FIGHT - FLIGHT - FREEZE mode.

FIGHT - FLIGHT - FREEZE mode.

To deal with life. To deal with stress. To deal with people. To deal with things. To deal with anything, at all! What sort of person are you? When you deal with people you care, what would you do? When you deal with people you work with, what would you do? Are you the fighter? Would you freeze? Would you fly? Would you get angry? Would you stop and think over the situation you are facing? Can you manage your moods, your temptations, your emotions, your feelings, all your questions? People can react to you or to the situation, or they can stay still. Before they say a word, they can think over what they mean to say? Is it hurtful, can this harm anybody? Are they just talking because their needs are not met, they feel lonely and sad, because they do not know what else to say and what else to do! I would say each one of us has experience either of them, in one way or the other, at same stage in our life. Do you fight with the person you care about because you feel they have hurt you in some way? Would you be willing to look at the situation with the brand new eyes? Would you be willing to consider that this person in question is genuine and means well? That all that has been said and that all that has been done was well meant in the mind of this person, for the best of the best feelings and reasons for you? Yes, because life is not just black or white. It has many colours and we should see them with the sunglasses that we use.. just white, blue, yellow, red, and anything that you can see! When will you open up to this person, mentally, with all the feelings and emotions that you hold inside of you? Anyone should have a chance, anyone should be heard for what he or she has to say, has to give, has to speak about. When you can put all of your feelings on paper in the face of poetry, or lyrics for the song you are working for! How many times we have fought with and against each other. How many times we were submitting to each other because we wanted to, over and over again! When the distance is not the problem, when we can talk to each other no matter what about anything, in no particular order! When your heart still beats to hard that you just have to listen to it, why you have moments of being frozen and staying like this for while and then you go out there and fight one more time again and again, or when you feel as if flying, flying high up there and far away! No one is an island, you cannot make things on your own. Why this fight? Why being so hard on me? What is happening in your world? To busy? Too busy with work? Who is bored at this time and age? Busy with music, me busy with lyrics. When the minds are connected on the higher level. I cannot help but wonder what else is there? How long? How many days are left? How many drinks are there to be left to drank? What are the lessons that will come our way? We are students and this is not going to change as long as we are on the playing field, still lot to learn, still lot to teach to the little ones. Just a close line there is to be happy again. I can feel it and I do know this! Think twice before you say something to someone who really cares about you. This person may be the one. How many more will come, who may know? Who knows? Even the distance can bring two people together emotionally, that is for sure! On Saturday evening, and then any other day right after that! When you want a company who understands you really, truly and deeply! Please, may you feel it, too!!!!

Altruism.

Altruism.

In today's world and in today's day and in today's time, we should all really experience the true sense of altruism and this being done in both ways! To you and by you, that is, of course! Expect what you should do by yourself for others. Can you feel the happiness that you wish for yourself as well as and as much as you wish for others? What about you? And your friends? And your family members? What would you be willing to do for other in order to gain nothing in return? Yes, you have read that right – to expect to get nothing back in return. When was the last time you have experienced this very thing and when you have given this experience and this opportunity to and for somebody else? Besides, what is this going to give you back and to the person all at the same time? And the feelings afterwards? The urge to do more and even more and even more again! Why are we actually here? What is the reason and the purpose of our being here? How did you feel after you have done something for somebody that will never be able to repay you? Did anything inside of you move? Is the service that we give out and get the money from doing the thing why we are here, actually? Why being so selfish? What do you feel if and when everything you do and say is only good for yourself? Who is going to appreciate it? Yourself, just yourself? Is that really enough, for you? When we go out and serve the people, help the people, do a gig for a charity of your choice, do some voluntary work. When you do such a thing and then you go and sleep that night. The karma that is going to come to you after doing this thing for someone in need of a listening ear, in need of a helping hand. Trust your instincts, trust your intuitions, trust your feelings, trust yourself, believe in yourself at all times. How many people are out there that need our help, without even telling us? Just waiting and hoping somebody is out there willing to help them, willing to have enough time and energy and intentions to help them. When the push is stronger that any person who is telling you to do otherwise. Just a little smile, just a small flower, just a gentle touch, just a text message telling them you care, you are there for them, they are needed, they are wanted, you count with them and you count on them, they matter, and they are important in your life. When they can be stubborn at times, but yet slowly step by step they uncover themselves right in front of your very own eyes and open up, break open and tear all the walls they may have built against you, and then suddenly you both see and watch and witness that beautiful soul pouring out on to you. The love, the joy, the tenderness, the gentleness. Just this such a soul is enough for you to bare – what a miracle! Speak out about what you feel, take an action an act up on this. Open out and speak up about your feelings, about your emotions, about anything that you feel, as only in this way you are being real to yourself and to the world around you. The more of this you do, the better you feel. The importance of being there for somebody who deals with stuff that cannot be put in words, for something that only you can be the right answer to! So, what are your questions? Who is this person who keeps looking for you, who keeps searching fro you, who still keeps reaching out to you. When there is a chance for you to take, you should take it. When there is one who genuinely likes you, appreciate this. The time has a certain number of days and minutes, and seconds... Do not waste it, but please do spend it very well. Thank you!