Fight or not to fight?!?

Fight or not to fight?!?

Which battles are we supposed and meant to fight for?

Which battles are we supposed and meant to better leave alone and not to go ahead and fight for them?

Where do you know that the balance has been applied?

How to achieve the balance?

What things are worth fighting for?

What things are not worth fighting for?

We all have rules to live by. We may not like to fight at all. However there comes a time (and they always come) when even though we may not prefer it this way, we may go into battle. The most battles we will fight will be the ones with ourselves.

Where to balance the fights worth fighting for and the one not worth fighting for?

Where to draw the line?

Would experiences with life’s challenges be of some help here to us at all?

What would be the drawbacks and what would be the advantages with going either way?

What would work for you?

What would be going against your feelings?

Where and when would be the turning point for you?

In pursuing someone you care about yet still feel unsure about the relationship as a whole thing, what would you decide to do? Would you go ahead and tell the other person about your feelings, about what you feel towards them, about what you feel while being with them, about what would you like to give to them, about what would you like to share with them, about the way you would like to make a love to them, about the day you wish you had a breakfast together, about the way you both would prepare and eat a lunch, about the guests you would be thinking of inviting for your dinner party, about how many children you would like to have with this very special person in your heart, about the way you like they smile, about the way you so love giving them compliments, about the way they pronounce certain words that you so damn find sexy and full of passion and enthusiasm, about the way they make their bed in the morning, about everything and about anything that has just crossed your busy mind, about the sweet kisses they give you, about the way they hold you tight, about the way you embrace them and they embrace you back, about the long hugs you give each other day in and day out, about everything you so deeply love and enjoy and cherish and appreciate and adore and cannot live without about the other person….

…. Or would you rather hold back. Would you sit back and try to hide your true feelings, try not to express your inner most feelings and longings and sweet nothings?

In relation to work, what would be your approach?

Would you ask your boss for a promotion? Or would you be too afraid of and scared of even thinking about it, even mentioning it, even talking about it, even speaking to anyone about this very issue of yours, even about approaching your boss with that subject on your mind, of even considering such a deal possible, of even valuing yourself so high in your eyes, of even going after this offer?

What else is there?

What fights would you go 100% and which you would leave to and for somebody else’s weapons?

Would you be willing to go and approach the people who have been there and done that? Would you learn from them? What advice would you ask of them?

Or would you rather make and learn from your very own mistakes? Would you not mind them doing and then right afterwards embracing them to your advantages?

Would you rather be a teacher?

Or would you rather be a student?

Would you rather be a leader?

Or would you rather be a follower?

Are you a nice, sincere person who would skip fighting all together and live easily in your comfort zone?

Or are you daring enough to knock down a few mountains and scratch your knee in order to achieve all that you desire and all that your heart craves for, is hungry for, and your heart is starving for? Would you not mind take a couple of steps back in order to move one step forward? What would that mean to you?

Would you go ahead and make a list of all the things in the entire world that you would definitely and with 100% certainty go and fight after?

Would you go ahead and make a list of all the things in the entire world that you would definitely and with 100& certainty never go and fight after?

Would you keep those lists as a reminder for yourself in times of need?

As we are slowly but surely nearing the end of this article, would you be up for a task, for a homework set to you by me to do after reading this post?

Great!

I thought so!

J

I strongly believe in never leaving the sight of setting the goal without doing something, anything in order to move closer to realizing this very goal, in making it happen just a little bit more realistic.

If you, please, go and pick one of the fights that you would always fight for with all your heart, with all your body, with all your soul, with all your spirit, with all your mind, with all your weapons available to you.

Now, go and make it happen. TODAY.

If you, please, go and pick one of the fights that you would never fight for with all your heart, with all your body, with all your soul, with all your spirit, with all your mind, with all your weapons available to you.

Now, go and make it happen. TODAY.

Make a mental note of a written note if need be and keep it safe for future reference.

Be careful what you wish for!

Written things take a new meaning!

Now, go and do your homework.

Thank you so very much for attending my class. It is very much appreciated!!

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A 24/7/365(6) person.

A 24/7/365(6) person.

A 24/7/365(6) person.

Who do you think that could be?

Do you have a slightest idea at all?

