Gap between the known and the unknown...

Gap between the known and the unknown...

Would you start a love affair if you knew that it must be over in a month time from now?

Would you start a speech if you knew that no one would be listening and by the end you are finished, the entire room would become completely empty?

Would you ever being some work, any work for that matter, if you knew beforehand that you would never be paid and repaid for doing it?

Would you ever do anything for a person, for whoever, who would never be ever able to thank you enough for doing such a great job/work for him/her?

What has been known to you?

What has still been hidden from you?

What has still been kept secret for you?

What does unknown mean to you?

What does unknown represent to you?

Can you be spontaneous, at times, at least?

Can you speak up your mind freely, wildly, purely?

Would you be too scared to jump off the cliff?

Would you be too afraid to leap over the wild rafting river?

Would you go skydiving?

Would you go bungee jumping?

Would you go protesting?

Would you and are you able to enjoy yourself under every circumstance and any circumstance?

How deep does the gap go for you between known and the unknown?

How low does the gap go for you between known and the unknown?

What kind of things/what sort of things would you classify/would you put into a category of the unknown to you?

What kind of things/what sort of things would you classify/would you put into a category of the known to you?

Would you be worried and scared of putting yourself out there into the unknown world to you?

Would you feel comfortable and at ease by putting yourself out there into the world known to you?

What is the comfort zone for you?

Where/when would you step in?

Where/when would you step out?

What would you be willing to do and say if you knew you could not possibly fail at all?

Would you start your own business?

Would you ask someone out on a date?

What if the other person is going to say no?

What if the other person is going to cheat on you?

What if you did not trust the person enough?

What if you did not trust yourself enough?

What if you did not believe in others?

What if you did not believe in yourself?

What if you could not possibly make up your mind?

What if you were unsure?

What if you were unaware?

What if you felt scared?

What if you felt lonely?

What if you become upset?

What if you were angry?

What if you were all alone?

What if the things you planned so hard did not work out at all?

What if the things you have done so much work on would all fall through?

What if everything you ever worked on so hard would come to waste, would come to ruin, would come to the end and would finish suddenly?

What if you suddenly stop talking?

What if you suddenly stop listening?

What if you suddenly stop feeling?

What if you suddenly stop thinking?

What if you suddenly stop believing?

What if you suddenly stop trusting?

What if you suddenly stop arguing?

What if you suddenly stop over analysing?

What if you suddenly stop dreaming?

What if you suddenly stop walking?

What if you suddenly stop hearing?

What if you suddenly stop touching?

What if you suddenly stop loving?

What if you suddenly stop adoring?

What if you suddenly stop swearing?

What if you suddenly stop smoking?

What if you suddenly stop drinking?

What if you suddenly stop dating?

What if you suddenly stop eating?

What if you suddenly stop sleeping?

What if you suddenly stop chatting?

What if you suddenly stop speaking?

What if you suddenly stop moving?

What if you suddenly stop driving?

What if you suddenly stop cycling?

What if you suddenly stop driving the people around mad and crazy?

What if you suddenly stop swimming?

What if you suddenly stop running?

What if you suddenly stop jogging?

What if you suddenly stop practising yoga?

What if you suddenly stop dieting?

What if you suddenly stop over reacting?

What if you suddenly stop meditating?

What if you suddenly stop pining?

What if you suddenly stop listening to others?

What if you suddenly stop reading books?

What if you suddenly stop pestering others?

What if you suddenly stop guessing?

What if you suddenly stop using planes?

What if you suddenly stop using trams?

What if you suddenly stop using trains?

What if you suddenly stop writing?

What if you suddenly stop typing?

What if you suddenly stop listening to music?

What if you suddenly stop making music?

What if you suddenly stop painting?

What if you suddenly stop doing your very art?

What if you suddenly stop working?

What if you suddenly stop looking?

What if you suddenly stop searching for the answer?

What if you suddenly stop being passionate?

What if you suddenly stop smiling?

What if you suddenly stop laughing?

What if you suddenly stop enjoying yourself?

What if you suddenly stop yearning?

What if you suddenly stop earning?

What if you suddenly stop hoping?

What if you suddenly stop having faith?

What if you suddenly stop wishing?

What if you suddenly stop craving?

What if you suddenly stop being hungry?

What if you suddenly stop doubting yourself?

What if you suddenly stop doubting others?

What if you suddenly stop questioning others?

What if you suddenly stop questioning yourself?

What if you suddenly stop questioning the world around you?

Are you ready to enter the unknown?

Are you ready to leave the known?

What would be the norm for you?

