A 24/7/365(6) person.

A 24/7/365(6) person.

A 24/7/365(6) person.

Who do you think that could be?

Do you have a slightest idea at all?

Would you think you know this person?

Perhaps this person is close to you.

Maybe you have known this person for the entire length of time.

Is this person your worst enemy of all?

Is this person your very best friend of all?

By now, you may have noticed and realized that…..

….. that the only person in the world and on the face of the earth that we are speaking of is nobody else but

You.

Yes!

You can be your worst enemy of all.

And you can also be your best friends of all friends.

The question here is which of those friends do you feed the most? Which one of them have a greater chance of surviving?

You are the one and only person who goes to bed with you day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who eats at the table with you day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who drinks the drink with you day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who walks the walks with you day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who travels all the journeys with you day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who swims in the pool with you day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who hears you and listens to you day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who celebrates your birthday with you every year, every year in and every year out. Every year for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who cooks your meals with you day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who smells the flowers with you day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who runs the marathon with you day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who works with you day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who jumps with you day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who types with your on your laptop day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who mows the lawn with you day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who knows all of your hidden deep down seated secrets day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who laughs with you every time you do day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who kneels down to pick up the weeds every time you do day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who brushes your teeth with you day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who flosses your teeth with you day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who dances with you to any song that every time you do dance day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who sings with you to any song that every time you do sing day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who pays your bill with you every time you ought to do so day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who understands your inner most deep feelings inside you day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who acknowledges your achievements every time you do acknowledge those achievements day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who shares the meals with you every time you do share those meals day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who does the exercises with you every time you do your exercises day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who counts your blessings with you every time you do count those blessings day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who saves your money/your cash with you every time you do save those money/cash day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who makes the effort to push through even if it looks all too bleak every time you do make this effort to push through even if it looks all too bleak day in and day out.

Every day for the rest of your life.

You and only you!!!

J

(1027 words)

Something to call your very own!!

Something to call your very own!!

What are the things that you can proudly call your very own?

Do you have any?

Are there any at all?

Are you the proud owner of your house?

Are you the proud owner of a sweet pet?

Do you have a long term boyfriend?

Do you have a long term girlfriend?

Are you in a long term relationship?

Do you have a partner?

Do you have a life - long lover, a company?

Do you have children?

Do you have a spouse?

Do you have a wife?

Do you have a husband?

Do you own a car?

Do you have your very own beautiful garden?

What else is there that we could call ourselves proud owners of?

Do you have your own place?

Have you ever gotten to the point of being sick and tired of being sick and tired of living the same old way over and over again with seeing nothing really huge happening at all? Did it ever happen to you? How did it feel? How did you feel?

Could has there been something that you could have prevented from occurring it ever again?

The only person you are with 24/7 is you. What thoughts run through your mind on a daily basis? Are they serving you? Are they supporting you? Are they helping you? Are they providing for you?

Did the actions you have taken, did the thoughts you have been playing with made you stop and think and reconsider your situation, reconsider your position, reconsider your next move, reconsider your intentions?

What is there that you would love to own more than anything else in the world??

Is it a person?

Is it a job?

Is it a house?

Are they children?

Is it a car?

Is it an organic tree?

Is it a book?

Have you had enough of working for somebody else?

Have you had enough of doing something that does not bring you any fulfilment?

Have you had enough of doing something, anything that does not bring you any happiness?

Have you had enough of waiting?

Have you had enough of being alone?

Have you had enough of feeling lonely?

Have you had enough of pleading?

Have you had enough of searching for the missing key?

Have you had enough of looking for the right answer?

Have you had enough of taking care of others?

Have you had enough of sharing the house with others?

Have you had enough of explain yourself over and over again?

Have you had enough of listening to others lately?

Have you had enough of speaking on your own?

Have you had enough of looking after others?

Have you had enough of fixing someone’s breakfast, lunch and dinner with snacks in between?

Have you had enough of contributing to something from which you see no real value coming out?

Where and when did it for you?

What do you dream about?

What would you love more than anything to see coming to fruition?

There comes a point in our lives where we just simply could not take it anymore and any longer. No more. Enough is enough. What we do next is all that matters. Are we going to fight the current or are we going to go with the flow and wait and see what is coming next, what shows up next, what has been thrown in on our way.

