Into temptation...

Into temptation...

We may have been accustomed to the experience of getting in and getting out of a temptation. Or more temptations.

But what if that could be a good thing, after all?

We are all humans, right? Or do I miss something, anything, here?

What are the habits you have been trying to quit? To give up on?

And now, who is or who could be the person who would be there for you to support you with this?

Two is better than one, almost always at every moment, almost always at every opportunity, almost always every time!

To hold your hand, to provide you with their time and attention and patience and love and caring, or even a piece of advice and their valuable knowledge.

What if our temptations were only the stepping stones to our becoming even more authentic, even more ourselves, even more compassionate, even more wiser, even more knowledgeable, even more experienced, even more forgiving. To name just a few....

Is it or would it be possible to look at all this from a completely different perspective? To learn from it, quite possibly? To know that we are humans making mistakes and then quite possibly learning from them and also by teaching others about them could quite possibly make a huge difference in somebody's life!

To know and to feel that something is not okay, that something might be turning bad and wrong. We grow, we grow every single day, we grow at every single moment this is happening. And yes, we have grown from this and by this!

Let there be a lesson, let there be lessons we use to our advantage. Let not beat ourselves for making mistakes and faulty decisions, etc. Let there be a teaching we can be able to pass on to others. Let us not have any regrets, at all!

What are the things we can still be working on? Things we can still improve on? Becoming the best possible version of ourselves? The most authentic one?? The most authentic self???!

Thank you for your time and reading this!!

The best of the best..

The best of the best..

The best is yet to come.

At least, it has been said this way!

Yet, what if all the best things that have ever happened to us are far behind us?

The best place we have ever lived in.

The best job we have ever had.

The best message we have ever received.

The best food we have ever eaten.

The best drink we have ever drunk.

The best person we have ever met.

The best article we have ever written.

The best idea we have ever created.

The best project we have ever worked on.

The best song we have ever heard.

The best book we have ever read.

The best thing we have ever seen and said and done.

The best love making we have ever had and done.

The best thing we have ever given.

The best thing we have ever received.

The best dream we have ever dreamt about and had.

The best thing we have ever built.

The best thing we have ever worn.

The best thing we have ever (fill in the blank).

But also, what if all of those are just awaiting us? Waiting for us at the gate, being patient and keen on being with us, living along with us, getting on very well with us.

On the other hand, what if our life is just at its beginning, at the start of blossoming in the best way there is!?

In front of us, ahead of us, all the good things are just about to happen to us. They are on their way, they are just going to be presented into our life, for us.

Are we, actually, ready for them??!

Thank you for your time and reading!!

Love, sex, and food.

Love, sex, and food.

Three powerful sources: love, sex, food.

Three powerful sources of an energy.

Three powerful sources of a satisfaction.

Three powerful sources of a pure bliss.

Three powerful sources of a pleasure.

Three powerful sources of a total connection.

Three powerful sources of a complete stimulation of mind, body, spirit, heart.

Love.

The feeling of loving someone and the feeling of being loved back in return. Creating the next generation by beautiful love making, making love anytime you fancy, anywhere you want! Being vulnerable, open to breaking in order to become more. Trying, hoping, believing, trusting. Wanting and having and needing. Collaborating on this with each other, relying on one another. Committing.

Sex.

The passion in its full.

The passion at its best.

The physical act tangled up together with the connection of the mind and the soul (spirit), and the heart.

The actual stimulation of the spirit (soul/heart) – from the soul, through the body and to the mind.

Mind blowing! One to one. This kind of love!!

Food.

The enjoyment of the food and a drink via all of our senses – touch, smell, taste, sound and sight. Engaging in all of this with all of our skills and abilities.

What could be more better than all this, on the face of the earth?!!

Thank you for your time and reading!!!

A candle burnt way too many times!

A candle burnt way too many times!

Have you been that candle?

Have you been burning at both ends on?

Have you burnt way too many times with no end to it?

What has made the biggest impact in and on your life?

Who has been that person who was the part of this all?

What have been the major changes and improvements and takings in and from your life?

Enough is enough. When is this for you? When is this going to happen? What is suppose to happen in order for you to say that? No more sad days, no more feelings of lost, etc.