Would you think you know this person?

Perhaps this person is close to you.

Maybe you have known this person for the entire length of time.

Is this person your worst enemy of all?

Is this person your very best friend of all?

By now, you may have noticed and realized that…..

….. that the only person in the world and on the face of the earth that we are speaking of is nobody else but

You.

Yes!

You can be your worst enemy of all.

And you can also be your best friends of all friends.

The question here is which of those friends do you feed the most? Which one of them have a greater chance of surviving?

You are the one and only person who goes to bed with you day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who eats at the table with you day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who drinks the drink with you day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who walks the walks with you day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who travels all the journeys with you day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who swims in the pool with you day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who hears you and listens to you day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who celebrates your birthday with you every year, every year in and every year out. Every year for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who cooks your meals with you day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who smells the flowers with you day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who runs the marathon with you day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who works with you day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who jumps with you day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who types with your on your laptop day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who mows the lawn with you day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who knows all of your hidden deep down seated secrets day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who laughs with you every time you do day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who kneels down to pick up the weeds every time you do day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who brushes your teeth with you day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who flosses your teeth with you day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who dances with you to any song that every time you do dance day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who sings with you to any song that every time you do sing day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who pays your bill with you every time you ought to do so day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who understands your inner most deep feelings inside you day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who acknowledges your achievements every time you do acknowledge those achievements day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who shares the meals with you every time you do share those meals day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who does the exercises with you every time you do your exercises day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who counts your blessings with you every time you do count those blessings day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who saves your money/your cash with you every time you do save those money/cash day in and day out. Every day for the rest of your life.

You are the one and only person who makes the effort to push through even if it looks all too bleak every time you do make this effort to push through even if it looks all too bleak day in and day out.

Every day for the rest of your life.

You and only you!!!

J

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Something to call your very own!!

Something to call your very own!!

What are the things that you can proudly call your very own?

Do you have any?

Are there any at all?

Are you the proud owner of your house?

Are you the proud owner of a sweet pet?

Do you have a long term boyfriend?

Do you have a long term girlfriend?

Are you in a long term relationship?

Do you have a partner?

Do you have a life - long lover, a company?

Do you have children?

Do you have a spouse?

Do you have a wife?

Do you have a husband?

Do you own a car?

Do you have your very own beautiful garden?

What else is there that we could call ourselves proud owners of?

Do you have your own place?

Have you ever gotten to the point of being sick and tired of being sick and tired of living the same old way over and over again with seeing nothing really huge happening at all? Did it ever happen to you? How did it feel? How did you feel?

Could has there been something that you could have prevented from occurring it ever again?

The only person you are with 24/7 is you. What thoughts run through your mind on a daily basis? Are they serving you? Are they supporting you? Are they helping you? Are they providing for you?

Did the actions you have taken, did the thoughts you have been playing with made you stop and think and reconsider your situation, reconsider your position, reconsider your next move, reconsider your intentions?

What is there that you would love to own more than anything else in the world??

Is it a person?

Is it a job?

Is it a house?

Are they children?

Is it a car?

Is it an organic tree?

Is it a book?

Have you had enough of working for somebody else?

Have you had enough of doing something that does not bring you any fulfilment?

Have you had enough of doing something, anything that does not bring you any happiness?

Have you had enough of waiting?

Have you had enough of being alone?

Have you had enough of feeling lonely?

Have you had enough of pleading?

Have you had enough of searching for the missing key?

Have you had enough of looking for the right answer?

Have you had enough of taking care of others?

Have you had enough of sharing the house with others?

Have you had enough of explain yourself over and over again?

Have you had enough of listening to others lately?

Have you had enough of speaking on your own?

Have you had enough of looking after others?

Have you had enough of fixing someone’s breakfast, lunch and dinner with snacks in between?

Have you had enough of contributing to something from which you see no real value coming out?

Where and when did it for you?

What do you dream about?

What would you love more than anything to see coming to fruition?

There comes a point in our lives where we just simply could not take it anymore and any longer. No more. Enough is enough. What we do next is all that matters. Are we going to fight the current or are we going to go with the flow and wait and see what is coming next, what shows up next, what has been thrown in on our way.