 Are we ready to call all of these things that we hope and wish to possess our very own for ever and ever, for everlasting good?

What are we willing to pay for achieving it all?

What price are we going to pay for all that we desire and hope for and wish of having and owning and calling our own?

Who are we going to talk to?

What advice are you going to look for?

What help are you going to search for?

What advice are you going to hope to get?

What help are you going to wish to be provided with?

What advice are you going to be asking for?

In order to sit in our very own car, to eat from our very own table, to sit on our very own chair, to drive our very own vehicle, to ride our very own bicycle, to soothe our very own babies, to kiss our very own husband, to kiss our very own wife, to pet our very own dog, to pet our very own kitten, to walk in our very own garden, to smell our very own flowers, to drink our very own green drinks, to clean our very own plates, to collect our very own apples and pears, to hold our very own parties, to invite our very own guests, to clean our very own windows, to make our very own beds, to use our very own computers and laptops, to use your very own washing machines, to wear our very own clothes, to read our very own books, to wear our very own sunglasses, to use our very own utensils, to wash our very own boots, to carry our very own shopping bags, to cover and tucked in our very own children with their very own blankets, to play on our very own piano, to wash our very own hands in our very own sink, to swim in our very own swimming pool, to boil the water in our very own kettle, etc. we must do certain things in a certain way to assure that we will feel exactly the way we are striving for! We can then call ourselves the proud owner of all those that we deeply desire.

There is always a way.

There is always a reason.

There is always a choice.

There is always an option.

There is always an answer.

There is always a purpose.

Every one of us has different dreams and desires and ambitions; high or low standards. 

There is no right or wrong dream, a desire, an ambition.

Make sure you own your very own dreams, desires, ambitions!!

(1014 words)

To your Boldest, Strongest, Deepest, Brightest, Biggest FEAR EVER!!!

To your Boldest, Strongest, Deepest, Brightest, Biggest FEAR EVER!!!

What would be your most boldest, strongest, deepest, brightest, biggest fear ever?

Have you conquer it successfully?

Have you won?

Have you succeeded?

Have you reached the breakthrough?

Have you reached the turning point?

Have you celebrated the winning?

Have you celebrated the conquering of yourself?

Have you collected all that was meant for you?

Have you picked up all your belongings?

Have you achieved all your desires?

Have you achieved all your dreams?

Have you reached the tipping point?

Have you gone there already?

Have you gone there yet, at all?

We are all creatures of habits. We feel, we are afraid at times, we are worried, we are sad, we feel happy, we fear the worst, we hope for the best, we expect things to happen in certain way, we may expect miracles to occur to us on a daily basis, we expect things to happen in certain order, we want this to happen to us, we want this person to want us, we want this particular task to be achieved at this very moment and by this particular person, we dream dreams of our wildest dreams of all times, we desire this person, we are hungry for this thing, we are starving for the answers to our questions, we want it all and we want it now, we are craving for this special person, we are craving for this special food, we are craving for this particular drink, etc….

And why, do we ask, has it not happened to us yet?

Do we fear something?

Do we fear anything?

What are we afraid of?

Who is running our world?

Who is running our mind?

Who is running our body?

Who is running our soul?

Who is running our heart?

Are we ready enough to step out of our comfort zone and step in into a real world and put our word out there?

Are we confident enough to do so?

Do we have enough confidence to do so?

Can we face our fears? Are we courageous enough? Are we strong enough?

What are our fears anyway?

What do you fear?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear talking to strangers?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear talking to the opposite sex?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear approaching an attractive person?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear asking for a promotion?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear asking for a pay rise?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear speaking up?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear skydiving?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear heights?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear commitments?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear dark?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear spiders?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear speaking in public?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear showing off your true face, your true colours?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear being naked?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear being open?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear rejection?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear apologizing?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear being wrong?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear making mistakes?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear being alone?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear feeling lonely?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear losing your job?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear not getting enough sleep?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear getting sick?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear being unhealthy?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear getting old?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear not being able to have children?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear not getting enough clients?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear not getting plenty of costumers?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear not being counted on?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear not getting enough messages?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear not getting enough dates?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear being unloved?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear of being cheated on?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear being left alone in this world to deal with all the challenges that come your way?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear of being misled?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear not being able to reach out to your loved ones, to your dear ones, to your close ones?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear not being able to hear?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear not being able to listen?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear not being able to explain yourself clearly to others?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear not being able to smell the roses, all the flowers for that matter?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear not being able to touch something and feeling it all at the same time?