What would belong to your high standards?

Are you ready to face the new world, the world of yours, the world of the known and the world of the unknown?

Would you be afraid of getting caught in an action?

Would you be afraid of getting caught in an act of yours?

(1023 words)

Nothing ever really disappears, it only changes the form

Nothing ever really disappears,  it only changes the form

Have you ever felt as if something has completely and totally disappear out of your life without you being aware of it at all at first?

Have you ever feared losing a person?

Have you ever feared losing a relationship?

Have you ever feared losing a house?

Have you ever feared losing a car?

Have you ever feared losing a friendship?

Have you ever feared losing a computer?

Have you ever feared losing something valuable to you?

Have you ever feared losing a possession of yours?

Have you ever feared losing your health?

Have you ever feared losing your wealth?

Whatever you may or may not be afraid of losing is happening in your very own mind first.

The very thing you are afraid of losing actually never is going to be lost in the first place.

If the relationship breaks up, it only changes its form in a way that the 2 persons are not in a committed relationship, yet the relation with each other still exists between them.

If the water boils and then you can see the steam coming up, so that is an excellent example of having one form been changed into other form.

It has been replaced with anything else that follows it right afterwards.

Have you been crying over the spilt milk?

Have you been regretting something recently?

Have you been upset with, angry about, stressed about, worrying about, frustrated with, disappointed with something recently?

Do you worry a lot that things will not work out for you?

Do you worry a lot that things do not go your way?

Do you worry a lot that things will not go the way they should go?

Do you worry a lot that things do not go as they were supposed to go?

What do you think in your opinion could the resolution here be?

What do you think in your opinion could the solution here be?

What do you think in your opinion could the explanation here be?

What do you think in your opinion could the reason here be?

What do you think in your opinion could the answer here be?

If we step back and then take a look at the whole situation, compare this to that, perhaps see the situation from a different point of view, perhaps see the situation with the different set of eyes, perhaps look for the clues, perhaps look for the solution, perhaps search for the resolution, for the answer, for the reason.

What if there was a bigger, greater picture to it all?

What if losing something in your eyes would actually represent something more meaningful, more beautiful, more significant, more wonderful, more purposeful, more useful, more handsome, more sweet, more caring, more deeper, more awesome, more to your own benefits, more profound, more amazing, more suited to you?

What if losing something would actually mean gaining something and be given something at the same time?

What if losing something would actually represent a huge favour for you?

What if losing something would actually represent a gift for you?

What if losing something would actually represent a present for you?

What if losing something would actually represent knowledge for you?

What if losing something would actually represent the very opposite of what you may think you have been experiencing?

Can you see it now?

Can you feel it now?

Can you sense it now?

Can you view it now?

Can you experience it now?

Can you picture it now?

Can you imagine it now?

Can you understand it now?

It is so not damn easy to see the behind the picture scene.

It is so not damn easy to see the beyond the picture frame.

It is so not damn easy to pick up all the pieces and carry on with life as if almost nothing has ever happened to you.

It is so not damn easy when at times you feel as if everything is working okay for you and the very next minute the opposite seems to be the truth here.

It is so not damn easy when you feel like trusting and listening to your intuition, to your gut feelings, to your instincts, to your hunch and still feel confused from time to time.

It is so not damn easy to listen to others’ advice while you feel the very opposite of what has been offering to you? Do they know? Do you know? Who should know? 

Who should you go to and ask for a helping hand?

What is your soul telling you? Do you feel like needing more time? Do you feel like needing more space? Do you feel like needing some more attention? Do you feel like needing some more loving feelings? Do you feel like needing some more understanding? Do you feel like needing some direction? Do you feel like needing some connecting? Do you feel like needing some quiet time on your own to just think and to just be and to just relax and to just meditate, and to just chill, and to do just yoga?

Is there a chance to see it all differently in a week time?

Is there a chance to see it all differently in a month time?

Is there a chance to see it all differently in 6 months’ time?

Is there a chance to see it all differently in a year time?

Is there a chance to see it all differently in 2 years’ time?

Is there a chance to see it all differently in 5 years’ time?

Is there a chance to see it all differently in 10 years’ time?

Is there a chance to see it all differently in 15 years’ time?

Is there a chance to see it all differently in 20 years’ time?

Is there a chance to see it all differently in 25 years’ time?

Is there a chance to see it all differently in 30 years’ time?

How do you view the whole situation NOW??

When ego is lost, limit is lost.

(1017 words)

Learn to Forget, Learn to Forgive

Learn to Forget, Learn to Forgive

Learn to forget.

