Translate

Saturday, 27 August 2016

To expand our IDEAS..

To expand our IDEAS..

Just the idea of you. Just the thought of you, just one memory about you. Just the tune of yours. Just the song about you. Just the lyrics about you. Just the message from you. .
When the moment comes and you know and you feel the inspirations flowing in, pouring in and coming out from you with unlimited time to take notes of them and make them come alive and real!
Come back and touch my soul, again! Inspire me to the amazing things.
We can go out to seek an inspiration in nature, from the touch of the loving person, from the look in their eyes, from loving somebody who is our inspiration, from travelling the world, from experiences we have had, from the lessons we have taken, from writing and writing, from art, from music, from smells around us.
From falling asleep next to you, the day we did I could promise the universe had moved. From you cuddling right beside me, from our conversations, from our opening ups to each other. From all the ups and downs we have been through all that time.
You are thought of, you are needed for the best reasons. You would be provides everything that man wants. This and more is promised to you by me. Lock me up again in your thoughts, in your music, in your inspirations, in your creations.
Where are you? You are wanted! You are needed for who you are. For all the laughs and for all the smiles and for all the touches, for all of this and more and everything!
It could be a place, the person, the music, the poetry, the writing, the smell, the drink, the sunset, the sunrise, the tea, the water, the very message, the very email, the very connection that only you and me share. Please, come, come, please. You and me. J & L.
Where to start? What to say? How to proceed? How to make you interested? How to make you smile? How to make you laugh. Because I miss you.
The flood of inspirations, the flood of love. I am genuinely interested in you as a person, as a human being. For all our shared emotions, for all our shared creations, for all our collaborations.

Look and search for it in all the places, never give up because it is there, I am here and you are there. All the possible collaborative work and love that is there. You are miracle, you are all that my heart and soul and body needs, all that our eyes could possibly meet. It is meant to be for so many reasons... do not ever give up!

Saturday, 28 May 2016

FIGHT - FLIGHT - FREEZE mode.

FIGHT - FLIGHT - FREEZE mode.










To deal with life. To deal with stress. To deal with people. To deal with things. To deal with anything, at all! What sort of person are you? When you deal with people you care, what would you do? When you deal with people you work with, what would you do? Are you the fighter? Would you freeze? Would you fly? Would you get angry? Would you stop and think over the situation you are facing? Can you manage your moods, your temptations, your emotions, your feelings, all your questions? People can react to you or to the situation, or they can stay still. Before they say a word, they can think over what they mean to say? Is it hurtful, can this harm anybody? Are they just talking because their needs are not met, they feel lonely and sad, because they do not know what else to say and what else to do! I would say each one of us has experience either of them, in one way or the other, at same stage in our life. Do you fight with the person you care about because you feel they have hurt you in some way? Would you be willing to look at the situation with the brand new eyes? Would you be willing to consider that this person in question is genuine and means well? That all that has been said and that all that has been done was well meant in the mind of this person, for the best of the best feelings and reasons for you? Yes, because life is not just black or white. It has many colours and we should see them with the sunglasses that we use.. just white, blue, yellow, red, and anything that you can see! When will you open up to this person, mentally, with all the feelings and emotions that you hold inside of you? Anyone should have a chance, anyone should be heard for what he or she has to say, has to give, has to speak about. When you can put all of your feelings on paper in the face of poetry, or lyrics for the song you are working for! How many times we have fought with and against each other. How many times we were submitting to each other because we wanted to, over and over again! When the distance is not the problem, when we can talk to each other no matter what about anything, in no particular order! When your heart still beats to hard that you just have to listen to it, why you have moments of being frozen and staying like this for while and then you go out there and fight one more time again and again, or when you feel as if flying, flying high up there and far away! No one is an island, you cannot make things on your own. Why this fight? Why being so hard on me? What is happening in your world? To busy? Too busy with work? Who is bored at this time and age? Busy with music, me busy with lyrics. When the minds are connected on the higher level. I cannot help but wonder what else is there? How long? How many days are left? How many drinks are there to be left to drank? What are the lessons that will come our way? We are students and this is not going to change as long as we are on the playing field, still lot to learn, still lot to teach to the little ones. Just a close line there is to be happy again. I can feel it and I do know this! Think twice before you say something to someone who really cares about you. This person may be the one. How many more will come, who may know? Who knows? Even the distance can bring two people together emotionally, that is for sure! On Saturday evening, and then any other day right after that! When you want a company who understands you really, truly and deeply! Please, may you feel it, too!!!!





Altruism.

Altruism.







