A sign hanging down from their neck…

Make me feel IMPORTANT

THAT is exactly how all the people want to feel, want to be remembered for, want to be reminded of, want to be taken as, want to be thought of on a daily basis.

We are all hungry for attention.

We are all starving for appreciation.

We are all craving for love.

We all want to be fascinating to others.

We all want to be interesting in the eyes of others.

WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO ABOUT THIS?!?

:-) 

How the TOILET saved my Life!! (based on a true story.)

How the TOILET saved my Life!! (based on a true story.)

Well, I suppose this should not be publicly coming out in the open but HEY, it is MY blog and I can blog just about anything I fancy, really….. J

There is quite extraordinary story behind the title of this article, though.

Some things are ordinary and some are just extra, extra extraordinary.

What you decide on is up to you.

How you guide your attitude is up to you.

Patiently waiting while also expecting the very best. ( A human task to achieve ).

Experiencing ups and downs whilst enjoying the journey and having fun all in between.

We have only got one shot. So we may as well make the most of it, the best one!!

All the things are possible and I MUST handle them ALL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

And believe it or not, it can happen to you, too!! And it should!!!!!

“Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?”

Nothing more left to say, really.

People do not care how much you know until they know how much you care!!!

People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care!!!

ü Have you had this one happened to you before?

ü Have you told and spoken lately to people who you care about how much they mean to you??

ü Have you had someone saying so to you?

Ø Try it for yourself!! J

Ø Look for good in people and that is what you will get – more of a good stuff.

Ø You enquire more respect from others => show how you respect them yourself first!!

Ø You enquire more love from others => show how you love them yourself first!!

Ø You enquire more time from others => show how you yourself are more available to them first!!

Ø You enquire more stillness, stability from others => show how you yourself are more peaceful and quiet to them first!!

Ø You enquire more openness from others => show how you yourself are more open and honest to them first!!

Ø You enquire more fairness from others => show how you yourself are more fair to them first!!

Ø You enquire more leadership, initiative, ambition, willingness, appreciation from others => show how you yourself possess all those qualities (and more!) more often to them first!!

BE / SET AN EXAMPLE !!!

Have you told recently to someone close and dear to you how much and what they mean to you?

How much you care about them?

How much you adore them?

How much you love them?

What an important/significant part/role they play and represent in your life?

DO IT NOW !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

J J

Are the teachers always the preachers, too?!?

Are the teachers always the preachers, too?!?

This teacher / preacher relation I have been pondering over for the past couple of weeks. Especially, referring to myself, as I have been doing pretty strongly good job (strangely enough or not!) in this very area.

I like to think of myself as a teacher. Teaching mostly the younger generation, little people you may call them, children.

When I see somebody doing something, saying something, writing something or whatever anything that does not appear ‘right’ in my own eyes and mind, I feel obliged and that I have the very responsibility of noticing it in the first place and then soon afterwards reminding this person of their own deeds and responsibilities as if I was the best teacher, knowing-it-all sort of gal, who knows anything and everything that is to know and in between!!

I mean, who am I to judge? That is correct, by the way.

Have I inquired a diploma or a degree in teaching morale and discipline to my fellow human beings?

Come to think of it, the answer would be: no, not really.

How come that it is always me who is right? Taken it with the grain of salt, of course!

I have been in touch with the very nice person recently who has me ‘showing’ myself the very things and personality skills and abilities, characteristic traits in the most humble and loving ways. Not necessarily that this has been his intention, but most importantly because I have chosen to look for these very  opportunities, for the lessons, take-aways,  to take teachings and learning from and learn all at the same time (not necessarily in that order!), simultaneously, and for that I would be forever grateful!

Intentionally or unintentionally, with or without his even knowing it or noticing it at all, he has been currently the best teacher to me, the open book for me to learn from about myself.

The truth to be told, we are definitely the best teachers of that very ‘subject’ that we ourselves have to learn in order to evolve as human beings and become the best possible versions of ourselves.

And What about you??

How have you been acting/reacting?

Lucie’s 365(6) wisdom treats/pearls/bites/tidbits!! :-) (PART Five)

Lucie’s 365(6) wisdom treats/pearls/bites/tidbits!! :-) (PART Five)

11/3/2013: Relax! Relax! Relax! Relax!

12/3/2013: Feel -> Felt -> Found.

13/3/2013: Laugh when you can !!!!

14/3/2013: Apologize when you should !!!

15/3/2013: Let go of what u can't change

16/3/2013: Kiss slowly................

17/3/2013: Forgive quickly !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

18/3/2013: Give all & have no regrets !!

19/3/2013: Life's 2 short to be 'it' but :-)

20/3/2013: Play hard :-) :-) :-) :-) (-:

21/3/2013: Take chances!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yes

22/3/2013: Our deepest need is to be seen

23/3/2013: Living by Giving!!!!

24/3/2013: Feeling of BELONGING !!! ;-)

25/3/2013: Beauty is the TRUTH.....