Deep down inside, we may know that this is not the way for us to life. This is not the way we were meant to truly live through and enjoy! What would be then all the coincidences and all the little magical things happening along the way? What would be their reason for being here, for existing, at all?!

You have been through a lot. A huge lot, to be precise. You have done the talk, you have walked the walk. You have said all that needed to be said, and you have done all that needed to be done. You have apologized, you have loved, you have achieved, you have dreamt, you have choked at your own words, you have shaken, you have burnt, you have wished and you have hoped for things to happen, you have promised, you have travelled around the world, you have worked very hard, you have been authentic, you have repeated yourself on many occasions, you have asked and you have answered the questions, you have begged, you have exercised your body and your mind and your soul as best as you could, you have ready many books, you have enjoyed the music, you have written poetry and articles, and you have made mistakes, you have just been trying to live as best as you can, and, of course, you have enjoyed and loved beautiful things around you, you have admired, you have appreciated, you have starred, you have witnessed, you have opened up, you have cried...

All that, and even more!

And now, you can burn no more!

Even if you wanted to, you just could not!

So, what now? Where to go? Who is on the mind? What is in your heart? Do you listen, can you hear?

As usual, thank you for your time reading!!

the life on earth.

the life on earth.

Energy.

Food, nourishment.

Water.

The beauty of nature.

The sound of birds singing.

The smell of freshly cut grass, and more.

Appreciating the good food and drinks we are enjoying.

Being present while watching and witnessing the sunrise and sunset.

The first time we have felt, and touched, and laughed, and really really cried.

Learning the lesson after lesson that come along on our journey.

Teaching others the valuables by doing, talking & speaking, setting an example, taking actions.

The times we have been hurt, felt love for the very first time, were shaking and shivering, afraid of asking the other person out, the time we were our most authentic version of ourselves, the very first time we were true to ourselves and to others..

We can have so much going on for us, if we are only open to it, if we really let ourselves go out there and play hard and enjoy hard, work hard and eat hard and do things for the simplest beauty of them. For the moment that can never be returned and replaced and never felt in the same way.

That might sometimes seem to be too much, way too much for us to take in, yet, we should, and we must! And still, a day after day, the little things that may be minor but can and will be turned into such things that could turn our life upside down, looking back, that will provide us with all the answers to our questions.

What are the things that make the difference, that can make one's day? The things to say? The things to do? The actions to take? The moments to enjoy? The words to use? The memories to built our life on?!?

Thank you for reading and your time!!

a hot head/ a hot mind

a hot head/ a hot mind

If your mouth is open, you are not learning. LISTEN.

Every conversation has the potential to turn into an argument.

A talk should not be cheap!

A hot headed. A hot minded person.

When we get all caught up in the situation, where there seems to be no way to go to, to ask for a help, to think about the problem and think through the process.

To process the information, to take a deep breath, inhale and exhale, to stay and to keep calm, what would be the worst thing that could ever happen, etc.

To let go of the steam, to look for the lesson there, to teach yourself to be even more patient, to ask for an explanation, to process your thoughts and the information given to you.

It is up to us, it is in our hands!

To speak your mind in a way that let the other person know that you care, that you really care!

Sometimes, people can be very blind, blind to the truth, to the whole picture that is in front of them. They have problems and troubles on their know that they do not yet know how to handle them, how to really open up and tell about their feelings and emotions. So, then, they finally end up hurting others, hurting them in a sense of hurting themselves, hurting them while hurting themselves. What is the point?

Would not be better to be just a little bit more patient with people who can deserve our patience, just to be a little bit more loving and kind, and appreciative.

There is no energy for fighting, arguing, and so on. It is our responsibility to take charge of our life, and in our control, no outside help would useful, unless we do the work ourselves first! As simple or as difficult as it may sound.

All the small things matter. Take this or take that and see what a huge importance this could mean for someone or what a significant difference this could make in a someone's life. There is just so small that can be done to make a massive impression and leave a loving experience on someone's journey.

Thank you for your time reading!

Quality, not quantity!

Quality, not quantity!

The numbers really cannot amount to anything if they are not worth your while!