In today's world and in today's day and in today's time, we should all really experience the true sense of altruism and this being done in both ways! To you and by you, that is, of course! Expect what you should do by yourself for others. Can you feel the happiness that you wish for yourself as well as and as much as you wish for others? What about you? And your friends? And your family members? What would you be willing to do for other in order to gain nothing in return? Yes, you have read that right – to expect to get nothing back in return. When was the last time you have experienced this very thing and when you have given this experience and this opportunity to and for somebody else? Besides, what is this going to give you back and to the person all at the same time? And the feelings afterwards? The urge to do more and even more and even more again! Why are we actually here? What is the reason and the purpose of our being here? How did you feel after you have done something for somebody that will never be able to repay you? Did anything inside of you move? Is the service that we give out and get the money from doing the thing why we are here, actually? Why being so selfish? What do you feel if and when everything you do and say is only good for yourself? Who is going to appreciate it? Yourself, just yourself? Is that really enough, for you? When we go out and serve the people, help the people, do a gig for a charity of your choice, do some voluntary work. When you do such a thing and then you go and sleep that night. The karma that is going to come to you after doing this thing for someone in need of a listening ear, in need of a helping hand. Trust your instincts, trust your intuitions, trust your feelings, trust yourself, believe in yourself at all times. How many people are out there that need our help, without even telling us? Just waiting and hoping somebody is out there willing to help them, willing to have enough time and energy and intentions to help them. When the push is stronger that any person who is telling you to do otherwise. Just a little smile, just a small flower, just a gentle touch, just a text message telling them you care, you are there for them, they are needed, they are wanted, you count with them and you count on them, they matter, and they are important in your life. When they can be stubborn at times, but yet slowly step by step they uncover themselves right in front of your very own eyes and open up, break open and tear all the walls they may have built against you, and then suddenly you both see and watch and witness that beautiful soul pouring out on to you. The love, the joy, the tenderness, the gentleness. Just this such a soul is enough for you to bare – what a miracle! Speak out about what you feel, take an action an act up on this. Open out and speak up about your feelings, about your emotions, about anything that you feel, as only in this way you are being real to yourself and to the world around you. The more of this you do, the better you feel. The importance of being there for somebody who deals with stuff that cannot be put in words, for something that only you can be the right answer to! So, what are your questions? Who is this person who keeps looking for you, who keeps searching fro you, who still keeps reaching out to you. When there is a chance for you to take, you should take it. When there is one who genuinely likes you, appreciate this. The time has a certain number of days and minutes, and seconds... Do not waste it, but please do spend it very well. Thank you!

Saturday, 16 April 2016

When the push is stronger & harder (than anything you have ever experienced)

When the push is stronger & harder (than anything you have ever experienced)










Yes, what to do when the push is stronger and harder than anything that you have ever experienced? So, what to do next? When all the feelings and emotions are telling you to push even harder and even stronger? When the people around you keep telling you to give up on this very thing because of this or because of that! Should you change the people even though they are your family? Do they mean well for you? Should you keep this to yourself? If you need help, where to turn to for a question or two? When for the most part you are fighting with the demons, with your own thoughts, with your own opinions and more! It is still strong, so strong, so very strong! Please, help, help me, please, what to do? I need your help! I want you! Can you hear me? Can you hear my voice? Can you hear my song and can you read my poem? What if giving up shall help?! Sometimes, not getting what we want may be of some help to us. It is said that we are given what we need, not necessarily what we want. Well, either this or that or both, who knows and who can help me, you and us? When there is a sense deep inside of you that cannot simply go away! And in some way, you do not even want to as you feel that is exactly what keeps you going! This must be your reason, this is my reason! The purpose for going on, for keeping on living and doing thing on 200%, for sure! Can you believe in yourself enough to still going strong? To make sure that the setbacks in life are going to make you softer, not meaner? Can you still believe in love, love and love? Can you fight against all the unfair, can you help the most wanted, the most weakest ones? Can you offer your helping hand, and a hankie when the one is crying? Can you offer a soothing song to the one who needs it the most? Can you offer a soothing poem to the one who needs it the most? Can your touch have a healing touch to the one who needs it the most? Can you feel the emotions and feeling of someone as an empath? Can you be even more emphatetic? What about the smell? Can you substitute a smell of something for someone? Can you ever and ever and ever and ever and ever give up on something and on somebody? What the life would be about than? If we would give you, what else would be there to do? If we are still in a playing field, can we work just a little bit more and even more again? When do you know when is the time to stop and when do you know when is the time to move on, to go on, to keep going, to never ever give up? And how far can we go if this discovered? And with whom to go? The article after article, the post after post. The same thing over and over will come up as long as we realize the lesson this is going to teach us about! Mentally I am still with you, if not physically, if the distance is between us! Yet, still, even if the distance is between us, this could also bring us back again emotionally. Yes, it has happened and it can happen again! How much can we achieve if we do not give up and keep going after all that we want and with to have and desire? And yes, I can do so much so that I do not push way too hard. Yes, I can still be and stay strong. And that I wish for everybody to experience. Life is not an easy one, not at all! The people, the things, the consequences are there for us. And it is up to us how we are going to go about them and handle them all! Thank you for reading and I APPRECIATE THIS! 