 Are we ready to call all of these things that we hope and wish to possess our very own for ever and ever, for everlasting good?

What are we willing to pay for achieving it all?

What price are we going to pay for all that we desire and hope for and wish of having and owning and calling our own?

Who are we going to talk to?

What advice are you going to look for?

What help are you going to search for?

What advice are you going to hope to get?

What help are you going to wish to be provided with?

What advice are you going to be asking for?

In order to sit in our very own car, to eat from our very own table, to sit on our very own chair, to drive our very own vehicle, to ride our very own bicycle, to soothe our very own babies, to kiss our very own husband, to kiss our very own wife, to pet our very own dog, to pet our very own kitten, to walk in our very own garden, to smell our very own flowers, to drink our very own green drinks, to clean our very own plates, to collect our very own apples and pears, to hold our very own parties, to invite our very own guests, to clean our very own windows, to make our very own beds, to use our very own computers and laptops, to use your very own washing machines, to wear our very own clothes, to read our very own books, to wear our very own sunglasses, to use our very own utensils, to wash our very own boots, to carry our very own shopping bags, to cover and tucked in our very own children with their very own blankets, to play on our very own piano, to wash our very own hands in our very own sink, to swim in our very own swimming pool, to boil the water in our very own kettle, etc. we must do certain things in a certain way to assure that we will feel exactly the way we are striving for! We can then call ourselves the proud owner of all those that we deeply desire.

There is always a way.

There is always a reason.

There is always a choice.

There is always an option.

There is always an answer.

There is always a purpose.

Every one of us has different dreams and desires and ambitions; high or low standards. 

There is no right or wrong dream, a desire, an ambition.

Make sure you own your very own dreams, desires, ambitions!!

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To your Boldest, Strongest, Deepest, Brightest, Biggest FEAR EVER!!!

To your Boldest, Strongest, Deepest, Brightest, Biggest FEAR EVER!!!

What would be your most boldest, strongest, deepest, brightest, biggest fear ever?

Have you conquer it successfully?

Have you won?

Have you succeeded?

Have you reached the breakthrough?

Have you reached the turning point?

Have you celebrated the winning?

Have you celebrated the conquering of yourself?

Have you collected all that was meant for you?

Have you picked up all your belongings?

Have you achieved all your desires?

Have you achieved all your dreams?

Have you reached the tipping point?

Have you gone there already?

Have you gone there yet, at all?

We are all creatures of habits. We feel, we are afraid at times, we are worried, we are sad, we feel happy, we fear the worst, we hope for the best, we expect things to happen in certain way, we may expect miracles to occur to us on a daily basis, we expect things to happen in certain order, we want this to happen to us, we want this person to want us, we want this particular task to be achieved at this very moment and by this particular person, we dream dreams of our wildest dreams of all times, we desire this person, we are hungry for this thing, we are starving for the answers to our questions, we want it all and we want it now, we are craving for this special person, we are craving for this special food, we are craving for this particular drink, etc….

And why, do we ask, has it not happened to us yet?

Do we fear something?

Do we fear anything?

What are we afraid of?

Who is running our world?

Who is running our mind?

Who is running our body?

Who is running our soul?

Who is running our heart?

Are we ready enough to step out of our comfort zone and step in into a real world and put our word out there?

Are we confident enough to do so?

Do we have enough confidence to do so?

Can we face our fears? Are we courageous enough? Are we strong enough?

What are our fears anyway?

What do you fear?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear talking to strangers?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear talking to the opposite sex?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear approaching an attractive person?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear asking for a promotion?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear asking for a pay rise?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear speaking up?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear skydiving?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear heights?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear commitments?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear dark?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear spiders?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear speaking in public?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear showing off your true face, your true colours?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear being naked?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear being open?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear rejection?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear apologizing?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear being wrong?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear making mistakes?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear being alone?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear feeling lonely?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear losing your job?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear not getting enough sleep?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear getting sick?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear being unhealthy?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear getting old?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear not being able to have children?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear not getting enough clients?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear not getting plenty of costumers?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear not being counted on?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear not getting enough messages?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear not getting enough dates?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear being unloved?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear of being cheated on?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear being left alone in this world to deal with all the challenges that come your way?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear of being misled?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear not being able to reach out to your loved ones, to your dear ones, to your close ones?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear not being able to hear?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear not being able to listen?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear not being able to explain yourself clearly to others?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear not being able to smell the roses, all the flowers for that matter?