Learn to forgive.

Learn to be patient.

Learn to be strong.

Learn to be humble.

Learn to be meek.

Learn to let go.

Learn to embrace.

Learn to enjoy.

Learn to smile a lot.

Learn to laugh out loud often.

Learn to surrender.

Learn to cry.

Learn to love.

Learn to adore.

Learn to cherish.

Learn to type.

Learn to appreciate.

Learn to be grateful.

Learn to believe.

Learn to swim.

Learn to tell the truth.

Learn not to lie.

Learn not to give up.

Learn not to quit.

Learn to weep.

Learn to read.

Learn to sing.

Learn to speak.

Learn to talk.

Learn to chat.

Learn to make speeches.

Learn to write.

Learn to be happy.

Learn to ski.

Learn to cuddle.

Learn to snuggle.

Learn to kiss.

Learn to hug.

Learn to count.

Learn to sit.

Learn to stand.

Learn to get up.

Learn to stand up.

Learn to sleep.

Learn to be awake.

Learn to relax.

Learn to just chill.

Learn to answer.

Learn to question everything.

Learn to pose the question.

Learn to answer any question asked of you.

Learn to sell.

Learn to purchase.

Learn not to judge.

Learn to swing.

Learn to swallow.

Learn to chew.

Learn to crawl.

Learn to trust.

Learn to travel.

Learn to discover.

Learn to explore.

Learn to move on.

Learn to carry on.

Learn to just be.

Whatever your reason is for being here, whatever the calling of yours is, whatever the passion of yours is, whatever ignites the fire deep down inside of you, whatever keeps you going, whatever keeps your juices flowing, whatever your desire is, whatever your heart craving is, whatever your soul’s deep hunger is for, whatever would make your body dance, whatever would make your lungs sing, whatever would make your chord pluck, whatever your affair is, whatever your work to do here is, whatever your job here is to finish and whatever your job here is to accomplished, whatever is your whatever.

Whoever has hurt you, whoever has wronged you, whoever has made a mistake in your eyes, whoever has hurt your feelings, whoever has cut you open, whoever has left you broken, whoever has left you broken-hearted, whoever has divide you in half, whoever has left you shattered to millions pieces, whoever has left you in two parts, whoever has cheated on you, whoever has lied to you, whoever has laughed at you, whoever has given up on you, whoever has stopped believing in yourself, whoever has done whatever to you, trust it is none of your trouble, a problem, a challenge, an issue to deal with.

They and you are doing the very best at the time of this happening and occurring with all the resources you have available at hand.

Forgive, forget and move on.

Learn to appreciate the lesson.

Learn to appreciate the learning.

Learn to appreciate the challenge.

Learn to appreciate the teaching.

Learn to appreciate the hard bits.

Learn to appreciate the harsh truths.

Learn to appreciate the difficult parts.

Look for what you want to find and you will find it.

Is there a way to speed up the process?

Could there possibly be a shortcut?

Does timing play a role here?

Could the answer be in a way how you go about achieving your goal?

Could there be a person you could contact, you could reach out, you could get hold of, you can call upon, you could ask for an advice,  you could ask for an opinion, ask for a clarification, ask for an explanation, ask somebody to make it clear to you?

Is there a step by step guide that you could implement and use that would make the process and the journey just a little bit easier for you and for others?

What could or what are the lessons in and for life in general?

I have read today somewhere online that women forgive but never forget whereas men forget but never forgive.

Could there be a different approach to this statement mentioned above?

Could there be a different point of view to this statement mentioned above?

Could there be a different way to this statement mentioned above?

Could we help each other out?

Could men help women out?

Could women help men out?

What could we possibly do and think of and think about to make it easier for one another?

Is there a person in your life who has been waiting for your forgiveness?

Have you been that very person yourself and waiting to be forgiven by someone?

Have you been forgotten by someone?

Have you forgotten someone?

Have you been asked for forgiveness?

How would you forgive someone? Would you be able to do so? Would you be willing to do so? Would you tell the person about that you are forgiving them? Would you do it silently on your own somewhere and at your own speed and at your own pace?

How did you feel when someone has forgiven you for doing something wrong, for making mistakes? Did that mean something to you? Did you will as if you need to apologize, to give more of yourself, to give the same gift that you have been given to someone else just because you felt totally that was the right thing to do?

Did you use words in order to forgive and/or forget?

Did you use gestures in order to forgive and/or forget?

Did you take action steps in order to forgive and/or forget?

Did you make promises in order to forgive and/or forget?

Did you have to make any chances in your life in order to forgive and/or forget?