THE STORY OF OUR LIFE by Me

THE STORY OF OUR LIFE by Me


This has to be a story of ours. This has to be a story of me. This has to be a story of you. This has to be a story of us. This must be a story about us together. This is a story of us by me. Everyone has a story to tell. Everybody has a story to write about. Every story is worth to be written about if you only care to do so! One day, maybe, even today, I am going to write a story about us and with us, because this is worth every minute of it! Every day of this life is one page of this book. Every chapter is a story that is worth reading. Every person has a story that a reader can read and possibly share with others and also learn from if he or she finds interesting! This is a story that has a lots of chapters, lots of learnings are going on there, and lots of teachings are going on there, there is a music, there is a poetry, there is a passion, there is a love, there is a love making, there is a cry, there is a laughing, there is a connection, and there is anything and all in between. The people who push each other into doing things that they enjoy! The people who do not expect things to be and to go perfectly smooth. The people who enjoy all the imperfections about one another! People who do not expect things to go easy! People who can play with each other! And somebody who can show what they want and mean what they say! When the time is just an illusion. And now, what about you? Have you been looking and searching for the bigger version of you? Who is that? Is this a music that makes you who you are and if so, why is this so? Is it any form of art? And most importantly, how do you know that you have found it? Our story is unique in so many ways. As is everybody else's. This cannot ever by taken from anybody! Our story was not easy and has not been easy and is not easy. There were times when I pleaded so much to make it work! When you were confused and so was I! When the story of our life is so colorful, and painted in so many beautiful ways with so many beautiful colours! When only 5 minutes should do and all you have is just these 5 minutes in order to make and do anything that you ever wished for and hoped for! And the flowers! And all the smell, and touch, and eye contacts! When only the song can bring you back to the very memory that has it all started from! Is your favourite colour red? Or is it black? Or maybe even green? When all that is on my mind is this story of ours, the me and the you and everybody that this story could be of any and some help for! This is a book that needs to introduction to us, this is a story that is so rich in words, in music, in knowledge, in experience, in learnings, in teachings, in openness, in passion, in chats, in talking, in touching. Would you be willing to share your own story? Do you feel that your story is important and worth sharing and writing about? If your story turned into a book, what it would be and why? If your story turned into a movie, what it would be and why? If your story turned into a music piece, what it would be and why? If your story turned into a piece of poetry, what it would be and why? If your story turned into a painting, what it would be and why? If our story was about to turn into a blog post, what it would be and why? What story do you want your life to tell? This is our life in bits and pieces. And every bit and every piece is so worth it! Yes, I know this, and yes, I mean it, and yes, I feel it! And you should and must feel it, too! Thank you and be back soon!!





Friday, 8 April 2016

What a difference a day makes!

What a difference a day makes!

And what a difference that is!

What could this difference be? A big one? A huge one? A massive one? An enormous one? Would you have any idea of what could make your day? How could this change everything? What could 24 hours mean to you? What can they change in your life? When the sad day turn into a happy one? I have felt for a long time that the days simply change from 24 hours to 24 hours. Anything can change, anything can happen. Sometimes just giving this the time that it needs is all you have got to do. You can sleep on it, you can sleep it all over. Anything and everything that works for you, that you could do to help everybody involved. You have got 24 hours to think things through. There is no need to rush things, to rush into something that could possibly make things even worse than they could be. A few hours, a few minutes, a few seconds can be an answer that you have been looking for and waiting for. This period can lead to an unexpected result, all the things could fall nicely into a place, like a puzzle, like a jigsaw. You could finally speak up. You could finally say what it is that is on your mind. You could finally tell the person what and how you feel about them, what and how much they mean to you! All that has not been said until now. It can take ages and ages but the decision has been made. It could lead a very long time to the very point when you have just said enough is enough and something big and something important must happen for sure! You cannot and you do not even want to go back to the ways you have used in the past. How long does one know what time do they still have left? How long is this going to take? How many days? How many weeks? How many months? How many years, if any, at all? How many time do you have for saying all the things you want to say and what doing all the things you want to do and for spending all the time with the people you love and appreciate that you want to spend the time around and with? Who actually knows the answer? We all have the same time, no one has more or less minutes than you, that is all well known. What you do with the time that has been given to you is totally and absolutely up to you! You can be of some help to others or you may try and help yourself. Again, up to yourself, only! When was the last time you felt the difference in your life that a day could make? Who was involved and why? Has it made you somehow different as a person? What have you learnt by this? What about your dreams and goals? How long would this take to achieve all of them? Could you tell the time frame for each one of your goals and dreams? One day you could feel all down and blue and right the next day, you could feel like fighting every battle you have ever encounter. The time to do and say things is now! This is the time you have to enjoy for 100%. And with the people that you adore, love, cherish, appreciate. Hopefully, all the things could be solved in 24 hours or less, for that matter. May all have this strength! Thank you for reading and be back soon!





Tuesday, 5 April 2016

Grooving (on a Sunday afternoon)

Grooving (on a Sunday afternoon)


Grooving. One of my very favourite words in the whole vocabulary in the world! Do you feel the same way? What would you say or use to express a good feeling with? What sort of groovy music are you interested in dancing to? What kind of groovy things would you like to do with the person you like very much? When you are chilling out, relaxing, chillaxing. When you are having the time of your life, when you are with your favourite person, when you are at your favourite place, when you are doing your favourite things. Any day of the week, through Monday till Sunday. What would your day consist of when all you have to do is grooving and grooving with your favourite person? To enjoy the sunshine, the warmth of the sun, the warmth of your favourite person's hands, the lightness of the day. The sweet fruits, and a vegetable salad, healthy drinks. When you are just doing nothing, enjoying the present moment, not thinking about the future, not be held back by the past. Then you can sense and feel the fresh air in your lungs and on your body. You lead a non demanding conversations, you enjoy each other immensely. Where would you head out? Or would you prefer stay in and try for babies? Would you be cooking together, would you be creating something exciting together, or would you go for a walk, would you go for a ride, would you go on a bike, what and where would you go? What would you eat? I cannot stress enough the importance of just simply chilling out, enjoy every moment, sense it and feel it with all of your body, with all of our vibes. And what about just staying in a bed, telling each other a story after story, eat and have a breakfast, a lunch and a dinner and all the snacks in between in a bed. Time is so precious, time goes so fast. All the moments, all the seconds put together bring our life to a complete circle, they make it whole. But the question lies in what are those moments and seconds consisting of? For the most part, are you happy, are you satisfied, are you sad, are you depressed, are you angry, are you upset? What are you feeling while you are enjoying these days? Are you missing something, are you missing somebody? Can you do something about this? Are you having time, are you having a time of your life? Is it still working or can something be done in order to make it just a little bit better, just a little bit cheerful? When can you go, when can you start and who can you ask for a help? When was the last time you really stop what you were doing and dropped everything and just enjoy the smell of the roses? If you love something, set it on fire in the most beautiful way! When you really, really want something, I am sure you will find a way to do so! Everybody should have a time to rest, to relax, to be by yourself, to have a space, to do things that make him or her whole and do things that he or she enjoys, things that he or she can contribute to society and help yourself while helping others, at the same time! May we find the time to get to know ourselves, may we sleep a good sleep today and the day after today and may we find the time for each other. Thank you for your time and thank you for reading! I shall be back soon!