We can have numbers of friends but who are they to us if we cannot rely on them? If we cannot share with them our inner most secrets and troubles and feelings! If we cannot really open up to them? Cry on their shoulders, and open our hearts out to them, to try help us out and possibly understand our personality.

The great news that make you happy or the ones that make you even more resilient to the outside world!

When would you go if you needed something to be done?

Who would you talk to if you really needed some comforting experience?

Where would you go if you needed something to be done really well?

When there is no vision, there is no hope.

Those who bring out the best in you, the way they talk to you and the way they talk about you when you are not present. The way they inspire you, the way they comfort you, the way they ask you for your opinion. They way they touch you, kiss you, or make love to you.. The way they make you feel, they make you feel alive and make you feel love and by loved, in return, and more!

Who are they? Where are they? How can you get in touch with them? How can you connect?

Life is so short, ah, so very short, how can we enjoy it just a little bit more, no hurting people, as the odds are we might be treated in the same way, sooner, rather than later. Who was the person who was there for you when you were at your lowest? Have you thanked them enough? Have you acknowledged them, again, for their time and energy and patience?

I cannot stress this importance enough! What about your family? The ones who love you, no matter what! What about the ones closest to you? The ones who have touched your heart and soul, for any reason, whatsoever, for anything in the whole world, and more, and all in between!

Time is precious, nobody gets out alive and no one is for sure how long our journey is going to turn up to be! So, please, make sure, there are no regrets, only beautiful memories....

Thank you for reading and your time, as always!!

The beauty of imperfection – the way to find one's own self over again.

The beauty of imperfection – the way to find one's own self over again.

To be brave, to be courageous, and not perfect!

To cry our eyes hard out in order to find ourselves all over again. Crying and feeling the experiences. To feel so deeply that it breaks us wide open. To work your way up in order to live your live as fully as humanly possible. To be fragile and vulnerable and sensitive and sensible and curious and patient and loving and kind and caring and willing to open up and be open to adventures and anything.

To be alone, and cry alone. To be crying in a shower. To give your wedding dress to somebody else who would not be otherwise able to afford it! To be a beautiful person from inside and out.

To see the light at the end of a tunnel, no matter what! Not to give up, even though giving up and quitting seem to be the only way and the easiest thing to do! I mean, how much more can you still bare and have to carry on your shoulders?

Everything is changing, nothing seems to be stable and still. Does not make this sense at all! Life passes from stages to stages. Through your experiences, you seem to grow! That is untouchable seems to be unloved!

Let us not pursue things we do not agree with! Let us not come up with solutions that have no future whatsoever at all! This should and must change as soon as possible!

How can we regain more strength in order to survive, to help ourselves and to help others at the same time? To love the learning, the curiosity, to follow our passion, to go for what we want and need and desire? How? In what way? How to go about this?

Please, I need help. I want to be helped out! There is much to anything and I must simply find this out and live it out? Who can help? Who can be willing enough to listen up to me and be patient with me in a way that is needed and would be appreciated!?

Thank you for your time reading!!

strawberries and avocados

strawberries and avocados

The two objects that can have a lot in common, yet they can also differ in many ways!

Both of them are so delicious, so healthy, so nutritious. Each of them offer many vitamins and more for keeping our body in a great shape!

Fruits vs Vegetables.

But, of course, there is more to it than that! How could this even be possible?

When you are facing a decision making. When you are in a process of deliberate thinking and thinking things through as hard and as much as you can muster!

When you need to choose between the two roads, the two paths to go on, to go through, to pass by, to go over. To make a decision. Even if we do not make the decision, we have still decided. We have decided not to decide on anything, not to pick and choose anything that was for us on offer. And yes, this is still a decision!

How would you go about deciding? About going with this or remain silent? To go ahead even though we may get hurt, or things may not necessarily work according to our plan?

Can we find a way, a reason out of something that seemingly does not work out for us? Would that be even possible?

I love fruits and vegetables, I would probably find a good reason at any moment, regardless of the type of fruit or a piece of a vegetable, if need be, to just go and eat them!

Things must find their way into a reality that is perfect for us, that nourishes us and cares for us, takes care of us, looks after us.