26/3/2013: Apply what you learn!!!

27/3/2013: Adapt! Adjust! Accept!

28/3/2013: This is a friendly Universe!(-:

29/3/2013: What you FEED => GROWS

30/3/2013: Ur imperfection = perfection

31/3/2013: Stimulate your SOUL! :-)

1/4/2013: Respect Yourself & Others!!

2/4/2013: You are more than enough.

3/4/2013: U r an original in every way.

4/4/2013: Be even more appreciative!!

5/4/2013: Life is LOVE. Enjoy it. :-)

6/4/2013: Intent!-Attention-No Tension

7/4/2013: Connect. Connect. Connect!

8/4/2013: Be curious, not judgemental!!

9/4/2013: Be Silent, Still, Calm & Content

10/4/2013: U must BE, before U HAVE

P. S. a.k.a. PERSONAL SPACE :-)

P. S. a.k.a. PERSONAL SPACE J

Do you have or have you ever wished you had a bubble all around you and over you that no one would be ever able to touch it, to enter it, to even sense it, to see it, to witness it? 

How would that feel to you? 

How would you feel?

I have been a very, very happy person these days, indeed! J

How could this get any better than this? This must be love…..!!

§  What is there to do when it feels like all the books in the world have been already read by you?

§  What is there to do when it feels like all the movies in the world made have been already watched by you?

§  What is there to do when it feels like all the audios in the world made have been already listened to by you?

§  What is there to do when it feels like all the songs in the world have been already listened to by you?

§  What is there to do when it feels as if you are more than healthy?

§  Who is there to contact when it feels as if you have exhausted all other options and possibilities, people?

Extrovert vs. Introvert

How do you value your very own personal:

Freedom?

Space?

Time?

Your inner world?

Cooling off periods?

Creative side of yours?

Your ‘very own’ wisdom?

Your very own chances?

Your very own opportunities?

Your very own encounters?

Your very own 'journeys'?

Make sure that you do under any and every circumstances!!!

Good LUCK!! J

DOWN THE MEMORY LANE

DOWN THE MEMORY LANE

Oh, let us go and walk down the memory lane today….. J

Let us reflect, reminisce, recall, retrospect, recollect today, shall we?

What are your memories made of?

What are your memories built of?

What are you made of??

What are you built of??

What do your memories consist of?

What do you consist of?

How would you like to memorize your memories?

What is the way to going back?

What is the point in returning?

Here is a quote that quite sums it up:

As we push through the garden gate of the old homestead, we are surprised at how much smaller things are than we remembered them, and how much work needs to be done. -The Hummer-

What if…. Only ….hypothetically speaking… Just only what if we were given a chance that would enable us to walk down the memory lane….

Well, you have been granted just that wish. As simple as that. You can do it anytime, anywhere, with anyone. Would you go ahead and grab it? Would you go after it?

I thought so…. J

And to spice things up a little bit more…..  what if you could change anything while you were there? Would that be something you might be interested in?

Would there be any regrets? Any lessons learnt? Any person to meet, talk to, apologize, say anything, everything? Would you act differently if you only could change a thing, or two?

Was there any opportunity that had been missed? Any speech that had never been given? Any encounter never had had? Any song never had been written/ had sung? Any poem never had been read? Any kiss never had been given? Any meeting never had held? Any seminar never had attended, gone to? Any picture never had been drawn? Any photo never had been taken? Any e-mail, text message never had been sent? Any phone call never had been made? Any dish/meal never had been eaten/made?

Would you want to share the journey with someone?

Would you want to share your feelings/emotions with someone, if at all?

Would you be desperate to make some drastic changes?

Would you wish you had started sooner, perhaps way earlier, or never, ever?

What would help you in order to wonder?

Who would help you with your wondering mind and your own wanderings?

Would you wish someone in your close proximity would take a journey, too?

Would you wish to be accompanied by someone? Who would that person be? Who should that person be in your humble opinion?

Would you be keen on swapping your life with someone else’s??

Would you wish you had a ‘different’ identity? How about your name?

Would you ask anyone for help? What that help be about?

Would we be ever so grateful as to appreciate the opportunity that had been given to us to have such a privilege and a luxury?

We have that right! Not necessarily in order to change our past, etc. but certainly do something about the attitude that we own in and for that particular situation, a circumstance, an occasion.

We can alter our attitude, our view toward any challenge that has come our way.

How?

What about by the way we ask ourselves the following questions:

Is this bad?

Is this good?

Why is this happening to me?

What can I learn from this?

How can I improve?

What can I improve?

How can I enjoy the process?

What can I give as opposed to what can I get?

What can I do at this very moment, at this very minute?

What action/s do I must take right now in order to achieve / in order to succeed?

Anything else comes to your mind??

WHAT ARE YOUR REACTIONS TO THIS TOPIC ?? I am wondering….. J

Being on a Cloud Nine :-)

Being on a Cloud Nine J

Eternal happiness.

Total blast.

A bliss.

Ecstasy.