To have a history with somebody...

To have a history with somebody...









How long does it really take to truly know someone for real? How long would be enough for you to say someone your very yes? Would you say that with some people only a short time will do, and then, with others, even a longer time may not suffice? How long does it take for you to say 'I love you' to one and only? Is there a special button this person has to push in order to make sure they really are the best party for you? When you have a history with somebody that is something you two can share together, nobody can ever take this away from you both! There are moments that only you two know about and you both can work with and work on! You can experience just so much, or just so little. You learn about everything and about anything about this person, you learn what they like and what they do not like, how they feel and how they experience any feelings and emotions. You learn about them how they cope with faults, and setbacks in life. You learn about what they like to eat and what they like to drink! You also learn what they do when they are sad, what music they love listening to! How can you fit all of this in a let us say 2 week period with somebody? Or maybe you think you could? How could you with over 5000+ chat conversations in this very period? Could you still discover some secrets about each other? Would you like to share this? Would you be able to accept this person for who he or she is and try not to change him or her? Would you be willing to help this person out no matter what? Are you able to be a great listener? Are you able to give a piece of your advice? Are you able to be totally open and open up to someone you trust and care about and be happy for the other to do the same? Relationships are not easy, yes, they require time, energy, patience. Yet, many seem to be struggling in this area. They may feel as if there was a problem and the only way is the way out at the first minute! Are this really a good example? What are the relationships here for then? Are we supposed to be learning lessons, to be able to forgive, to be able to love other person and to be able to learn to love ourselves? Are the problems and challenges in any relationship here to help us out? Would running away from them teach us something valuable that we would be willing to share and talk about with our children? I believe we can learn so much just by being in a relationship, to open up to someone, to trust another human being with all of our being, to be able to cry in front of the other person, to be able to share things that may not be nice to hear or talk about! Can you give up yourself to somebody who you can completely and totally trust, to make love with this person, to see all of our scars, to see all of your emotions when you are sad, or happy, or excited, or frightened! To touch this person and to let be touched in a most beautiful and a sensuous way! To let be kissed anywhere and all over your body! To share the things that you consider as secrets. When setbacks in life turned you into a different type of a person, when you are burnt out. When you touched the rock bottom and the way you lifted yourself up when all was over. This and that, all and everything and more. Yes, thank you. And thank you! 

Sunday, 3 April 2016

Live with PASSION!!

Live with PASSION!!


The word passion is so passionate in itself in so many beautiful and passionate ways. We can be passionate in so many ways and for so many reasons and for so many things. A passionate person is a lovely person who is full of life, full of love, full of creative ideas, full of yourself. To feel a passion and to be passionate about something and about somebody is the greatest reason one can have and one can own! What are you passionate about? Who are you passionate about, and why? Are you passionate about music? Are you passionate about art? Are you passionate about writing? Are you passionate about poetry? Are you passionate about talking? Are you passionate about painting? Are you passionate about animals? Are you passionate about culture things? Are you passionate about environment? Are you passionate about green living and green eating? Are you passionate about science? Are you passionate about technology? Are you passionate about teaching anything to anyone? Are you passionate about babies? Do you know if you are passionate about something or someone, at all? What are you doing to make this happen, to bring your passion back to life, get it up and running again? How can one live without a passion? How can one live with a passion, with a passionate person while being passionate yourself? What would you say is the difference between the person who is passionate about something and the person who has not yet found anything to be passionate about? The look on their face, the way they speak, the approach they use with people around them, for example! Where would you like to be with your passion of your own choice? How long have you been looking for this thing of your passion that drives you insanely crazy and happy all at the same time? What would you be doing together? Would you love to have some space, and if so, where? When there is a passion there is a live, too! People will be looking at you with the smile and knowing you are the person who is on the right track! When the time seems to be stop for you when you are on a roll, when you know exactly what to do, when you enjoy what you are doing! When you are in a flow of things, the passion changes into a passion again! When you can contribute and collaborate with like minded people! When you just simply cannot wait because you want to create again and again. When you do not feel like sleeping because the passion is just stronger and stronger with each passing day! And yes, when the click between you and your passion is unshakable, unstoppable, unbreakable! When the reasons are bigger than any opinions of others! When you do not need any decisions because all of your decisions have already been made by you and not any needs to be made, anymore! It is something special not everyone possesses it and should always be fought for over and over again! When you think of your person and want so much to do some passionate things together, to create and collaborate and contribute in a passionate way! Stay passionate no matter what, feel passionate and be passionate. Thank you! 