Are you afraid of, do you worry, do you fear not being able to touch something and feeling it all at the same time?

What drives you crazy?

What drives you mad?

What keeps you up at night?

Are you a boss, are you a leader of your life or is it the other way round?

Go and face whatever that is that is stopping you from living the life of your dreams!!!

We are all in this together J

(1021 words)

Leave every person you come into a contact with with the impression of increase!!!

Your PRESENCE, and soon AFTER you have just left!!

(Leave every person you come into a contact with with the impression of increase!!!)

What does your presence say about you?

How does that affect the people around you?

How do they feel after your departure?

How do people feel after you have just left the room?

What sort of impression do you leave for others to have about you?

Do you increase the value of yourself you give to others?

We come daily in a contact with various people, from children to adults and grown – ups. We meet them at work, at the shop, at school, at the swimming pool, at the garden centre, etc.

How do we go about interacting with those people? Do they feel happy and satisfied in our company? Are they feeling themselves with us? Can they easily open up to us? Can they easily share secrets of all secrets with us? Can they simply ask us for an advice? Are we able to provide this to them? Are they smiling? Or are they frowning? Do they feel desperation? Can we teach them something useful? Can we learn something from them? Will they hope to see us again? Or will they be looking for the nearest exit? Would they wish to escape from us and run far, far away from us?

Are we giving and providing them with valuable lessons, with valuable stuff, with valuable advice, with valuable love, with valuable friendship, with valuable memories, with valuable songs, with valuable writings, with valuable cards, with valuable traits, with valuable signs, with valuable affection, with valuable photos, with valuable pictures, with valuable paintings, with valuable art, with valuable hugs, with valuable handshakes, with valuable kisses, with valuable chats, with valuable conversations, with valuable touches, with valuable smiles, with valuable kindness, with valuable truths, with valuable swings, with valuable trips, with valuable rides, with valuable adventures, with valuable flights, with valuable festivals, with valuable movies, with valuable films, with valuable books, with valuable everything that we are able to give to them and provide them with?

Even though we are at the wits end, even though we would rather go to bed and fall fast asleep for ages, even though we feel weak, even though we feel hungry, even though we feel very, very thirsty, even though we are unable to take the next step, even though we cannot even speak, even though we cannot even talk, even though we cannot even sing, even though we have no idea of what we are going to do next, even though we are unsure, even though we are incredibly busy, even though we are with no friends left, even though our family is far, very far away from us, even though we cannot even read, even though we ourselves are so lonely, even though we ourselves are so empty, even though we ourselves are feeling so alone, even though we cannot even write, even though we cannot even type, even though our fingers, our hands, our legs, every part of our body feels weary, even though we ourselves are in a desperate need of some piece of advice, of some piece of help, of someone who can provide to us, even though we ourselves our hungry for love, even though we ourselves are starving for attention, even though we ourselves are so thirsty for a hug, even though we ourselves are so thirsty for a kiss, even though we ourselves are so thirsty for sweet love-making, even though we ourselves are so incredibly thirsty for a trusted friend, even though we ourselves are so starving for a lover, even though we ourselves are so hungry for a like-minded person to share our life with, to share our secrets with, to share our deepest desire with, to share our knowledge with, to share our deep fears with, to share our deepest and greatest achievement with, to share our deepest treasures with, to share our deepest lessons with, to share our deepest trials with, to share our deepest human traits with, to share our body with, to share our soul with, to share our heart with, to share our mind with, to share our bed with, to share our living space/place with, to share our food with, to share our drinks with, even though we are desperately looking for someone who is on the same wavelength as us so we can finally open up to someone to entirely, to openly, so humanly, so nakedly, so fully, so beautifully, so wholesomely, so in our very own way, a person who appreciates us and our dreams for who we are and for what our dreams are made of….

