have such a person close to you, I argue you to
never let him or her go. It is a true gift that should never ever be
taken for granted! Appreciate the person for who and what he or she
is. Not to try to change her or him for the sake of yourself, yet
always be ready to be there for them, to help them, to be willing to
make them better for the sake of everyone involved. Thank you and
thank you for reading. I shall be back again here soon!
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