Did you follow your instincts in order to forgive and/or forget?

Did you follow your intuition in order to forgive and/or forget?

Did you follow your gut feelings in order to forgive and/or forget?

Did you follow your hunch in order to forgive and/or forget?

What does work for YOU??

(1004 words)

Holiday that never ends….

Holiday that never ends….

Have you ever taken a holiday that in your very own eyes seems like never ending?

How would that feel to you?

Is that a period that works the best for you? How long would that be?

What would work miracles for you?

I have been recently thinking and considering a lot. And the decision has been made. The things that are behind me, the ones that I am working with currently and also the ones that must be right in front of me. There is a timeline when I should have all that and much more accomplished. How best to fill these days of holidaying at its best? What sort of things to have myself be engaged in, what kind of people I should surround myself with and what type of activities I should indulge in? Perhaps I should go night swimming, perhaps I should do things I have never ever done before, and perhaps I should say things that I may not even consider saying myself under any and every circumstance.

Would you go back and recall things, people, places, meetings, opportunities missed and opportunities taken, chances missed and chances taken, people approached and the ones not have met yet, meetings attended and meetings being absent from?

Would you go back and reminisce about what you should have done or what you better not go into at all? Would you have any regrets? Would there be any calls not made, the people who you have not touched yet in some very special and profound way? Would there be any work done or left undone? Would there be any speech needed to be completed, would there be any speech left unfinished, untold, unspoken?

Would you just enjoy the moment, laugh with the child, take a nap in child’s bed, and laugh out loud so hard that you would break into tears?

Would you enjoy and savour every single each bite?

Would you slowly sip your favourite healthy drink?

Would you sing your favourite song not only in your morning/evening shower?

Would you offer your helping hand to everyone who needs it even if not asked?

Would you smile more?

Would you be possibly sad less?

Would you tidy up less and left things a bit messy just because you want to?

What would you definitely decide to go on full speed and full power?

What would you definitely decide not to go on full speed and full power?

Would you try and partner up with somebody new?

Would you prefer to spend this time alone and enjoying your very own company?

Would you go back to chatting to your family and friends?

Would you go out and take many and many photographs and pictures?

Would you start writing a journal?

Would you begin volunteering your time?

Would you begin volunteering your advice?

Would you being volunteering your money?

Would you being volunteering your resources?

Would you start building something?

Would you start learning something, anything new?

Would you begin studying a subject you have always wanted to study but never found the time to do so?

Would you begin doing some work in an animal shelter?

Would you finally finish your book?

Would you finally finish your song?

Would you finally finish your painting?

Would you finally finish your art?

Would you finally tell the person you adore about your true and honest feelings you hold toward them?

Would you finally plant a tree?

Would you finally sow a seed?

Would you finally go to a movie and watch that film?

Would you finally write that letter?

Would you finally send that card?

Would you finally invite that very person you love on a date out with you?

Would you finally kiss that person of your dreams?

Would you both finally snuggle?

Would you both finally cuddle?

Would you both finally hug?

Would you both finally embrace?

Would you both finally spoon together?

Would you enjoy more and care less or not at all about what other people think about you and say about you?

Would you sleep less and try to stay up for as long as humanly possible for yourself?

Would you be trying to get in touch with as many friends as many you have in order to share your bliss, to share your happiness, to share your good times, to share your joy, to share your memories, to share your smiles, to share your laugh with, to share your very everything?

Would you go and throw a farewell party?

Would you try to save some money?

Would you go and spend a lot of money?

Would you suffer in silence?

Would you be counting every penny?

Would you be eating non - stop?

Would you be drinking a lot?

Would you stop drinking a car?

Would you being more walking?

Would you go more cycling?

Would you go on more field and arranged trips?

Would you stop and watch and go on exploring all about the stars, and the moon, and the sun and the entire galaxy?

Would you enjoy your food more with your fingers than with the cutlery?

Would you enjoy listening to plays and music for patiently and more with detailed precision?

Would you maybe being writing some poems?

Would you learn and study different culture, different country, different traditions, different habits, different food, different drinks, different people, different and foreign languages, different way of thinking, different way of living, different style of living, different job opportunities, different weather conditions, different currency, different options, different styles of clothing, different style of hairdo, different styles of communicating with one another, different approaches to children and young adults, different ways of handling issues, different ways of handling laws, different ways of speaking up your own mind.

Would you count down the days till the final date?

Would you make all the days count or would you be rather specific?

Would you make a list of all the things to be done, to be needed finished, to be needed seen accomplished?

Go For It.

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