What drives you crazy?

What drives you mad?

What keeps you up at night?

Are you a boss, are you a leader of your life or is it the other way round?

Go and face whatever that is that is stopping you from living the life of your dreams!!!

We are all in this together J

(1021 words)

Leave every person you come into a contact with with the impression of increase!!!

Your PRESENCE, and soon AFTER you have just left!!

(Leave every person you come into a contact with with the impression of increase!!!)

What does your presence say about you?

How does that affect the people around you?

How do they feel after your departure?

How do people feel after you have just left the room?

What sort of impression do you leave for others to have about you?

Do you increase the value of yourself you give to others?

We come daily in a contact with various people, from children to adults and grown – ups. We meet them at work, at the shop, at school, at the swimming pool, at the garden centre, etc.

How do we go about interacting with those people? Do they feel happy and satisfied in our company? Are they feeling themselves with us? Can they easily open up to us? Can they easily share secrets of all secrets with us? Can they simply ask us for an advice? Are we able to provide this to them? Are they smiling? Or are they frowning? Do they feel desperation? Can we teach them something useful? Can we learn something from them? Will they hope to see us again? Or will they be looking for the nearest exit? Would they wish to escape from us and run far, far away from us?

Are we giving and providing them with valuable lessons, with valuable stuff, with valuable advice, with valuable love, with valuable friendship, with valuable memories, with valuable songs, with valuable writings, with valuable cards, with valuable traits, with valuable signs, with valuable affection, with valuable photos, with valuable pictures, with valuable paintings, with valuable art, with valuable hugs, with valuable handshakes, with valuable kisses, with valuable chats, with valuable conversations, with valuable touches, with valuable smiles, with valuable kindness, with valuable truths, with valuable swings, with valuable trips, with valuable rides, with valuable adventures, with valuable flights, with valuable festivals, with valuable movies, with valuable films, with valuable books, with valuable everything that we are able to give to them and provide them with?

Even though we are at the wits end, even though we would rather go to bed and fall fast asleep for ages, even though we feel weak, even though we feel hungry, even though we feel very, very thirsty, even though we are unable to take the next step, even though we cannot even speak, even though we cannot even talk, even though we cannot even sing, even though we have no idea of what we are going to do next, even though we are unsure, even though we are incredibly busy, even though we are with no friends left, even though our family is far, very far away from us, even though we cannot even read, even though we ourselves are so lonely, even though we ourselves are so empty, even though we ourselves are feeling so alone, even though we cannot even write, even though we cannot even type, even though our fingers, our hands, our legs, every part of our body feels weary, even though we ourselves are in a desperate need of some piece of advice, of some piece of help, of someone who can provide to us, even though we ourselves our hungry for love, even though we ourselves are starving for attention, even though we ourselves are so thirsty for a hug, even though we ourselves are so thirsty for a kiss, even though we ourselves are so thirsty for sweet love-making, even though we ourselves are so incredibly thirsty for a trusted friend, even though we ourselves are so starving for a lover, even though we ourselves are so hungry for a like-minded person to share our life with, to share our secrets with, to share our deepest desire with, to share our knowledge with, to share our deep fears with, to share our deepest and greatest achievement with, to share our deepest treasures with, to share our deepest lessons with, to share our deepest trials with, to share our deepest human traits with, to share our body with, to share our soul with, to share our heart with, to share our mind with, to share our bed with, to share our living space/place with, to share our food with, to share our drinks with, even though we are desperately looking for someone who is on the same wavelength as us so we can finally open up to someone to entirely, to openly, so humanly, so nakedly, so fully, so beautifully, so wholesomely, so in our very own way, a person who appreciates us and our dreams for who we are and for what our dreams are made of….