Saturday, 2 April 2016

Unshakable

Unshakable

Unshakable.
Feeling of being unshakable. How does it feel at all, actually?

Unshakable feelings towards a person, unshakable emotions towards a person, unshakable belief in something, in anything at all, unshakable knowledge of having said all, unshakable knowledge of having done all, unshakable knowledge of being out there completely and truly, having an unshakable personality who goes there and gets things done, unshakable love and adoration for the world and all alive that is there as well, and some more, too! Yes, sure, there are always times when the doubt of any kind just somehow creeps in! That it why we are all human, we make mistakes and we learn from them, too, as we go along! Is there anything about yourself that you would be proud to call unshakable? Or would you have anything that you would make sure stay and keep being unshakable? What that would be and why? When you have experienced so many setbacks in your life yet you still feel somewhere deep down inside of you to still keep going, to still stay strong, to still not give up on this person or this very thing! When all the odds seem to be against you, but you go ahead and do the very thing that you feel is the best one, this is the right thing to do right now in this very moment! When you really and truly and absolutely and totally believe in yourself with all the might and nobody and nothing can shake this off of you! What an amazing feeling! When your heart is so soft even though it has gone through some rough patches, yet, you have still manage to keep it soft, and remaining strong when and where the strength is needed and required! No matter what happens to you, no matter who you have talked to or spoken to, the little voice, the little child of yours must stay unshakable under all the circumstances. Every night before you go to bed, you know for yourself that your soul can speak soundly tonight and every night after that. The love that you have proved to the person that means a lot to you, has been delivered, in a way that is available for the time being. Why this very person? Why this very mean? That is the question that only you know the answer to! And even though you may sometimes feel that there are so many questions for you to answer and you may feel totally and absolutely and completely lost, please, do know, that this has only been a journey, a learning curve, a loop, a work in progress. You can never get this all completely perfect and you should not even be striving for perfection as this is not possible to achieve and it is out of the question as this is not really the point! But yes, making mistakes, change of feelings and emotions, this is what the life is really and truly about! And when is the time for you to give up all this and just cowardly walk away from all this jungle! I could not stress that enough, that time is never! It should never be coming and you should never see this coming. You may notice it, even feel it or sensing it to come close by, but, by all means, never listen to it. You are still in a playing field so, go ahead and enjoy the ride. The person who is there for you is always a hard one to find, so keep it and never let go!




Tuesday, 29 March 2016

Being vulnerable & feeling vulnerability

Being vulnerable & feeling vulnerability








Have you ever been vulnerable?
Have you ever felt vulnerable and felt the real vulnerability of yours or of somebody close to you?
What do you think about this and what do you think about this?

This is so close to me and with every step, with every breath, with every experience of mine, I feel the deep and true importance of being vulnerable and feeling vulnerability at its best! The person is beautiful because this person let himself or herself feel, feel everything, feel the love, feel the sadness, feel the energy, feel the price of being vulnerable, feel the price of feeling vulnerability. I would recommend to everyone that they go and be vulnerable, to yourself, with yourself and to those they love and they care about. This experience totally and absolutely transform the whole person. The person before this act is a different one to the one before the act. The person has changed, for the better! Life can be hard sometimes, I am sure you would agree with me. This can make us harder, more strict with ourselves and with others. Do not let this happen to you. Let it make you softer and let it make you appreciate your life more! When you are being nobody but yourself, when you feel no need to compare yourself or your life to anybody else or to anybody else's. When you truly open up, you show all your weak points, you open up your wounds with a total knowledge that the person at the other end would not judge you, would not laugh at you, would not compare you! This person will take you as you are, no judgement, with all the flaws and warts and all! And you are going to be the same for this very person. The question is, who is this person for you? Where is she or he? Do you feel this person is going to be willing to open up to you the same way you have done to and for them? When you feel no shame about your insecurities, when you do not shy away from this subject, when you do not run away from being vulnerable and feeling the real sense of vulnerability! I have done this and I am open to and willing to do this again, and I have also the person I care about a lot, very much, do this to me and with me. It has felt absolutely wonderful, and I would say the person in question felt totally amazing afterwards. And I would be so keen on doing this with you again and again and all over again! So up for it, so willing, so obliging, so eager! We could have sessions of nothing but just this? Lovely! When you once told me that you hardly show somebody your unfinished stuff, it is rare, in your words, and I felt so privileged and so grateful and so honored, because of this thing! I appreciate this very much, indeed! We should all do this more often. It is almost clearing. The effect and the impact on our lives is enormous and the benefits priceless. Go and try for yourself and I am very much looking forward to any feedback and experiences you have had with this one. Please, share, comment, pass on the good stuff. Thank you for your presence and for your time you have spent reading. I shall be back again soon! Thank you. 