What if you have no clue whatsoever as what to do next, what to say next, what to write next, what to type next, what to sing next, what to compose next, what to paint next, what to make next, what to buy next, what to cook next, what to bake next, what to explain next.

Could you just, hypothetically speaking, pretend for a while that you actually do know, that you actually do have an idea, that you actually do have a clue as what to do next, as what to explain next, as what to say next, as what to book next, as what to type next???

Could this be a case for you?

What would you do if you knew you had all the answers?

The day today is the only day you have. The only one you can for with. It can work for you or it can work against you.

Would people around you be keen on and willing to look for you personally?

Would they want to meet up with you over and over again?

Would they seek your kind heart, your lovely soul, your spirited mind, your beautiful body?

The choice is yours.

The choice is up to you.

Leave every person you come into a contact with with the impression of increase!!!

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REALIZATIONS

REALIZATIONS

What have been your most recent realizations?

Did you find them positive?

Did you find them negative?

Did you enjoy them?

Did you learn anything from and about them?

To me, in my humble opinion and from my point of view, realizations come in and show up to us in so many ways on a daily basis.

Have you realized that you are not alone?

Have you realized that you will never ever be alone?

Have you realized that there is no way for you to be left alone, or feel like it under any and every circumstance? Would you let it control you or will you be able to control it yourself?

Have you realized that no man or a woman for that matter is an island?

Have you realized that all the answers lie within you, deep down inside?

Have you come to a realization that you could have anything you ever wanted to own and have?

Have you come to a realization that you could do anything you ever wanted to do?

Have you come to a realization that you could be anything you ever wanted to be, anything that you put your mind into?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deeply loved?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deeply cherished?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deeply missed?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deeply thought of?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deeply adored?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deeply needed?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deeply wanted?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deeply spoken to?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deeply talked about?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deeply counted on?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deep down in someone’s thoughts?

Have you come to a realization that you are already in someone’s agenda?

Have you come to a realization that you are already in someone’s mind?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deep down held in someone’s heart?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deep down held in someone’s soul?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deep rooted someone’s song?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deep down seated someone’s music?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deep down wished the very best of all, the very best of everything?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deep down plucked someone’s chords?

Have you come to a realization that you are already someone’s world?

Have you come to a realization that you are already someone’s everything?

Have you come to a realization that you are already someone’s answer?

Have you come to a realization that you are already in somebody’s eyes someone to be written to?

Have you come to a realization that you are already in somebody’s eyes someone to be sung to?

Have you come to a realization that you are already in somebody’s eyes someone to be painted?

Have you come to a realization that you are already in somebody’s eyes someone to be wished nothing else but eternal happiness?

Have you come to a realization that you are already in someone’ dreams, a lot?

Have you come to a realization that you are already wished to be in somebody’s presence right now at that very moment?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deep down thought of someone to be kissed, many times over?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deep down thought of someone to be hugged, many times over?

Have you come to a realization that you are already deep down thought of someone to be prayed for, many times over?

How significant, how important is it to come to all of those realizations?

What would be our take on from all of them?

If we are open minded, if we keep our mind wide open, if we ourselves are open to it, we may witness many and many realizations going on for us day in and day out.

What has happened today that made you stop and think? What kind of realization did you realize? Did you like the answer? Could that be different? Would you wish for it to be different? Could you prevent it from happening again?

What have you realized about yourself?

What have you realized about your life?

What have you realized about your family?

What have you realized about your friends?

What have you realized about your job?

What have you realized about your health?

What have you realized about your healthy eating?

What have you realized about your exercise?

What have you realized about your good habits?

What have you realized about your not so good habits?

What have you realized about the place you live in?

What have you realized about your neighbours?

What have you realized about your surroundings?

What have you realized about the country you live in?

What have you realized about the food you eat?

What have you realized about the books you read?

What have you realized about the movies you watch?

What did you realize yesterday?

When and where did the breakthrough come from?

When and where did the real learning come from?

When and where did you say to yourself that enough was enough?

When and where did you just simply could not take in anymore?

When and where did you just simply could not stand it any longer?

When and where did you make a decision to realize all that and more?

Let us all know and share what your most recent realizations have been for you.

Thank you so very much. Greatly appreciated!!

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