Euphoria.

Sensation.

Passion.

Have you ever felt like being on a cloud nine?

GO AND FEEL JUST LIKE THAT!!! J

Sometimes of everything you are looking for is the one thing you cannot see!!

Sometimes of everything you are looking for is the one thing you cannot see!!

Well BIG Hello to you all out there.. J

Have you heard this one before?!

What does that say to you?

What does that mean to you?

What does that reflect to you?

What could that be?

Will we be able to provide an example? Ever?

Will you be able to give a sample of ‘this thing’?!?

Something certainly and definitely to ponder over…….. :-)

The best of Luck to you ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LIFE ON GOLDen PLATES….

LIFE ON GOLDen PLATES….

ü Are you aware of how lucky you truly, really are?

ü Are you aware of how blessed you should really feel?

ü Are you aware of how happy you should really be?

ü Are you aware of how you should not take ANYTHING for granted?

ü Are you aware of how grateful you should really be and behave?

ü Are you aware of how you should really conduct your life?

ü Are you aware of how you should live, be in and enjoy your life?

It is so vitally important and necessary that we really understand the real and true priorities in our lives and have the right attitude towards our lives and also the right perspective. So many times we may get caught up in the little, petty things that are not as important as the ones we should tend to on a regular, day to day basis. Let us not make that mistake and mislead ourselves onto the path that takes us nowhere.

What would be the right perspective in any given, particular situation?

Sometimes too much of a good thing is not that good after all… :-)

Sometimes too much of a good thing is not that good after all… J

Yesterday I experienced something that was a real eye opener for me.

The one and only thing I cherish  the very upmost (along with my family!) was being threatened on a very revealing level to me.

I was looking for a sign and I suppose I should have not gotten it and received it and been served to me in any better way.

There is nothing like a real experience, like a real face to face encounter.

It was very scary and frightening and worrisome.

I feel vulnerable enough to share this with others. All of you. And it speaks itself good..!! A confession to be made.

I cannot even cry the good cry of mine as it hurts around my eyes when I do cry!  J

I was trying to put my mind at ease, get my mind off things and distract it and move it toward some productive and conscious work and activity.

Sleep obviously should be helpful. And the magic it did! I always was a huge believer in this analogy.

Locked in my hours and things seem to have improved…. Hooray!!!!! J

Things seem to be getting by or be on the way to an improvement and going along okay now. And I resemble myself back again. Happy days ahead J

And to top it off, the person who seems to be interested in me I seem to be pushing away!

Enough now.

Time to move on!

JUDGEMENT

JUDGEMENT

Have you been judgemental recently? Of whom? Of what? What was the reason? What was the purpose?

Do you judge others?

Do you judge yourself?

What is there to judge?

Are you judging people? According to what, according to whom?

Is there anything to be judged?

Is there a reason to be judgemental? Ever?

What is the most important thing to you in your life??

The stages, popularly known by the acronym DABDA, include:

Denial — "I feel fine."; "This can't be happening, not to me."

Anger —  "Why me? It's not fair!"; "How can this happen to me?"; '"Who is to blame?"

Bargaining — "I'll do anything for a few more years."; "I will give my life savings if..."

Depression — "I'm so sad, why bother with anything?"; "I'm going to die soon so what's the point?"; "I miss my loved one, why go on?"

Acceptance — "It's going to be okay."; "I can't fight it, I may as well prepare for it."

Lucie’s 365(6) wisdom treats/pearls/bites/tidbits!! :-) (PART Four)

Lucie’s 365(6) wisdom treats/pearls/bites/tidbits!! :-) (PART Four)

11/2/2013: Listen to your BODY!!!

12/2/2013: Keep Your Heart Right!

13/2/2013: Give a Gift of Your Presence!!

14/2/2013: What R U saying to yourself?

15/2/2013: Inspire. Inspire. Inspire. :-)

16/2/2013: Embrace your Circumstances.

17/2/2013: H/v Mentality of Abundance

18/2/2013: All WE need is LOVE!

19/2/2013: Laugh Out Loud! LOL

20/2/2013: LESS is sometimes MORE!

21/2/2013: Take time just 4 YOURSELF!

22/2/2013: Serve & Serve & Serve more!

23/2/2013: Be kind rather than right!!!

24/2/2013: Be True To Yourself!!

25/2/2013: EnJoy the Journey !! (-:

26/2/2013: Carpe Diem: Seize the day!

27/2/2013: Practice Self - Discipline!!

28/2/2013: Go home & ♥ your family!!

1/3/2013: Imitation: A form of flattery

2/3/2013: Persevere. Hang in there!!

3/3/2013: Respect, protect and preserve.

4/3/2013: Learn from CHILDREN!

5/3/2013: Give away smth. of value.

6/3/2013: Integrity is priceless !!

7/3/2013: Dream & dream & dream on! :-)

8/3/2013: We are here to serve others!!!

9/3/2013: Swing easy & hit hard!!

10/3/2013: Being is different from Acting