Monday, 28 March 2016

MEMORIES

MEMORIES











Memories. Some of those that belong to you. Some of yours. From the recent and not that recent past. It could even be a minute ago. Yes, this shall be your memory, too! All the lovely moments that one by one, connected and together, represent your life! Just by imagining your favourite person, the one who rocks your world and than recalling every and any memory you two share together. Beautiful, isn't it? There, of course, could be many types and kinds of memories, from photo and picture taken, a piece of art, a piece of music, a piece of poetry, a piece of anything that you both took a part in. Where are you right now at this moment? Are you able to share this memory with someone, with this special someone? How are you going to go about making your future memories? Are you going to do something differently? Perhaps even more pictures than up to now? Maybe going travelling even more, enjoying more attractions, more of this and more of that? And most importantly, what does every single memory bring back to you? What about the feelings, the vibes, the sensations, the emotions? Even the smell of a food, your favourite drink from your childhood can bring your right back to the moment when you drank that very drink, in an instant! Yes, that is the power of a simple memory! A powerful indeed that is! And it could be used in many ways, to bring you back in time to that favourite place with this special person of yours, even if you cannot be together right now. And that is really a magic in itself! And even so, when we get older we may appreciate those moments even more, cherish those bits of fleeting emotions and feelings a bit more than the last time! I am pretty sure you have done this before. You turned on some music, and then, hooray, you are right back in this moment, with this person, eating this type of food and drinking this kind of a drink. Sometimes, even the smell of something familiar can turn into a memory bank! It is said that we should always strive and try our best to make sure we make the most memories while we can, so that we can appreciate them, recall them later on, when needed! What sort of memories would you love to make? And what sort of memories would you love to have for your children? The technology goes at the highest peak ever and they are many ways we can use to keep our memories to be kept forever! When was your last time you were going back into your past? What was the reason? Did you like this or not so? And also, I would say the memories are made when we expect them to be made the least! When we have nothing at ready, when even the weather is against us, yet, we somehow manage to make the most loveliest, the most beautiful, the most liveliest of memories, and talking about them at the end of a long day! I feel I actually go back to my memories quite often, like, today, for example. By re-reading some stuff that I made some notes about! I felt as if my body was there present, let us say, 7 years ago. Nice, interesting and profound feeling, to say the least! Nevertheless, I thought about you, and again, I cannot say it any other way, it is you – it has always been. Please, know this! Thank you for reading, and I hope you have enjoyed this big day in history!!

Sunday, 27 March 2016

MIND over MATTER

MIND over MATTER








I cannot stress this enough how much I feel this topic to be of a strong importance. Our mind is directly connected to our body and vice versa, our body is directly connected to our mind, from the beginning of all ages. I am pretty sure you have experienced this first hand, with your own experiences, on your very own journey through life. It may start with a simple 'illness' and then go on to a very bad headache, etc. And then continue on to a mental problems. Or it may start with a stress at work, at home, with friends that will lead to an illness later on. As bad as it may sound or as simple as it may sound, this is how our bodies and minds work, hand in hand, in cooperation. Take care of your body and your mind will thank you. Take care of your mind and your body will thank you for this. I am pretty sure most of us have been experiencing this in one way or the other. It can start with the simple 'illness' and than leads to something more dangerous. This post has been writing the second time around as my laptop suddenly froze and it did not save my data. I could stress over this and most definitely bring myself to some kind of tension, something that I do not really need, no, thank you! I have fallen the victim of this. Sometimes we can be exposed to things that are not good for us for such a long time, without us even noticing this and then all of a sudden, something appears or happen to us, to our physical side and part and it is almost impossible to take it all back now. So what do we do in this moment? Are we going to regret things we have done, are we going to freak out, or what? When the stress level is so high, somewhere, something in our body has to respond to this. Where, why and how is in the question. But I would suppose it will not be holding a warning sign for us to see and to read. Prevention, taking care of our body as well as of our mind must be the key here. I will do my part, take a rest after some long and exhausting days and will get mentally and physically ready for tomorrow. The same I also wish for you. Strong body and good health. Because the health is the wealth. What could be there to help us with all this? Perhaps, a mediation, a yoga, some kind of exercises, a loving and understanding person right next to us, a good and healthy food, lots of water, happy thoughts, mental and physical stimulation, fresh air, positive vibration and vibes, books, music, friends, family. Healthy mind, the mind that is sharp in every age, the one that remembers datas, recalls precious moments is a gift in itself. No money could ever be able to pay and repay you for this. We can do puzzles, any word searches to keep our mind, and then body, in a perfect shape. I am wondering, what does it for you? Please, share! What keeps you healthy, happy and wise no matter what? Are there any people involved in the recipe? What do you do in the mornings, during the day, and in the evenings? This article could go on and on, plus with the part that was not saved, there would be even more, yet I promised to get ready for tomorrow, to lay down my sleepy body and my restless mind on the pillow and dream lots of sweet dreams. Thank you for your time and reading! 

The ROCKET SCIENCE

The ROCKET SCIENCE

This is a rocket science.
This is not a rocket science.
So, what do you think? So, what would you say about this?