What if you have no clue whatsoever as what to do next, what to say next, what to write next, what to type next, what to sing next, what to compose next, what to paint next, what to make next, what to buy next, what to cook next, what to bake next, what to explain next.

Could you just, hypothetically speaking, pretend for a while that you actually do know, that you actually do have an idea, that you actually do have a clue as what to do next, as what to explain next, as what to say next, as what to book next, as what to type next???

Could this be a case for you?

What would you do if you knew you had all the answers?

The day today is the only day you have. The only one you can for with. It can work for you or it can work against you.

Would people around you be keen on and willing to look for you personally?

Would they want to meet up with you over and over again?

Would they seek your kind heart, your lovely soul, your spirited mind, your beautiful body?

The choice is yours.

The choice is up to you.

Leave every person you come into a contact with with the impression of increase!!!

(1006 words)

REALIZATIONS

REALIZATIONS

What have been your most recent realizations?

Did you find them positive?

Did you find them negative?

Did you enjoy them?

Did you learn anything from and about them?

To me, in my humble opinion and from my point of view, realizations come in and show up to us in so many ways on a daily basis.

Have you realized that you are not alone?

Have you realized that you will never ever be alone?

Have you realized that there is no way for you to be left alone, or feel like it under any and every circumstance? Would you let it control you or will you be able to control it yourself?

Have you realized that no man or a woman for that matter is an island?

Have you realized that all the answers lie within you, deep down inside?

Have you come to a realization that you could have anything you ever wanted to own and have?

Have you come to a realization that you could do anything you ever wanted to do?

Have you come to a realization that you could be anything you ever wanted to be, anything that you put your mind into?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deeply loved?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deeply cherished?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deeply missed?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deeply thought of?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deeply adored?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deeply needed?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deeply wanted?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deeply spoken to?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deeply talked about?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deeply counted on?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deep down in someone’s thoughts?

Have you come to a realization that you are already in someone’s agenda?

Have you come to a realization that you are already in someone’s mind?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deep down held in someone’s heart?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deep down held in someone’s soul?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deep rooted someone’s song?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deep down seated someone’s music?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deep down wished the very best of all, the very best of everything?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deep down plucked someone’s chords?

Have you come to a realization that you are already someone’s world?

Have you come to a realization that you are already someone’s everything?

Have you come to a realization that you are already someone’s answer?

Have you come to a realization that you are already in somebody’s eyes someone to be written to?

Have you come to a realization that you are already in somebody’s eyes someone to be sung to?

Have you come to a realization that you are already in somebody’s eyes someone to be painted?

Have you come to a realization that you are already in somebody’s eyes someone to be wished nothing else but eternal happiness?

Have you come to a realization that you are already in someone’ dreams, a lot?

Have you come to a realization that you are already wished to be in somebody’s presence right now at that very moment?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deep down thought of someone to be kissed, many times over?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deep down thought of someone to be hugged, many times over?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deep down thought of someone to be prayed for, many times over?

How significant, how important is it to come to all of those realizations?

What would be our take on from all of them?

If we are open minded, if we keep our mind wide open, if we ourselves are open to it, we may witness many and many realizations going on for us day in and day out.

What has happened today that made you stop and think? What kind of realization did you realize? Did you like the answer? Could that be different? Would you wish for it to be different? Could you prevent it from happening again?

What have you realized about yourself?

What have you realized about your life?

What have you realized about your family?

What have you realized about your friends?

What have you realized about your job?

What have you realized about your health?

What have you realized about your healthy eating?

What have you realized about your exercise?

What have you realized about your good habits?

What have you realized about your not so good habits?

What have you realized about the place you live in?

What have you realized about your neighbours?

What have you realized about your surroundings?

What have you realized about the country you live in?

What have you realized about the food you eat?

What have you realized about the books you read?

What have you realized about the movies you watch?

What did you realize yesterday?

When and where did the breakthrough come from?

When and where did the real learning come from?

When and where did you say to yourself that enough was enough?

When and where did you just simply could not take in anymore?

When and where did you just simply could not stand it any longer?