The light at the end of each tunnel we enter, the reason for believing, the purpose for doing, the passion for creating and living.

Differences can make it a bit difficult for us, whereas the similarities can bring us together, the opposites can fantastically complete each other and learn from and about each other!

I cannot really wait for this to happen!

Thank you for your time reading!!

oranges vs lemons

oranges vs lemons

This, lets say a metaphor, can be applied on anyone, and almost at every moment.

Some people can have more luck than others. Some people could be luckier than others. Is that fair at all? Can we do something, anything, about that? And if so, what could be done?

Some may try for babies with no luck, some may have babies that may be unwanted, in the first place. Hard work to go along with persistence and with a bit of a luck! That may be the key to having and leading a successful life.

Where to gain more strength to continue with living and carry on with our life? How not to go alone, if at all, possible? Where to look for and search for like-minded person and people?

What would be the moment that would change everything for you? How would you know, how would you recognize it? Who would be the person you would decide to open up freely? To spend the rest of your life with? To kiss each and every night before you go to sleep? Who is the one you are willing to spend the night with? To share your inner most feelings and emotions and secrets?

I have been quite a different person in the past from the person I am currently now. A lot of experiences have gone through me, good and not so good ones. The ones that break you open, to show you your inner soul, bleeding, crying for help, for a direction. To see inside your mind, to discover your beautiful heart, and your whole being. These ones, experiences, lessons and more are not those of kind that would put a smile on your face! Not at all!! So, how can we use them to our advantage? How can we turn them around and learn from them, and possibly, teach others about the lessons we have taken away with us from them! And then the good ones, the ones that make our heart do a happy dance, skip a beat and just enjoy the moments while they last! Would concentrating on them help, give us a glimpse of a confidence, a bit of hope, anything?

I would love to hear your opinion on this! What do you think that might help? Any ideas?

I am still hoping and waiting and going after what my heart and soul desire.. but for how long? How long can I do this for?

At the moment, I have no idea.

Thank you for reading!!

Listen! Let me tell you a story...

Listen! Let me tell you a story...

A story that is still a work in progress.

A story that is still unfolding.

A story that perhaps each one of us can resemble into something.

A story that maybe each one of us can see ourselves in, in some way here and there.

A story that is so colourful, with all the shades of every single colour in the world!

A life. A story. A life's story. A story of life. The journey. The path. The road to somewhere...

When to finally start living, properly? Enjoying all the little things, appreciating all the moments that come in and come out! The days that are filled with love, and joy and passion and admiration and creativity and art and music and nature and delicious food and tasty meals and great drinks and loving people and friends?!

All those moments that the memories are made of from! Make them happen and make them real. Work hard while playing hard! Only ways to get better, only ways to work on improving everything and everyone around you!

This book is yours, you hold the pen in your hand while creating the story of your life. While being in a driver's seat, while being the captain of your ship. You decide which way to go, where to set up on a journey, what winds to put up a fight with, etc. etc. 

Everyone has a chapter, and then another and then some more, as many as we want to write about and to have created.

I have been hurt, I have been moved to tears, I have cried, I have moved places and I have moved countries. I have loved so deeply and for real. I have begged and wished for things to happen. I have made numerous decisions, I have felt lonely, I have been alone. I have lost the direction of my ship. I have got lost in myself. I have got lost in people, for a long, very long time. I have been still finding a way out there, find the real meaning, the purpose. It is going to be continued, because since it has not been okay, the meaning must be it is still not over, over for me, over for anyone close to me! What else is there to be remembered, what else is there to be treasured, to be appreciated, adored, admired, loved, taken care of, looked after?! When is the ride of mine going to be and sound like the ride of my life, once-in-a-life-time affair? When and with whom? I must be ready and I cannot really wait for it, till it is happening!!?

Thank you. 

We are all connected. We are so in this together! And you..

We are all connected. We are so in this together!

And you..

We have a plan. And we go after it! We have a strategy and we are following it.

We cannot be blind to what is going on around us. What are the people who are suffering? Is there any way at all that we could help them with something? What about our surrounding? Is there a person who is suffering in silence? Someone who is alone, feeling lonely, without anything to eat and drink? What are the solutions to the problems we are having and facing? No way to be ignorant!! No way to hide our heads in the sand!! I cannot just sit back and relax and do nothing!! My body would shake and be all out of sorts if I do!