We could think over and over this subject and what would be the solution? What would be the answer to our question? Are you the type of person who thinks hard and long enough in order to find a suitable way how to go about this all? Would you ask somebody for a help? If so, who would that be and why? Can we make things just a little bit easier, not that difficult at all? Why would we be making things more difficult than it is necessary? If we could just let go and relax and see things as easy as they really are. Yes, I do admit that not everything is as easy as a butter, yet for the most part, people have been the ones who are standing in their own way! If we could maybe just trust a little bit more, those around us, then maybe we would relax a little bit more and enjoy the life just a little bit more, too! Just try and apply and see how this would work for you! I am your friend, I am not your enemy. And I have always been like that, please, see this, feel this, know this! This is the truth as it can get, any truer is not even possible! I desire you to trust me, I want you to trust me, I need you to trust me. How can I prove this to you? What else can I do? We do already know this is not a rocket science. I promise to do my part and you can do your own part. We are not going to make a rocket science out of this if this is not absolutely needed! As soon as this is possible, things should get started and going on smoothly and nicely. I wish for all the people to make the best of everything that have on their mind, and they have been granted with. Not to make too much trouble about things that really do not matter but make sure they give their best of times and their best attention to people and things that really do matter, the ones that make up our life. Like the pieces of puzzle that put together make a beautiful whole picture! How can actions speak louder than words? What action can speak up nice and loud for you? What would work for you? A text message? A phone call? A song? An article? A meeting? And a personal connection? A personal touch? A personal hug? A personal message in a form of a letter? I would like that, so very much! To make sure you know this, you know what I feel, you know that I mean well and honestly. And to let each other know that we are not going to make a rocket science out of nothing at all! Because we are not going to make a rocket science, at all! Many things and stuff can represent a difficult task for us, for children it could mean this or that, and for the adults this or that. For women many things can mean problems and troubles as well as for the men. Older people, for example. Physical problems, psychological problems. Please, help me to be stronger in this area, please, help me, to be stronger for you, please, help me to be stronger for the people I care about and are important for me! Please, please, and pretty please again! I will be back! Thank you!





Saturday, 26 March 2016

How to go at one's own pace

How to go at one's own pace








There have never been quite the two just the same people. There have never been quite the two same people who feel the same, who have experienced just the same. And there will probably never be! The journey of all of us is different on every level. The emotions, the lessons, the paths and all that fill our days make us who we are and not all of us are on the same level. Some of us can deal and handle 20 tasks a day, let's say, and the person next to us can ''only'' deal with 10. Do you know such a person? Which group would you think you belong to? Perhaps, in the past time, when we were younger we could feel that we can handle everything, we can fight all the people and we can fight the world! We were not afraid of anything at all, maybe we did not even realize what was in a stake, what was in a game. And what about now? We have so many things on our mind that there is just not a place for anything, at all! Some people can deal with this world we are currently living in, some people can handle the pressure of a daily job, some people can go out every day till 4am, and some people just need a little bit of more sleep. Some people can handle the show business, the pressure or a press, of people asking any types of questions, and some people are more introverted than extroverted. This is just the way it is, this is how our world is spinning around. And, of course, some people are more outgoing and the others are more sensitive. Some people may need more time than others, some people may need more space than others and some need more of this or more of that than others. Who and what do you prefer? Who do you think are you in your very own words? I really do hope we are all understanding the importance of this. Not to judge anybody, not to put anyone in the same box, not to compare a person to person. As long as we do this, a lot of the things we wish to be avoided, are actually going to be avoided. People are not going to suffer any psychological dilemma, related to the above subject. How do we know it the people can be tolerant enough to each other? How do we know if the people can respect each other? How can we more help each other? To be more open to each other and honest? Even the 2 totally opposite people can tolerate each other if they are really willing to do so and know the reasons are big enough for this! I have learnt this on my own with my own mistakes and faults. I even thought I could make everything on my own, without anybody helping me, and yes, I had made a huge, an enourmous mistake about this, being a lonely camper. Now days, I feel and I know and I understand the importance of being able to open up to somebody we trust. If you are truly lucky enough to have such a person close to you, I argue you to never let him or her go. It is a true gift that should never ever be taken for granted! Appreciate the person for who and what he or she is. Not to try to change her or him for the sake of yourself, yet always be ready to be there for them, to help them, to be willing to make them better for the sake of everyone involved. Thank you and thank you for reading. I shall be back again here soon!

Friday, 25 March 2016

A very big time!

A very big time!

Art washes away from the soul the dust of everyday life.”
~ Pablo Picasso



You can do anything you like and fancy and anything really your mind can think of and have a very big time! What does resonate with you? How do you see your future? Who would you like to spend this and that time with, and why is this so? What would you love to be your very work of art? When would be the best time to celebrate, a very big time, that is, indeed! Good stuff there is. Looking back at your life, are you able to recall any moments, the big times when you just knew things had begun rolling? The moments when your heart was beating with love, when your dreams had come true, when you had finally met up with your favourite person, you had heard your favourite tune, you had read your favourite poem or an article, you had touched the person you had always wanted to touch, but not for real and in a real time! Those are moments that give us nice feelings, that is for sure! If we, however, turn the page, and look at the world right now at the moment, we may be very surprised, or not, as for where is this world of ours seem to be going to? If you hear that a friend has passed away, that somebody is fighting a mental illness, when a small child is going to be looked after her parents for the rest of her life due to her physical state! Where, then, you go and recharge your batteries so you can successfully cope on with this all? Who do you talk to and who do you feel safe with? Who will understand? Who is genuine by words and by actions, as well? How to be stronger for anything that comes your way in order to flow through life with the glee? How to restore anything that needs to be restored? The idea of perfection is perfectly overrated! Nothing is ever perfect and should not even be!! The main point and a reason in my humble opinion is in enjoying the journey, the ride, if you will, while appreciating everything in between – the people, the places, the food, the drink, the music, the books, the art, the ideas, the opinions of others, their views. Not to be stuck in one place or the other, not waiting for something mysterious to happen to us, not waiting for the end to finish this all up! But, yet, to grab the hand of the person who is there for us, who knows what she means and she means what she wants, the one who has touched your soul and your body, the one who can speak up, the one who is open, no matter what! That is the meaning of everything: the meaning to contribute, the meaning to collaborate, the meaning to love, the meaning to forgive, the meaning to teach and to learn, the meaning to have and to be passionate about something and about somebody, the meaning to create an art of any form, the meaning to be able to laugh at ourselves, the meaning to have an ability to stop and smell the roses, the meaning of giving and receiving, the meaning you give something your very own meaning while having a big time doing so! Good night, thank you as always and be back again! Thank you!!