When and where did you make a decision to realize all that and more?

Let us all know and share what your most recent realizations have been for you.

Thank you so very much. Greatly appreciated!!

(1006 words)

It took a physical distance between them to bring them closer together emotionally.

It took a physical distance between them to bring them closer together emotionally.

We all need someone to lean on.

We all need someone to count on.

We all need someone to reach out to.

We all need someone to touch on.

We all need someone to talk to.

We all need someone to speak with.

We all need someone to chat to.

We all need someone to hold on to.

We all need someone to help out with.

We all need someone to provide a help to.

We all need someone to sleep with.

We all need someone to give a kiss to.

We all need someone to snuggle up with.

We all need someone to give a hug to.

We all need someone to  cuddle with.

We all need someone to spoon with.

We all need someone to help us carry on.

We all need someone' s shoulder to cry on.

How far would you have to go in order to realize the fact of needing someone?

How far would that have to go and reach you in order for it to reach your home?

How many ego trip(s) would it take for you in order to ask, to reach out, to get a feedback back from someone, to find an eternal happiness?

How would you feel knowing that someone dear and close to you is unreachable?

How and when do you know that it is worth fighting for and when and how do you know it would be better off left alone and let go?

Would the fact of losing someone do it for you?

Would you require an emotional break from each other in order to change the situation for yourself?

Would you require a physical distance from each other in order to change the situation for yourself?

Would you require a personal space from each other in order to change the situaion for yourself?

Would you require a professional help/advice from a specialist in order to change the situation for yourself?

What would do it for you?

Who would do it for you?

Sometimes, from time to time, we need some personal space, we need more time.

We are not islands, we need each other, we need one another.

What kind of/sort of person are you?

In order for yourself to feel love, to feel being loved, to feel being in love, would you require to be touched, stroked, cared of, told to, being given gifts/presents to, being taken away on romantic trips, or all of the above combined?

Can you be appreciative of what has been given to you already?

Can you be grateful for what has been given to you already?

How low do you need to go?

How high do you need to go?

The funny thing about people is that they sometimes realize what they should realize in the first place, quite later on, quite late, in their life.

What to do to prevent this from happening again?

What ways can you use to help yourself out to get back in touch, to get back in contact with people?

What would make you decide?

What decisions would you need to make?

What sort of people would you try to contact?

Where would you go to think, to unwind, to chill, to relax, to listen, to hear for, to pay attention to, to watch out for, etc.?

How many seconds would it take for you to realize to value, to appreciate, to be grateful for, to cherish, to be satisfied with, to be happy with the fact of having someone in your very own life?

How many minutes would it take for you to realize to value, to appreciate, to be grateful for, to cherish, to be satisfied with, to be happy with the fact of having someone in your very own life?

How many days would it take for you to realize to value, to appreciate, to be grateful for, to cherish, to be satisfied with, to be happy with the fact of having someone in your very own life?

How many hours weeks would it take for you to realize to value, to appreciate, to be grateful for, to cherish, to be satisfied with, to be happy with the fact of having someone in your very own life?

How many months would it take for you to realize to value, to appreciate, to be grateful for, to cherish, to be satisfied with, to be happy with the fact of having someone in your very own life?

How many years would it take for you to realize to value, to appreciate, to be grateful for, to cherish, to be satisfied with, to be happy with the fact of having someone in your very own life?

What steps would you take in order to come back to the centre again?

What words would you use in order to pursue the person of your heart of your actions, of your feelings?

What action steps would you take in order to swept the other person off their feet?

What gifts would you give to the person of your choice in order to let them know about you and your feelings toward them?

What ‚invisible‘ gifts would you give to the person of your choice in order to let them know about you and your feelings toward them?

What touches would you give and use to the person of your choice in order to let them know about you and your feelings toward them?

Is there such a thing as a long term distance love? Could this work? If so, what are the main reasons? Have you had any experiences with that sort of relationship?

Would you recommend it? Would you suggest it? Would you prevent it from ever happening? Would you appreciate it? Would you approve of it? Would you strongly discourage people of ever falling into it?

It has been over a year of my humble contribution to the wild wide world!! J

Yours truly

:-)

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