If you really like me, you will also like that.

If you really like me, you will also like that.

If you like me, you may not like that.

If you really like me, you will also like that.

Wish the best of happiness to others and more!

What would you wish for the very person you absolutely and totally love?

What would you wish for the very person you absolutely and totally adore?

What would you wish for the very person you absolutely and totally cherish?

What would you wish for the very person you absolutely and totally worship?

What would you wish for the very person you absolutely and totally want?

What would you wish for the very person you absolutely and totally need?

What would you wish for the very person you absolutely and totally desire?

What would you wish for the very person you absolutely and totally appreciate?

What would you wish for the very person you absolutely and totally want to help?

Is being selfish the answer?

If someone comes up to you and tells you the news of leaving and not being able to perhaps see you ever again, what would you do?

Would your ego win the prize?

Would you try and go and fight the reality?

Would you go back inside yourself and sulk?

Would you go and celebrate?

Would you pretend as if nothing has ever happened?

Would you try and make suggestions?

Would you go and make up new ideas?

Would you go and tell other stories?

Would you go and tell your opinion on things?

Maybe our first reaction to this situation or any other similar to this one for that matter would be more or less of a selfish nature. However, after considering all the options and possibilities and suggestions and ideas and offers, we may see the entire situation from a different point of view and with the different set of eyes.

Do you really care for this person?

Do you really, really care for this very person?

Would you see their happiness from their set point rather from the one labelled with your name on the sticker?

Would you see it working well in the near future?

Would you see this person going after their dream?

Would you see this person going after their passion?

Would you see this person going after succeeding in their endeavour?

Would wishing them the best of luck come naturally to you?

Is seeing success after success for this very person your priority for them and for yourself for that matter, too?

Would you self – indulge in self - pity just because you were not thought of in the first place?

It is not easy, of course, to see the whole picture of the situation, of the occurrence, of the circumstance.

How about seeing it from the 3^rd seat?

What do I mean by that, you ask?

Well, this situation can be seen and viewed from 3 different angles. The one that may come easy to you is seeing and viewing it from the stand point of yours. You employ all your experiences, all the feelings, all the notions, all the learning, all the teaching, all the knowledge enquired to this day so far. You have your say, you have your turn, and you clearly speak up your mind. You cry out your worries if you will. Are you actually good enough for this person? Can you possibly satisfy all their hunger, all their cravings, all that starving eyes?

Then, this situation, or any other one for that matter, of course, too, can also be only and just view from the person concerned. With all the emotions, with all the feelings, will all the hunger, with all the craving, with all the starvation in their very eyes, with all their experiences, with all the notions, with all the learning, with all the teaching, with all the knowledge included.

Imagine, sitting in the 3^rd chair and learning about this very particular situation. You have been listening to both sides in and of the question, you may or may not even heard the verdict. Now, how would you go about solving this situation, how would you approach the whole and entire challenge? What would be the concept you would come up with? You would totally and absolutely remove yourself and this particular person out of the challenge. You would only be concerned about the situation from a person who has no real feelings to either both of you.

If you could use all of the options as outlined and stated above, then take notes and decide upon which answers would fit and suit best for this particular situation. 

Describe and write down all the advantages, all the disadvantages, all the pros and all the cons. Then discuss it with all the people present and involved and concerned. And then come to a solution, come to a conclusion, come to a resolution.

Would you be up for it? Would you be willing to go through all this in order to help out a friend in need? Would you be willing to put in the effort? Would you be willing to put in the time? Would you be willing to put in yourself? Would you be willing to put in all of your resources? Would you be willing to go the extra mile? Would you be willing to engage all of your senses? Would you be willing to put in all of your knowledge? Would you be willing to put in all of your learning? Would you be willing to put in all of your teaching? Would you be willing to put in all of your feelings? Would you willing to put in all of your emotions? Would you be willing to put in all of your experiences? Would you be willing to put in all of your notions?

Are you winning?

Are you losing?

Are you losing touch with yourself?

Are you losing touch with this particular person?

To start all over again. We simply must!

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