authentic & vulnerable

authentic & vulnerable






I very like this subject in itself. Being authentic and vulnerable. Being humble, honest, and raw. When feelings you have inside of you toward somebody and your mouth can tell the feelings and emotions in a way that opens the door to both of you! When you can openly say what you feel to the person who means a world to you. When you are broken open and all that is left in you is the pure essence of your being, the raw part that is nothing but love, your soul, your friend, your lover, your soulmate. When the energy between you two is just nothing but lovely, and beautiful, and electric, and amazing! The music and the poetry that both are only an honest feedback on the side of the artist, either a musician or a poet! Take a look at the first poem or a musical note and all you can see there are emotions that have to be spoken out loud in open for everybody to hear and see! Have you recall, or do you remember any moment when you have thought that you may have touched a rock bottom and all that was left for you to do was to speak, was to write, was to produce anything that would stay there forever! This could take any form, for that matter, that is best suited to your personality. And when this ability of being human, make mistakes, being vulnerable in the most beautiful way, being raw, being authentic and being yourself at all times, this can attract the people who are the same, who feel the same, you adore you for just the way you are, the ones you should be surrounded by, the people who mean well and are on the same wavelength and on the same page as you are. When this connection happens, all good things can come your way only, and absolutely! And what about talking about the feelings right afterwards, we can feel the weight of it lifts us up and we can free the total and the absolute freedom that definitely comes with this! I have been in this boat many, many times and I am sure you have been in this boat, too! And what a moment when you finally face your favourite person and the things get stirred up and you both totally open up to each other! How important can this really get? When you wish you had a chance to speak, you are being heard, you said everything that you wished to, when things are working out very well and you are on the same page! And I know you like this, too! I wish this so much for both of us! It will definitely make us come closer to one another and this is the main point about this all. Being vulnerable and authentic in so many ways can teach us many lessons, we are being uniquely human, it makes us even stronger than we are and our soul sings the sweet song of their own. This is one of the reasons why we are here, this is our purpose, this is our purpose! Especially, when we hear each other's voice, the vibration of it, the sound of it, the melody of it! The connection becomes even more stronger! I am still the work of art, I am still the work of progress, and I still do strive to be humble, and honest, and vulnerable, and authentic, and open to myself, to you, to people around me. Thank you, and thank you once more! I will be back soon.

When our mind is quiet, our soul can speak

When our mind is quiet, our soul can speak

There is so much truth to that!

When we are so busy running around doing things that we think and feel that they are important, when we are working so hard and for such long hours, when we answer emails we seem to find so significant in and for our lives! When we are running errands here and there, when we would love to double our presence just in order to do more and more work! When, then, is the time to quiet our mind, to sit down, to walk and smell the roses, to taste, really taste our food and to really taste our drinks, really breathe deeply, really enjoy swimming, really count the stars, really be there and present for others, really love and enjoy and taste the love, really spend time with children, really play and laugh and run and jump and jog, and listen, really listen to people around you telling you something, not to look for how to reply, but listen to read between the lines. And then really enjoy and listen to music, the tunes, the songs, the vibes, the beats! Really be there this very minute, not think of the past and not think about the future, really be there this minute, those 60 seconds. When was the last time you have done such a thing, when you have done this very thing, when you have been really there and present for the moment that was in it? What did you do, with whom did you spend this time with? What music did you listen to? What food did you eat, if any? What drink did you drink, if any? What were you talking about, what was the subject? Were you happy, or were you sad? What were you thinking about, if you were thinking of something at all, I would believe so! We are having so many thoughts during the day, sadly, I am afraid, for the most part, they have been negative ones! But, what is there that we can do about this? We can fight, we can change this situation, because, yes, we can! Who can we ask for help? Who can go on and share in the journey with us? Who is there that you believe in? What is there that you believe in? When you have so many questions running through your head and you so desperately are seeking for the answers, what would be the best way to go about this? To sit quietly by the river stream, and go over your questions, or do you already feel in your soul, what the answer could be? Is there anything that you are afraid of and scared of, what is this and why is it the way it is? I recall very well our chatting about why you want to quiet your mind. Perhaps, take a meditation class, even yoga, if that does for you! When we are still, our mind can do wonders, can teach us things that only our soul can speak about. It may have answers to your most profound questions. It may reveal your inner secrets, only for you and remind you of the deep meaning of your life here! Yes, it can really do such miracles. Give it a try and see it for yourself! What is your should hiding and what has it been trying to tell you? It is said that if we cannot find a break of 10 minutes for ourselves, we should make sure it has been doubled! Yes, that is indeed so! Thank you for your time today and try this for yourself! :-)