Who can join in with me? Who would dare to make a difference in one's life, someone else's life? With a help.

Where can we go? Where and when can we start? Who can we ask for help and direction? If not not, when, then??

What resources can we use? How can we go about finding more and/or creating some on our own?

And then, there is you!..

I will never give up on you, I can feel it in my soul.

How can I stop thinking about you? How can I possibly forget all the beautiful and passionate moments that we have shared together? Those moments, these connections, all the lovely things we have said and we have done to each other. When we learn about one another, when we are being patience, when we respect and tolerate anything that could differ between us. Is there anything that we can improve? That we can still work on? How to get in touch with ourselves and with each other, separately, again? What to do when the confusion sets in? To share and engage in a conversation, to fight, to exchange an opinion or two, to have and argument and the beauty of making up and making out, too!

Thank you for reading!!

A simple blog post. Of an epic journey.

A simple blog post.

Of an epic journey.

Because 'simple' is beautiful.

Because why not, right!?

Because it fulfils me, makes me happy and feel good. That would be for the starters.

And every stroke of the key on the keyboard somehow reminds me of you, too.

Sometimes, I still feel nobody could ever replace the void I have, in a place of you. There never would be another you, how could it possibly ever be otherwise? No more the exact same emotions and shivers all over my body, on every bit of my bare and naked skin.. And perhaps this is the way it should be! Who knows and who could ever tell?

Going and finding the answers. Experiencing it all over again. As if in the same moment, in the same room, with the same person, with the same music playing, on the very same day and at the very same time and in the very same month.

Investigate. Real talk. Real everything! You name it.. there is a plenty of a real stuff. To have calmed down since then. Have enjoyed the moment, though. Wiser like never before. Experienced like never before. Have read and seen and listened to more things like never before. And yet, i have never felt this way before, and that is thanks to you. I have never really known.. until now! Who I am and who I am becoming, and turning into. If only there would be some sign, any sigh, anything to point one into the right direction, and on the right path. To do more of what brings us joy and happiness, and do less, if not anything at all, of what brings us down, and feeling low, or even blue. Housing the two personality in me, the two faces who are trying to look for ways, for ways to improve, to learn, to teach, to give, to love, to provide, to trust another beating and loving and kind heart, body, soul, mind. I am wondering, have you been feeling the same, or at least, similar? The times when you protested, the times when you fought the fights against yourself, and maybe thinking of fighting against me, against my personality, against all odds because we wanted to be together, so much!! Perhaps, you know very well about what I am talking about, perhaps you understand, and perhaps you feel the very same!!?

Thank you!!

How much?? (a simple mistake can tell me what you aren't. Or remind me why I love you.)

How much??

(a simple mistake can tell me what you aren't. Or remind me why I love you.)

I have been wondering..

how much can we bare?

And how much can we dare?

How much weight can we still carry on on our shoulders?

How many tears do we have to pour on our pillows in the middle of the night in order to feel stronger, or not to feel like giving up, or else, when would it be enough, for us, at last, in the end, after all???

Where and what is the limit? Where can it be found? How can this be developed?

Are we learning from and by experience we have been through and gone through?

I want to revolutionize this. Change this. Move this to a different level. Make changes. Make improvements. Create lovely and beautiful things. Make a difference. Set and be an example. Learn from lessons well and hard lived.

When stakes are so high. When things can change from a minute to a next minute. Commitment. Passion. Inspiration. Creative thinking. Open-mindedness.

The dreams coming true. All the jigsaw puzzle pieces fitting nicely together. When the life is going to go according to our plan? When is the struggle going to disappear? When are we going to enjoy each other's company? When are we going to help one another in the best way possible there is? What else is there to be done and said? When would be the right time when we can openly open up to each other and trust one another like never before? When can we appreciate each other for what that other person truly and really is? To accept and tolerate the things that we do not share and yet love the other things that make the person so unique and so special in our eyes?? So, when???

I believe it is coming up soon, actually, very very soon!!

Thank you!!